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Title: I am not a vegan...
Post by: hellymedic on 26 January, 2014, 01:01:34 pm
I am not a vegan but I really can't see why it should be SO difficult to cater for a vegan.

A Twitter contact had a rough time recently, remaining effectively unfed on a social night out.

If I were to become vegetarian, I would also become a vegan. It strikes me the dairy and egg producers are involved in more wanton animal death than those that produce meat from animals that have grown outdoors to near maturity. I'm afraid I like animal products too much and don't have the moral gumption to give them up.

If a vegan friend popped in to your home, would providing sustenance be a (big) problem?
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Clare on 26 January, 2014, 01:28:20 pm
That depends on just exactly how 'vegan' the vegan is.

As a cow's milk intolerant vegetarian* I can very easily cater for vegans, we eat vegan quite a lot, however I have come across vegans who will not eat anything which may have been in contact with or even near to an animal or part thereof, this includes such things as tins of plum tomatoes which are produced in a factory where meat is also processed. Or the one I knew as a student who would not eat anything if the company which produced it also produced foods with meat in, even if on a different site. How could I be certain that the farm that produced the vegetables I was using didn't also profit from animal husbandry?

But yeah, in general a bog standard vegan is very easy to cater for.




*The vegetarian bit is because I just don't like meat and has nothing to do with any moral stand.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: L CC on 26 January, 2014, 01:35:08 pm
If a vegan friend popped in to your home, would providing sustenance be a (big) problem?
I view it as my responsibility as host to provide something suitable for a guest, provided I've been informed in advance.

It's hardly beyond the wit of man to put together a vegetable risotto.

I'm not vegan/vegetarian as I honestly do think of animals as deserving of lesser rights, but it's not my place to judge anyone with higher moral standards than me. That doesn't mean every food item I consume is animal product-based!

If someone popped in unannounced I might have more of a problem. That's true of anyone though- we're often out of (for example) milk if you were after a cup of tea.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: hellymedic on 26 January, 2014, 01:48:55 pm
When I said 'popped in' I meant unannounced. A hot meal might take some effort but drink and snack?
Well, they could have an 'infusion', fruit juice or back coffee/tea with a handful of cashews and anything from my overflowing fruit bowl.

Anyway my gripe was with restaurants who couldn't feed a vegan.
They are in the business of providing food.
Why can't they feed without stuffing in some unacceptable ingredients?

It can't/shouldn't be that difficult...
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Notsototalnewbie on 26 January, 2014, 01:55:34 pm
I don't do well with people popping in unannounced full stop, I'm afraid. Living in a studio flat with everything on show means it is often not in a fit state for company unless serious tidying has happened. Some forum members may have discovered this and, remarkably, still remain on good terms with me (I think, anyway). (This may or may not improve once myself, Rob and the dog and all our possessions aren't crammed into 35 sqm of flat.)

I also wouldn't be able to offer someone a biscuit with their tea because I cannot have them in the house because I don't know the meaning of self control.

Restaurants shouldn't struggle, however. I have struggled when travelling in countries that think no meal is complete without a bit of meat and wrapped the garlic mushrooms in bacon without warning.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: clarion on 26 January, 2014, 02:01:13 pm
Easy!

What used to piss me off most was when I went self-catering near Marmande.  I realised that, far from the impression you'd get from the restaurants, France is the best place in the world to be a vegan, with fantastic produce easily available.

Feeding a vegan is not hard.  And most vegetarians and meat-addicts can eat the same without ill-effects.

Oh - and, NSTN, I don't tend to tidy for guests.  Take me as I am.  Perhaps that's an overreaction to my mother, who would clean obsessively, but hey - that's fine.
Title: I am not a vegan...
Post by: citoyen on 26 January, 2014, 02:21:25 pm
If I didn't have anything suitable in the house to feed a guest, I'd go out and get something. Even if the guest were unannounced.

But I probably would be able to rustle something up from what's in the cupboards at any time. (Looking at what's in the cupboards right now, if probably make a chickpea & veg curry.)
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: SteveC on 26 January, 2014, 02:42:44 pm
I have come across vegans who will not eat anything which may have been in contact with or even near to an animal or part thereof, this includes such things as tins of plum tomatoes which are produced in a factory where meat is also processed. Or the one I knew as a student who would not eat anything if the company which produced it also produced foods with meat in, even if on a different site. How could I be certain that the farm that produced the vegetables I was using didn't also profit from animal husbandry?
I'm afraid that is taking hospitality too far in my book. If you're that fussy (for however good a reason) then please don't inflict yourself on others who will probably be trying to do their best.
'Ordinary' vegans are quite easy. You can start with beans on toast (no butter) and move up from that.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: CAMRAMan on 26 January, 2014, 02:43:33 pm
It strikes me the dairy and egg producers are involved in more wanton animal death than those that produce meat from animals that have grown outdoors to near maturity.
50% of all chicks hatched for egg production are macerated or gassed soon after hatching due to the fact that they are born male.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: hellymedic on 26 January, 2014, 02:51:35 pm
If there's a possibility of something non-vegan in the bread, there's always a potato I could shove into the microwave.
I am fortunate to inhabit a suburban semi, which has well-stocked cupboards, fridge, freezer and fruit bowl.
The place is untidy; two bikes in the house, three outside in sheds and panniers, shoes, bike bits & clutter everywhere.
Tough if you don't like it...
(Surely most yacfers would feel at home with all the bike clobber?...)
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: pcolbeck on 26 January, 2014, 02:59:38 pm
What used to piss me off most was when I went self-catering near Marmande.  I realised that, far from the impression you'd get from the restaurants, France is the best place in the world to be a vegan, with fantastic produce easily available.
The French have enough trouble coming to terms with the concept of vegetarian never mind vegan.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Feline on 26 January, 2014, 03:11:15 pm
I could rustle up a nice whole wheat pasta and pesto in a few minutes. More epic vegan creations would require some pre-soaking of chick peas and beans so would require a bit more notice, but the ingredients are all here.

I've served up a vegan leek and potato soup and casserole as an option at an Audax control just in case someone required it!
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Kim on 26 January, 2014, 03:11:49 pm
My ex was[1] a vegan when we were together, so though I'm a card-carrying carnivore, I have a reasonable understanding of the issues involved.


If I were to become vegetarian, I would also become a vegan. It strikes me the dairy and egg producers are involved in more wanton animal death than those that produce meat from animals that have grown outdoors to near maturity.

Agreed.  However, since I have such a hard time finding food that I'm willing and able to eat, that simply isn't an option.  I'm at least as awkward to feed as a vegan, but lack the respect that comes with an easy label or associated moral high ground.

I routinely avoid social situations that involve food, so as not to cause offence.  It sucks, and as such I make a point to respect anyone else's dietary requirements so as not to inflict that sort of thing on others.  It does mean there has to be a dialogue though, if only about how food manufacturers that put whey powder in everything are in league with Stan.


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If a vegan friend popped in to your home, would providing sustenance be a (big) problem?

Probably not significantly worse than a meat-eater appearing unannounced.  We have enough rice, pasta and beans and chips type food stockpiled in case of inability to cook and/or get to the shops, and there's the jar of Marmite[2] with the 2006 expiry date that pretty much only gets eaten by visiting vegans on the basis that "it's not like it's going to go off, is it?".  There's an abundance of good takeaway available locally for emergencies and special occasions, too.

So yeah, what it really comes down to whether it's the lives-on-beige-carbohydrates-from-the-freezer kind of vegan or the organic-hippy-food-snob-cooks-everything-from-scratch kind of vegan.  The latter can provide their own lentils, mysterious fungus and horrid seedy bread, because Tescos.


[1] But has since become vegetarian for health reasons that were incompatible with a dairy-free diet.
[2] Mostly used for bike photos.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: hellymedic on 26 January, 2014, 03:13:00 pm
It strikes me the dairy and egg producers are involved in more wanton animal death than those that produce meat from animals that have grown outdoors to near maturity.
50% of all chicks hatched for egg production are macerated or gassed soon after hatching due to the fact that they are born male.

And I really shouldn't consider the fate of calves born to keep the cows in milk...
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Clare on 26 January, 2014, 03:19:16 pm
I have come across vegans who will not eat anything which may have been in contact with or even near to an animal or part thereof, this includes such things as tins of plum tomatoes which are produced in a factory where meat is also processed. Or the one I knew as a student who would not eat anything if the company which produced it also produced foods with meat in, even if on a different site. How could I be certain that the farm that produced the vegetables I was using didn't also profit from animal husbandry?
I'm afraid that is taking hospitality too far in my book. If you're that fussy (for however good a reason) then please don't inflict yourself on others who will probably be trying to do their best.
'Ordinary' vegans are quite easy. You can start with beans on toast (no butter) and move up from that.

Hell yes, I fully agree. On the other hand it was incredibly easy to wind them up about it with questions such as "How do you know that the miller who supplies the flour for your vegan bread doesn't also supply flour to the local pie factory?" and discussion about whether Bass used isinglass in their brewing process and whether their spent mash was used as farm food. So that's Marmite on toast off the menu then.

Anyway said vegan was back on a full meat diet soon after they graduated and their social group had dispersed around the country.

Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: SteveC on 26 January, 2014, 03:27:37 pm
Reminds me of the baker in the whole food shop I used to use in Southampton. He was on a Zen macrobiotic diet, which was apparently vegan with the added complication of needing to balance the yin and yang in his food. He was a good baker, but one of the most miserable people I've ever met.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: red marley on 26 January, 2014, 03:28:22 pm
As a veggie of 33 years sandwiched around being a vegan for 3 years, I don't think I would find it a practical problem to feed an unannounced vegan appearing on the doorstep. Especially as soya milk is our white liquid sustenance of choice. For me, veggie/veganism isn't quite as binary as it appeared to me when I was 13, but I acknowledge that the guest might have their own reasons for their diet. I've long since given up judging others by what they eat (I'm sure I was an insufferable teenager when it came to The Rules for eating morally).

As a guest turning up at someone else's, I would certainly not expect them to have to make awkward accommodations for my diet. I tend to apologetically say what I don't eat in order to make it clear I wouldn't expect the host to go out of their way to arrange something special. Thankfully most people seem fine with veggie stuff. I think vegan cooking can be a little more challenging for many who are not used to it, and eating out at friends and restaurants was one of the reasons I stopped being vegan.


BTW Feline - most common pestos are not vegan, containing a fair amount of cheese.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Cudzoziemiec on 26 January, 2014, 03:58:06 pm
I can think of one or two diets it would be impossible to cater for at home even with advanced notice - traditional orthodox Brahmins, for instance, will not eat anything cooked by or even in the same kitchen as a non-Brahmin. Though I suppose even in that case, you could just put your kitchen at their disposal...
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: CrinklyLion on 26 January, 2014, 04:01:33 pm
If I'm aware in advance of people's food needs, then I aim to cater for 'em.  I habitually have in the house a range of Kim-friendly foods, an assortment of keto-friendly sustenance, some easy foods for white-food only small children, a wide range of carbs for hungry audaxers and the makings of a couple of sorts of cake and/or flapjacks if needed plus an online account that means easy access to a lot of takeaway choices.  And as a general rule, if you'd rather raid the kitchen and fend for yourself you're welcome to do so!
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Kim on 26 January, 2014, 04:04:18 pm
And as a general rule, if you'd rather raid the kitchen and fend for yourself you're welcome to do so!

I think this is the best approach, along with not being hung up about people bringing their own known-good food.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Feline on 26 January, 2014, 05:05:39 pm
As a veggie of 33 years sandwiched around being a vegan for 3 years, I don't think I would find it a practical problem to feed an unannounced vegan appearing on the doorstep. Especially as soya milk is our white liquid sustenance of choice. For me, veggie/veganism isn't quite as binary as it appeared to me when I was 13, but I acknowledge that the guest might have their own reasons for their diet. I've long since given up judging others by what they eat (I'm sure I was an insufferable teenager when it came to The Rules for eating morally).

As a guest turning up at someone else's, I would certainly not expect them to have to make awkward accommodations for my diet. I tend to apologetically say what I don't eat in order to make it clear I wouldn't expect the host to go out of their way to arrange something special. Thankfully most people seem fine with veggie stuff. I think vegan cooking can be a little more challenging for many who are not used to it, and eating out at friends and restaurants was one of the reasons I stopped being vegan.


BTW Feline - most common pestos are not vegan, containing a fair amount of cheese.

My Pesto is, I grow the basil on the kitchen windowsill  ;D
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Butterfly on 26 January, 2014, 05:14:50 pm


BTW Feline - most common pestos are not vegan, containing a fair amount of cheese.

Most are not even vegetarian. Of the usual jars, only the organic ones are. Fresh pesto usually is veggie, although not vegan.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: phantasmagoriana on 26 January, 2014, 05:15:58 pm
I've been veggie for a very long time, and like the idea of veganism (eggs in particular are a bit of a weird thing to eat, really). I couldn't do it, though, because of cheese. Cheese rules all.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: citoyen on 26 January, 2014, 05:34:21 pm

I couldn't do it, though, because of cheese. Cheese rules all.

Of all the arguments against veganism, this is by far the strongest.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: clarion on 26 January, 2014, 05:36:28 pm
I did miss cheese when vegan, but only having children has stopped me from being one any more.

Maybe when the Little Duck leaves home...
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Pickled Onion on 26 January, 2014, 06:01:07 pm
Agree with Helly's OP - why on earth is it so difficult for a restaurant with trained chefs and everything? It's not uncommon (but surprising nowadays) to have people say "oh, you don't eat meat, what do you eat then?", but for someone who spends their working life cooking it shouldn't be a problem. Like, you have vegetables in your kitchen? And you know how to cook them?

One time on the way to an Audax, I'd got vouchers for 1st class with free 3-course meal. When I said I didn't eat meat they were a bit confused so I said just bring me what everyone else is having, but without the meat. Instead they insisted on making some strange (tiny) concoction of other stuff which left me pretty hungry for the start of two days' cycling!
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: rabbit on 26 January, 2014, 06:14:21 pm
I've been vegan for 19 years so I doubt I'd struggle to cater for one of the really-awkward-lentil-eating-weirdos-that-have-no-right-to-be-compassionate if they turned up on my doorstep.   ;) 

TBH, it's very simple being vegan.  Of course everyone draws the line where they see fit, but 99.9% of the vegans I know would happily eat beans on toast of arriving unannounced and they were offered.  Vegan spread, soya milk, ice cream, chocolate, gravy, stuffing, sausages are all readily available, and cheap in supermarkets nowadays. 

When I first became vegan eating out was very difficult. Now, with the advent of the internet and increasing numbers of ethically aware consumers, most restaurants are happy to help out.  In fact, I have only had one complete refusal in the last five years.  In our small town there are several restaurants including an Indian, Chinese and Pizzeria that are very happy to cater for vegans and do a brilliant job (i.e. don't just serve up salad and chips).  Many of the bigger chains (Pizza Express, Wagamamas for example) are also are particularly helpful.

I'm not fussy though.  I do what I can.  If the restaurant tells me it's good, then I believe them.  If someone makes an effort to cook for me after asking what I eat, I'll not question them on what they have put in it.  If they have tried then they have tried and it always means so much when people do make the effort.  I have a lot of meat eating friends, they are all most respectful of my veganism and I never talk about my ethics unless they directly ask.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Feline on 26 January, 2014, 06:23:54 pm


BTW Feline - most common pestos are not vegan, containing a fair amount of cheese.

Most are not even vegetarian. Of the usual jars, only the organic ones are. Fresh pesto usually is veggie, although not vegan.

It's very easily home made. I've made it with my home grown basil, pine nuts, lemon rind, garlic and extra-virgin olive oil. There's no need to put the Parmesan in when you blend it, just serve it in a separate little bowl for those who want it to add :)
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Kathy on 26 January, 2014, 06:38:16 pm
I'm not a veggie, but (as Auntie C. and others will testify), I'm quite happy catering for veggies. However, I do prefer advance warning - whilst my meals don't revolve around meat ("meat addict", Clarion called it upthread ;D ), I don't let anything go to waste, so a vegetable soup may well include meat stock from a few days ago, or vegetables may be cooked in animal fat.

I guess restaurants may have a problem of cross-contamination, if they are cooking everything in the same oven, or using a non-vegetable stock base like I do. But then, that's not much worse than the problem of contamination in source ingredients - flour contains trace elements of bunnies and field meece.  :-\
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: red marley on 26 January, 2014, 06:47:22 pm
It's very easily home made. I've made it with my home grown basil, pine nuts, lemon rind, garlic and extra-virgin olive oil. There's no need to put the Parmesan in when you blend it, just serve it in a separate little bowl for those who want it to add :)

Mmmm! Can I turn up on your doorstep unannounced?
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Butterfly on 26 January, 2014, 06:59:41 pm
It's very easily home made. I've made it with my home grown basil, pine nuts, lemon rind, garlic and extra-virgin olive oil. There's no need to put the Parmesan in when you blend it, just serve it in a separate little bowl for those who want it to add :)

Mmmm! Can I turn up on your doorstep unannounced?
It does sound delicious!
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Feline on 26 January, 2014, 07:01:53 pm
It's very easily home made. I've made it with my home grown basil, pine nuts, lemon rind, garlic and extra-virgin olive oil. There's no need to put the Parmesan in when you blend it, just serve it in a separate little bowl for those who want it to add :)

Mmmm! Can I turn up on your doorstep unannounced?

No problem! Our bread is Burgen soya and linseed too which I believe is vegan friendly!

Simon is currently in the kitchen whizzing up some home made humus made with the nice organic chick peas he soaked overnight  :thumbsup:
We are not vegetarian or vegan but everything we eat is carefully chosen for where it comes from, and we only eat free range organic meat, eggs and milk. Riverford deliver our local organic veggie box weekly and Simon's Ocado bill is truly horendous  ;D
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: citoyen on 26 January, 2014, 07:02:25 pm

Vegan spread, soya milk, ice cream, chocolate, gravy, stuffing, sausages are all readily available, and cheap in supermarkets nowadays.

As an aside, I do sometimes wonder why veggies eat so many substitute foods like this. Personally, if I were ever to go veggie, I'd rather eat real vegetables than fake meat.

A veggie friend recently alerted me to the existence of fish-free scampi. I had a look at the ingredients list. Sounds disgusting.

If you care what you eat, why would you eat that? Not being judgmental, I just don't get it.

Having said that, as mentioned elsewhere recently, vegetarian haggis can be excellent, but I think that's because it's a thing in its own right and doesn't just try to mimic the non-veggie version.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: geraldc on 26 January, 2014, 07:21:33 pm
I've done a few weeks vegan just to see what health benefits it would have (can't really say I noticed any), also we go vegan for certain Chinese Buddhist religious festivals, although this is more to do with tradition than any personal religious belief.

We have cans of vegan food to be opened in the event we can't be bothered to cook on certain days, so as long the guest likes rice/noodles and variations of tinned fried gluten, they'll be fine.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wheat_gluten_(food).

Personally I could live on chips and ketchup, tortillas and guacamole, falafel in pita etc. I love junk food.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: rabbit on 26 January, 2014, 07:31:32 pm


If you care what you eat, why would you eat that? Not being judgmental, I just don't get it.



Cos it tastes nice (to me)
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: CrinklyLion on 26 January, 2014, 07:33:12 pm
Both my boys eat meat, but the Eldest in particular would far rather have veggie hot dogs than the real thing.  I suspect that the real thing may contain almost as little meat, of course.  They are both junk foods.  I eat veggie sausages because then I can cook one meal for us all, and that meal can be bangers and mash.  And I quite like some of them.  I presume they don't taste particularly of meat - it's so long since I've eaten meat I can't remember.  They certainly don't smell the same.  Similarly, quorn mince means some recipes that are fairly meat-eater friendly are very easy to make - spag bol and that king of thing.  Can't stand the dehydrated soya mince tho, and TVP chunks bring back some grim memories of school cookery lessons and the veggie alternative...

The idea of "veggie" fish fingers or scampi strikes me as truly gruesome, mind.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: barakta on 26 January, 2014, 07:41:48 pm
As Kim said, could almost certainly feed a vegan and indeed anyone else if they were willing to eat tinned/frozen food.  If it was a specific allergy it'd be a case of read the labels and work it out.  I do have one friend I'm reluctant to cook for cos she's intolerant to a WIDE range of food and unless she was cooking with me I know I'd get it wrong.

Pointless pickiness a la Clare's uni friend will result in "Shop is that way, good luck" cos I don't have energy or tolerance for pointless complicatedness.  Kim's ex occasionally did pointless pickiness about only eating food in certain combinations so beans with baked spud and tinned spag with chips (no other combo would do) to which they also got told "shop, that way then...".

I think it's more acceptable these days to encourage people to bring their own food or go to shop if you can't cater for them.  Also people get less freaked. I remember my very trad boiled Scottish food mum hating my dad's veggie and vegan family in the early 80s so they bought their own food. These days my mum will cook up almost anything veggie at no notice and could probably do vegan too along the same lines.

It should be more socially acceptable for people to bring their own food if they feel that's a safer/easier way of getting food they can and will eat.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Kim on 26 January, 2014, 07:47:37 pm
If you care what you eat, why would you eat that? Not being judgmental, I just don't get it.

People don't eat things for all sorts of reasons.  You might quite like a food, but not want to be responsible for what's involved in creating it.  Or be unable to eat a certain ingredient for health reasons.  Or be (or be fed by) a really unimaginative cook.  So substitutes exist.  Some work well, some are best regarded as a completely different foodstuff, and others are patently unfit for purpose (vegan 'cheese' that doesn't melt, for example).
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Kim on 26 January, 2014, 07:49:06 pm
It should be more socially acceptable for people to bring their own food if they feel that's a safer/easier way of getting food they can and will eat.

A thousand times this.  Providing your own food is easy.  Being allowed to do so in social situations is *hard*.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Cudzoziemiec on 26 January, 2014, 07:49:18 pm
...also we go vegan for certain Chinese Buddhist religious festivals, although this is more to do with tradition than any personal religious belief.
Catholicism as practised in Poland involves a fair number of fast days, but "fasting" usually simply means not eating meat for a day.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: CrinklyLion on 26 January, 2014, 07:54:42 pm
If you care what you eat, why would you eat that? Not being judgmental, I just don't get it.

People don't eat things for all sorts of reasons.  You might quite like a food, but not want to be responsible for what's involved in creating it.  Or be unable to eat a certain ingredient for health reasons.  Or be (or be fed by) a really unimaginative cook.  So substitutes exist.  Some work well, some are best regarded as a completely different foodstuff, and others are patently unfit for purpose (vegan 'cheese' that doesn't melt, for example).

Also, while there is some degree of overlap between "people who are veggie" and "people who are health food nutters eat healthily" the two don't necessarily go hand in hand.  Just as it is entirely feasible to eat a healthy diet that either includes or excludes meat, it is also completely possible to eat a very unhealthy diet on either basis.  Chips are vegan, for a start.

Of course, this idea of the unhealthy vegetarian can be confusing for some people.  At a party once when I was a teenager I totally confused my mate Paul's big brother Mark by lighting a fag.  "You smoke?!?  But... but... but you're a vegetarian!".  Totally blew his mind.  And in France once someone looked at me and said "How can you be a vegetarian?  You're FAT!".
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Kim on 26 January, 2014, 07:57:09 pm
Also, while there is some degree of overlap between "people who are veggie" and "people who are health food nutters eat healthily" the two don't necessarily go hand in hand.  Just as it is entirely feasible to eat a healthy diet that either includes or excludes meat, it is also completely possible to eat a very unhealthy diet on either basis.  Chips are vegan, for a start.

Hence my distinction between the two main vegan stereotypes upthread.


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Of course, this idea of the unhealthy vegetarian can be confusing for some people.

Like being a meat-eater at an LGBT event...   :D
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Cudzoziemiec on 26 January, 2014, 08:03:50 pm
I think Crinkly and Kim you're missing Citoyen's point (although maybe I am!) The way I understand it, it's nothing to do with eating healthily, it's that these items are "fake meat" standing in for or imitating their dead-animal originals. I'm not sure they really do much of a job at imitating real meat, but obviously liking and missing the originals is one reason. Mostly, though, I think it's that people are cooking vegily but thinking meatily, cos they've either just become vegetarian/vegan or are catering for someone else, and so are used to a meal of meat item + stuff.  Other reasons are bound to exist.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Pickled Onion on 26 January, 2014, 08:09:20 pm
If you care what you eat, why would you eat that? Not being judgmental, I just don't get it.

People don't eat things for all sorts of reasons.  You might quite like a food, but not want to be responsible for what's involved in creating it.  Or be unable to eat a certain ingredient for health reasons.  Or be (or be fed by) a really unimaginative cook.  So substitutes exist.  Some work well, some are best regarded as a completely different foodstuff, and others are patently unfit for purpose (vegan 'cheese' that doesn't melt, for example).

This ^^

A veggie sausage is only a sausage in that it is cylindrical and can be fried or grilled, they have little other resemblance to a meat sausage. You can make "burgers" out of all sorts of stuff, chick peas, sweetcorn, leftovers, whatever, just because it's in a sesame bun with ketchup on it doesn't make it a poor relation of a beef patty. I don't eat meat cos I don't like it and don't take kindly to people inferring various morals on me for that simple thing. So about the only non-meat thing I won't eat is quorn because it is too much of a realistic substitute, and I guess it's aimed at people with one of the other reasons Kim mentions.

One thing I don't get is soya milk in tea. Soya milk falls into the "completely different foodstuff" category, it's only called "milk" because it's a white liquid, it's no more like milk than peanut butter is a substitute for butter. Each to their own, of course, but if you want to drink tea, why not just the tea?
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: rr on 26 January, 2014, 08:10:01 pm
When I joined my current employer we did a lot of residential training courses. The inability of several large hotels to cater for the veggies and vegan was breath taking -pasta with a tin of tomatoes was one of the better efforts. Protein free diets were routine.
As for the Scottish university where we spent 10 weeks, they served fish concealed in veggie food toto  someone allergic to fish, put Thai fish sauce in the vegan's food and gave Moslems ham sandwiches to break their Ramadan fast.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: hellymedic on 26 January, 2014, 08:14:22 pm
I have not tried soya milk in tea but I have had tea both with and without milk.
They taste very different because the fat in milk takes up some of the tannic bitterness.
If soya milk did this to tea, I might wish to use it were I vegan.
I don't like black tea.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: barakta on 26 January, 2014, 08:15:42 pm
Our work's summer BBQ is horrendous at catering for vegetarians despite giving feedback about good veggie caterers locally, there being large numbers of them and it being different caterers each time.  They also don't make sure the veggies get served first so often there's no veggie food left at all.

There is no excuse in 2014 for not being able to cater for common dietary needs, ESPECIALLY when you make those with said needs book in advance that they have them. 

I would make a serious complaint against an org who misled about contents of food like rr's examples, that's shutdown their licence to caterworthy as they clearly don't care and could kill someone. The Muslims would have an Equality Act level complaint too.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: barakta on 26 January, 2014, 08:17:19 pm
A friend of mine describes soya milk as "if you consider it a replacement for milk, it mings, but if you treat it as something different it's fine".

Annoyingly after becoming lactose intolerant I then became even more intolerant to sodding soya milk which is often the non-dairy substitute available for tea.  I don't like drinking tea black.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: pcolbeck on 26 January, 2014, 08:23:43 pm
Barakta how do you become lactose intolerant and is this common? I thought lactose tolerance was a genetic mutation you either had or you didn't. I am obviously wrong.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Kim on 26 January, 2014, 08:27:45 pm
It's commonly an acquired condition (in those with the mutation that allows for lactase production into adulthood) after an infection destroys the lining of the gut that produces lactase.  Usually it re-grows after a few months, but evidently not enough to allow for barakta's previous levels of milk consumption.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: pcolbeck on 26 January, 2014, 08:28:50 pm
Ta. You learn something every day.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: hellymedic on 26 January, 2014, 08:30:29 pm
Some lactose intolerance is genetic but some people become lactose intolerant after a diarrhoeal illness.
Sometimes this is permanent.

Attacks of D&V are common and lactose intolerance can have an insidious slow onset.
The symptoms can be put down to many other causes.

The lacto-free website is informative.
http://www.lactofree.co.uk (http://www.lactofree.co.uk)

My Dad is lactose intolerant, as is my sister.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Kim on 26 January, 2014, 08:33:57 pm
Good stuff that lactofree.  Tastes pretty much like normal milk (slightly sweeter, as you'd expect from the lactose being broken down into glucose), only twice as expensive and with a phenomenal shelf-life.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: pcolbeck on 26 January, 2014, 08:38:11 pm
Most of the world is lactose intolerant, they don't have the mutation. It's a fairly recent one (under 8000 years ago)  It's happened perhaps twice once in Northern Europeans and once in Africa. 
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: rabbit on 26 January, 2014, 08:39:33 pm
I have not tried soya milk in tea but I have had tea both with and without milk.
They taste very different because the fat in milk takes up some of the tannic bitterness.
If soya milk did this to tea, I might wish to use it were I vegan.
I don't like black tea.

^that  :thumbsup:

I likes (unsweetened) soya milk in tea very much.  10 cups a day normally.  Didn't drink soya milk for the two years of giving up milk so I didn't really go through the transition - first time I had it I thought it was nice.  I have had a few (omnivore) people try soya milk at mine and end up liking it a lot to the point they have it themselves most of the time now.  My OH is very much a meaty/dairy eater, yet he loves soya hot chocolates. 
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: red marley on 26 January, 2014, 08:40:37 pm
I positively prefer soya milk over dairy (I have no intolerance of either). Dairy milk in tea, or with cereal just tastes horribly sickly and claggy to me now, just as for many used to semi-skimmed milk, gold top milk would taste too rich.  As with veggie sausages, one of its advantages is that it can be used as a substitute in all sorts of recipes without faff. In fact one of my favourites combines both - veggie toad in the hole.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: hellymedic on 26 January, 2014, 08:45:38 pm
Lactofree tastes fine.
It doesn't seem pricy compared to the 79p/pint our milkman charges for fresh cow juice in glass bottles. (Chilled Lactofree is £1.34/litre at Sainsbury's online or 76p/pint)
Our milkman only sells UHT Lactofree, which is just as  :sick: as all UHT milk. I'd avoid UHT milk in any form.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Kim on 26 January, 2014, 08:46:13 pm
What's a milkman?
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: DrMekon on 26 January, 2014, 08:50:35 pm
I'm a veggie (because I get queasy easily), and avoid milk because I don't like the taste. However sweetened soya milk is delicious. Love it in tea, adore it in porridge. S can't stand un sweetened soya, but unsweetened almond milk is lovely too.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: hellymedic on 26 January, 2014, 08:54:13 pm
What's a milkman?

An unfortunate chap with an unsustainable business we are trying to support for as long as humanly possible.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: L CC on 26 January, 2014, 08:55:32 pm
Also, while there is some degree of overlap between "people who are veggie" and "people who are health food nutters eat healthily" the two don't necessarily go hand in hand.  Just as it is entirely feasible to eat a healthy diet that either includes or excludes meat, it is also completely possible to eat a very unhealthy diet on either basis.  Chips are vegan, for a start.
We have a name for the "unhealthy" type- chips & chocolate vegetarians. They tend not to actually eat much in the way of vegetables. (Dreadful stereotype based on several vegetarian teenage girls). They always, however, get vegetarian foods to their liking when they visit here, hostess with the mostest, and all that.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Kim on 26 January, 2014, 08:58:10 pm
What's a milkman?

An unfortunate chap with an unsustainable business we are trying to support for as long as humanly possible.

I haven't lived anywhere with a milkman since I went to university.  Not sure how much is due to the decline of milk deliveries in general, or just from living in areas populated primaritly by Penniless Student Oafs and/or ethnic minorities who lack the lactase mutation.

Actually, I remember seeing milk deliveries in Canterbury, but not on our road.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: pcolbeck on 26 January, 2014, 09:10:03 pm
We have a milkman. The village being 5 miles from the nearest shop probably helps him retain his customer base as its a royal PITA to pop to the shop to buy some if you have forgotten and run out.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Martin on 26 January, 2014, 09:27:39 pm
I am not a vegan but I really can't see why it should be SO difficult to cater for a vegan.

A Twitter contact had a rough time recently, remaining effectively unfed on a social night out.

It strikes me the dairy and egg producers are involved in more wanton animal death than those that produce meat from animals that have grown outdoors to near maturity. I'm afraid I like animal products too much and don't have the moral gumption to give them up.

If a vegan friend popped in to your home, would providing sustenance be a (big) problem?

do you eat meat? in which case you are saying you exercise no control over your diet but cast aspertions on those who do on sermantics? Maybe I'm just reading too much into it after 26 years of guilt trip comments, for me it's simples I don't like meat and don't wish to eat any of the by products of it as by and large they are unhealthy

anyway to answer your question yes I would find it very hard as an awful lot of vegetarian produce includes dairy fish and egg products even in miniscule quantities; take them away and you have vegetables (probably organic) and err spices and water  ???

veggies are much easier; it's either from the carcass of a dead animal or not
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Eccentrica Gallumbits on 26 January, 2014, 09:30:48 pm

Vegan spread, soya milk, ice cream, chocolate, gravy, stuffing, sausages are all readily available, and cheap in supermarkets nowadays.

As an aside, I do sometimes wonder why veggies eat so many substitute foods like this. Personally, if I were ever to go veggie, I'd rather eat real vegetables than fake meat.

Because, like the meat equivalents, they're quick, easy and tasty. And for some people, choosing not to eat meat doesn't mean choosing not to eat pretend meat. I love Linda McCartney red onion & thyme fake sausages, and I like quorn fake ham, and Tesco quorn cottage pie, although I hardly ever eat any of them.

I regularly eat a vegan pilaf for my tea - bobb's had it too, and likes it. Onion, garlic, brown rice, peanuts or almonds, peas, turmeric, cumin, stock. Tasty, filling and nutritious. I could knock up a vegan soup, curry or dhal easily enough. And I suppose a vegan dessert, using marg instead of butter.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Feline on 26 January, 2014, 09:48:24 pm
I am not a vegan but I really can't see why it should be SO difficult to cater for a vegan.

A Twitter contact had a rough time recently, remaining effectively unfed on a social night out.

It strikes me the dairy and egg producers are involved in more wanton animal death than those that produce meat from animals that have grown outdoors to near maturity. I'm afraid I like animal products too much and don't have the moral gumption to give them up.

If a vegan friend popped in to your home, would providing sustenance be a (big) problem?

do you eat meat? in which case you are saying you exercise no control over your diet but cast aspertions on those who do on sermantics? Maybe I'm just reading too much into it after 26 years of guilt trip comments, for me it's simples I don't like meat and don't wish to eat any of the by products of it as by and large they are unhealthy

anyway to answer your question yes I would find it very hard as an awful lot of vegetarian produce includes dairy fish and egg products even in miniscule quantities; take them away and you have vegetables (probably organic) and err spices and water  ???

veggies are much easier; it's either from the carcass of a dead animal or not

Martin, people who say they eat meat are not necessarily people who exercise no control over their own diet. I am neither vegetarian nor vegan but I do exercise complete and utter and control and am actually very fussy. To define vegan food as veggies with a bit of spices and water shows an distinct lack of inventiveness in the kitchen IMO :)
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: hellymedic on 26 January, 2014, 09:50:19 pm
I am not a vegan but I really can't see why it should be SO difficult to cater for a vegan.

A Twitter contact had a rough time recently, remaining effectively unfed on a social night out.

It strikes me the dairy and egg producers are involved in more wanton animal death than those that produce meat from animals that have grown outdoors to near maturity. I'm afraid I like animal products too much and don't have the moral gumption to give them up.

If a vegan friend popped in to your home, would providing sustenance be a (big) problem?

do you eat meat? in which case you are saying you exercise no control over your diet but cast aspertions on those who do on sermantics? Maybe I'm just reading too much into it after 26 years of guilt trip comments, for me it's simples I don't like meat and don't wish to eat any of the by products of it as by and large they are unhealthy

anyway to answer your question yes I would find it very hard as an awful lot of vegetarian produce includes dairy fish and egg products even in miniscule quantities; take them away and you have vegetables (probably organic) and err spices and water  ???

veggies are much easier; it's either from the carcass of a dead animal or not

I do eat meat. I am casting aspersions on those who, whilst in the catering sector, have failed to cater for my contact.

I don't see that as a 'moral' issue; I see it as a regrettable failure to cater.

That is all.

I have seen a friend on a wheat-free diet go very hungry; that also annoyed me. Supplying a potato is not expensive, complicated or rocket science.

Is it?
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: clarion on 26 January, 2014, 09:56:42 pm
I've just had a roast dinner with Linda McCartney Red Onion & Rosemary Sausages.  Lovely.

I can't even remember what a 'real' sausage tastes like.  Nor bacon, nor any other meat.  But I like sausages. :D
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Martin on 26 January, 2014, 09:57:52 pm
and what has

"It strikes me the dairy and egg producers are involved in more wanton animal death than those that produce meat from animals that have grown outdoors to near maturity*"

to do with a potato? or indeed people like me who choose to limit their diet for personal reasons

* I think quite a few lambs (and a lot of calves but mostly not in the UK) may disagree
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: clarion on 26 January, 2014, 09:59:09 pm
... my meals don't revolve around meat ("meat addict", Clarion called it upthread ;D ), I don't let anything go to waste, so a vegetable soup may well include meat stock from a few days ago, or vegetables may be cooked in animal fat.
...

Yes.  I hope that term didn't come across as a bit militant.  I was thinking of those (unlike you) who can't even conceive of a meal without a bit of meat included.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Martin on 26 January, 2014, 10:06:45 pm
To define vegan food as veggies with a bit of spices and water shows an distinct lack of inventiveness in the kitchen IMO :)

or the fact that I've never had to cater for vegans?
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Butterfly on 26 January, 2014, 10:07:20 pm

Vegan spread, soya milk, ice cream, chocolate, gravy, stuffing, sausages are all readily available, and cheap in supermarkets nowadays.

As an aside, I do sometimes wonder why veggies eat so many substitute foods like this. Personally, if I were ever to go veggie, I'd rather eat real vegetables than fake meat.


Also, you need protein and whilst it is available in dairy, nuts or pulses, they tend to be either somewhat high in fat or require some longer preparation and just bunging some veggie sausages in the oven is a good compromise :). I grew up with no meat substitutes, my (veggie) mother doesn't like them and never used them. It's nice to have variety. 
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: hellymedic on 26 January, 2014, 10:10:00 pm
and what has

"It strikes me the dairy and egg producers are involved in more wanton animal death than those that produce meat from animals that have grown outdoors to near maturity*"

to do with a potato? or indeed people like me who choose to limit their diet for personal reasons

* I think quite a few lambs (and a lot of calves but mostly not in the UK) may disagree

I am not a vegan. I don't pretend to be a vegan.
I have friends who are vegan.
I think they should be fed.
Amongst other foods, I suggest they could be served with potato.
I am sorry if this makes you angry.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Julian on 26 January, 2014, 10:10:55 pm
Living with C I do a lot of veggie meals.  Many of them are vegan, so catering for a vegan is pretty easy.  Biggest issue is usually that we don't keep milk alternatives without warning.

I find catering for vegans much easier than catering for gluten-free diets (although I'm getting a lot better at it).

BIL is gluten-free and allergic (or possibly intolerant, can't recall) to potatoes. 
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Feline on 26 January, 2014, 10:15:09 pm
To define vegan food as veggies with a bit of spices and water shows an distinct lack of inventiveness in the kitchen IMO :)

or the fact that I've never had to cater for vegans?

So the bit where you assert that eating meat means the following
 

do you eat meat? in which case you are saying you exercise no control over your diet but cast aspertions on those who do on sermantics? Maybe I'm just reading too much into it after 26 years of guilt trip comments, for me it's simples I don't like meat and don't wish to eat any of the by products of it as by and large they are ....

Are those of us who eat meat supposed to feel this is a fair accusation? Sheesh. I respect everyone's dietary choices, and certainly don't accuse those who differ from my own as being in some way ignorant or 'semantic'.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: hellymedic on 26 January, 2014, 10:16:38 pm

BIL is gluten-free and allergic (or possibly intolerant, can't recall) to potatoes.

That is more of a challenge!
Is he OK with rice?
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Kim on 26 January, 2014, 10:17:38 pm
I can't even remember what a 'real' sausage tastes like.

Almost, but not quite, entirely unlike a British Sausage.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Martin on 26 January, 2014, 10:18:10 pm
and what has

"It strikes me the dairy and egg producers are involved in more wanton animal death than those that produce meat from animals that have grown outdoors to near maturity*"

to do with a potato? or indeed people like me who choose to limit their diet for personal reasons

* I think quite a few lambs (and a lot of calves but mostly not in the UK) may disagree

I am not a vegan. I don't pretend to be a vegan.
I have friends who are vegan.
I think they should be fed.
Amongst other foods, I suggest they could be served with potato.
I am sorry if this makes you angry.

it doesn't make me angry at all; tbh the OP did contain two topics, one a comment about failure to cater and the other about what would we do in the situation?

If vegans are going to pitch up on spec at a social night out they stand a good chance of going unfed for reasons stated upthread (whether at friends or a commercial oulet)
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Julian on 26 January, 2014, 10:26:19 pm

BIL is gluten-free and allergic (or possibly intolerant, can't recall) to potatoes.

That is more of a challenge!
Is he OK with rice?

Certain types of rice, yes. I didn't even know it was possible to be allergic to potatoes until I met him!
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: L CC on 26 January, 2014, 10:27:39 pm
Except that unlike my house, where failure to feed the inhabitants is sadly not unheard of, failure to feed paying customers, in 2014, who happen to choose not to eat animal products, is not on.
It's far from unreasonable to expect a commercial establishment to be able to provide at least one vegan option on their menu. (Unless, I suppose, it's a carnivorous speciality restaurant).
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: hellymedic on 26 January, 2014, 10:28:50 pm
and what has

"It strikes me the dairy and egg producers are involved in more wanton animal death than those that produce meat from animals that have grown outdoors to near maturity*"

to do with a potato? or indeed people like me who choose to limit their diet for personal reasons

* I think quite a few lambs (and a lot of calves but mostly not in the UK) may disagree

I am not a vegan. I don't pretend to be a vegan.
I have friends who are vegan.
I think they should be fed.
Amongst other foods, I suggest they could be served with potato.
I am sorry if this makes you angry.

it doesn't make me angry at all; tbh the OP did contain two topics, one a comment about failure to cater and the other about what would we do in the situation?

If vegans are going to pitch up on spec at a social night out they stand a good chance of going unfed for reasons stated upthread (whether at friends or a commercial oulet)

Point in my OP is that it was NOT on spec...

Most people I know who want different diet on social occasions give plenty of notice. At a recent Bar Mitzvah, I sat next to a veggie (next to whom I'd sat at the previous Bar Mitzvah) and observed how the caterers fed him. This is always an education...
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Feanor on 26 January, 2014, 10:33:23 pm
In relation to restaurants, not pre-arranged private dinners...

I don't think a restaurant has any obligation to provide special provision for anyone.
It's a commercial business: it's saying 'Here's what we have: if you like it, buy it'.
If you don't like it, move on.

Someone organising a group night out might reasonably consider choosing a restaurant with options available for all the attendees, to a point.

But that 'point' has to be assessed at the time.
If one of our group was a fruitarian, and I was organising a night out, then I'm sorry, you're too much of an outlier in the dataset.

You have to accept that the more restrictive your dietary rules are, then the more restricted your options for eating out are.

Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Butterfly on 26 January, 2014, 10:37:51 pm
Most people I know who want different diet on social occasions give plenty of notice. At a recent Bar Mitzvah, I sat next to a veggie (next to whom I'd sat at the previous Bar Mitzvah) and observed how the caterers fed him. This is always an education...

Caterers at events can be appalling. We went to a big, expensive do for my aunt's 40th wedding anniversary. The vegetarian offering was pasta in an uninteresting tomato sauce. Much like what I would give my sister if she turned up unannounced on my doorstep with her 5 children. Not really equivalent to the (£££) meat eaters provision, and they had been informed that there were a lot of veggies.

Another pre-booked lunch was a tiny mushroom risotto when the meat eaters were given a huge plate of lamb. The charge was the same. >:(
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Julian on 26 January, 2014, 10:42:59 pm
I often have the veggie option if I have to pre-book a dinner because the meat option is usually chicken and it will be unhappy chicken.  So at C's work dinner a year or so ago, I had the veggie option and it turned out to be 'butternut squash ravioli.'  which was fine except it was literally one ravioli in a sauce that owed more to Robinson's orange squash than butternut squash.  The meat eaters got a half chicken (overcooked to the point of incineration, probably an unhappy one, so I was happy with my choice). 

There would have been nothing there for vegans.  I do tend to think if I could do a better impromptu veggie / vegan meal, then a caterer who is getting £££ per head for this should have a better grip on the issue.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: nicknack on 26 January, 2014, 10:48:15 pm
I don't like meat and don't wish to eat any of the by products of it as by and large they are unhealthy

Utter tosh.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Martin on 26 January, 2014, 10:52:19 pm
IMO by and large they are unhealthy

any better?
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: nicknack on 26 January, 2014, 10:54:45 pm
Ok. It's your opinion, but in what way do you think they are unhealthy?
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: barakta on 26 January, 2014, 11:07:57 pm
Yeah, my lactose intolerance came on suddenly after norovirus type thing although I couldn't really do milk+cereal in the mornings without feeling bloated sometimes before that, but after the illness I stopped being able to do 'tea' levels of milk and never got that back.

It was about 4 months after developing lactose intolerance the soya milk started to make me sick so I retried lactofree which did work and tasted better. 

I keep testing the soya milk out but it makes me churn instantly, I can't actually drink even 20ml in tea without retching which is even worse than normal milk. I don't seem to have any intolerance to soya as a solid in bread or other food so I don't know why soya milk makes me so retchy.

Most milk substitutes are fairly horrible. The only other one I'd use if I couldn't get lactofree would be oatmilk which is easily made myself. The others all taste like crap.

I'd cook with milk substitutes, I used to use up leftover soyamilk from visiting vegans by using it as a base for a sauce cos it didn't curdle with heat and reduced nicely texturewise.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: pcolbeck on 26 January, 2014, 11:35:56 pm
IMO by and large they are unhealthy

any better?

Yes but it still doesn't make it true. Millions of years of evolution have gone into making humans omnivores. We are evolved to eat meat, it's not unhealthy. I will grant you that we tend to eat too much and a lot of meat products are over processed but there is nothing unhealthy per se about meat.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: citoyen on 27 January, 2014, 06:40:00 am
Doesn't meat give you cancer? Or was that last week's Daily Mail scare story? Maybe meat is good for you this week.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Martin on 27 January, 2014, 08:48:27 am
IMO by and large they are unhealthy

any better?

Yes but it still doesn't make it true. Millions of years of evolution have gone into making humans omnivores. We are evolved to eat meat, it's not unhealthy

not strictly true, yes we are evolved as omnivores but our teeth do not cope well with raw meat, more suited fruits, nuts, berries and grubs. It's only the advent of cooking and domestic rather than wild animal meat that has accounted for humans' increase in meat consumption to the point where it becomes a daily (or even 3 times daily) occurence. That adaptation is much later than the evolution of our digestive systems and teeth. The same is also true of our use of cultivated vegetables and carbs like wheat and rice

Look at hunter gatherer societies and you will see a lot less meat and a lot more veg on their menu
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: L CC on 27 January, 2014, 09:03:59 am
Look at hunter gatherer societies and you will see a lot less meat and a lot more veg on their menu
Amazing how people view 'facts' through their own desire: confirmation bias.

Paleo fans claim a higher proportion of fat & protein/fewer carbs in hunter gatherer societies. Keto fans claim higher levels of meat & fat (Inuits live of pemmican for months, Masai drink blood).
Different peoples ate/eat different things depending on their local environment. Historically people died in their thirties and forties.

Seems to me any peoples who are desperate for food are going to eat the most calorie/nutrient rich stuff they can find. That's meat. That's certainly what chimpanzees do after all- eat fruit & vegetation most of the time but when they get the chance will gorge on meat.

What happened historically is irrelevant. We can be healthy on a variety of diets, and we can take supplements and substitutes if our moral stance or whatever preference makes some foods undesirable or distasteful. It's one of the benefits of living in a rich society, we get to choose.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: citoyen on 27 January, 2014, 10:50:33 am
I don't think a restaurant has any obligation to provide special provision for anyone.
It's a commercial business: it's saying 'Here's what we have: if you like it, buy it'.
If you don't like it, move on.

Depends on the restaurant. Some restaurants design their menu based on what ingredients they have, or buy their ingredients to fit their menu, and going "off menu" can cause problems. I can see why such places might be reluctant to be accommodating.

On the other hand, you shouldn't be in the hospitality business if you aren't prepared to be hospitable.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: clarion on 27 January, 2014, 10:59:20 am
Most places design their menu around what Brake Brothers are supplying.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Euan Uzami on 27 January, 2014, 11:00:38 am
not strictly true, yes we are evolved as omnivores but our teeth do not cope well with raw meat, more suited fruits, nuts, berries and grubs. It's only the advent of cooking and domestic rather than wild animal meat that has accounted for humans' increase in meat consumption to the point where it becomes a daily (or even 3 times daily) occurence. That adaptation is much later than the evolution of our digestive systems and teeth. The same is also true of our use of cultivated vegetables and carbs like wheat and rice


It's partly the invention of fire that is why we are the dominant species on the planet.
It means it doesn't take us forever to eat a meal and can find other things to do with our time, like, inventing stuff, industrialization, and corralling all the other species' into line. If we hadn't have invented fire then we would be pretty much spending all day eating, like lions do.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Charlotte on 27 January, 2014, 11:02:28 am
If a vegan friend popped in to your home, would providing sustenance be a (big) problem?

As Julian has already said - absolutely not.  Our cupboards are stuffed full of tinned vegetables, pulses, lentils, silken tofu, nuts and a load of different oils and vegan friendly sauces.  The fridge usually has a variety of veggies ready to go, too.

I describe myself as a pragmatic vegetarian.  I jacked in the meat over twenty years ago for ethical reasons, but as time went on, I realised that this was just a line in the sand.  If you're doing it purely for ethical reasons, there's the danger that you'll get more and more concerned about your food, to the point where veganism becomes the only possible option.

These days I think that whatever you eat is going to impact on animals, the environment and your fellow human being somehow.  Linda McCartney has to get her soy beans from somewhere and chances are, the agribusinesses that support the manufacture of Quorn or processed tofu or whatever are just as evil in their own way as anything else.  I don't think eating meat is wrong per se, I'd just rather not do it myself.

So I'm an ovo-lacto-vegetarian, who keeps chickens and tries to avoid buying unhappy eggs.  I don't stress about rennet in my stinky cheese and I bought a new leather jacket last year.  I don't find the idea of eating meat at all attractive and the though of fish just makes my stomach turn. 
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: citoyen on 27 January, 2014, 11:05:25 am
Most places design their menu around what Brake Brothers are supplying.

I prefer to avoid eating in such establishments if I can help it. Veggie or not, I don't often find much that appeals on their menus.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: menthel on 27 January, 2014, 11:11:27 am
No problem for us to knock together something vegan. I have a wife whom is Bengali, so we happily eat veggie bengali food which is frequently vegan (and very tasty) and we both love tofu, so there is usually tofu and tonnes of veggies knocking round the house!

Ps, if you ever get the chance to eat proper bengali food do- it is a truly great cuisine. It differs between West Bengal and Bangladesh (East Bengal) but is different from a lot of other Indian cuisine. Oh my, I want to go to Calcutta right now and pig out!
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: geraldc on 27 January, 2014, 11:25:40 am
I think the if you're going to down the vegan route, then bring a packed lunch just in case.  If they can't feed you, then they can't object to you eating your own food.  If at a commercial establishment they may charge the equivalent of corkage or whatever for using their plates, but if going round a friends house, they really can't object.

Why are so many vegetarian options based around goats cheese? I eat the stuff, but it is quite a love it or hate it cheese. It does seem quite a high risk option, a bit like having offal as a meat choice.

The one thing I do find amusing are vegetarians/vegans who go travelling, don't speak the local language, and then complain about not being able to find food to eat.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Woofage on 27 January, 2014, 11:43:37 am
Why are so many vegetarian options based around goats cheese?

Lack of imagination, pure and simple. Goat cheese is full of flavour so it makes an easy dish without having to think. This annoys me.

On the lack of thinking front, one aspect of my previous employment (and a particular individual) used to really really really wind me up no end. Here goes: if the Co had an early team meeting, bacon sandwiches would be provided. Not great if, like me, you're not a meat eater. I dropped a heavy hint the first time it happened (I was one of 2 NMEs in a team of 20-30 or so) but the practice continued. I even mentioned the "D" word on at least one occasion but nothing. I should have just lied and told them I'm a Muslim and said I would sue them for discrimination. That might have focussed the mind :demon:.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: anotherdeadhero on 27 January, 2014, 12:01:15 pm
Mrs ADH can't eat brassicas, and often has problems with processed bread. So that is spinnach, greens, and pizza out.

Eating out can be really rather difficult, especially in social situations. Trying to find out what is actually in stuff on the menu is seemingly nigh-on impossible.

We often end up ordering two things that she can probably eat, then I eat whatever turns out to have undeclared brassicas in it.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: hellymedic on 27 January, 2014, 01:30:44 pm

On the other hand, you shouldn't be in the hospitality business if you aren't prepared to be hospitable.

^^^^^
This.
In spades.
IMO
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: hellymedic on 27 January, 2014, 01:33:09 pm
Mrs ADH can't eat brassicas, and often has problems with processed bread. So that is spinnach, greens, and pizza out.

Eating out can be really rather difficult, especially in social situations. Trying to find out what is actually in stuff on the menu is seemingly nigh-on impossible.

We often end up ordering two things that she can probably eat, then I eat whatever turns out to have undeclared brassicas in it.

I don't think she'd have any trouble at tonight's venue.
Vegetables are all but absent.
Menu is mostly fries and grills.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: hellymedic on 27 January, 2014, 01:43:12 pm
Most places design their menu around what Brake Brothers are supplying.

I prefer to avoid eating in such establishments if I can help it. Veggie or not, I don't often find much that appeals on their menus.

That is commendable and fine until you feel obliged to attend the Big Social Group Do.

I would quite like a Big Social Group Do if
1) The food was palatable, attractive, healthy & well able to cater for special dietary needs.
2) Facilities for disabled people were not such a frequent nightmare.

It seems I am too picky though I persist in the delusion that I am reasonable...
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: red marley on 27 January, 2014, 01:44:50 pm
Why are so many vegetarian options based around goats cheese?

Having done some extensive research in Paris, I believe French for 'vegetarian' is 'Salade aux chèvre chaud'.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: hellymedic on 27 January, 2014, 01:54:05 pm
What *really* gets me is, as Woofage alluded, the lack of imagination.
At the Bar Mitzvah I mentioned upthread, my veggie companion was served an *excellent* butternut squash soup, which appeared much better than the 'chicken' soup served to the masses.
He didn't fare quite so well with one main course, which consisted of a tart.
With another main course, he just had a larger serving of vegetables and no real source of protein. Dairy must not be served with meat (or use the same crockery) at strictly kosher meals.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Martin on 27 January, 2014, 02:18:10 pm
Look at hunter gatherer societies and you will see a lot less meat and a lot more veg on their menu
Amazing how people view 'facts' through their own desire: confirmation bias.

Paleo fans claim a higher proportion of fat & protein/fewer carbs in hunter gatherer societies. Keto fans claim higher levels of meat & fat (Inuits live of pemmican for months, Masai drink blood).
Different peoples ate/eat different things depending on their local environment. Historically people died in their thirties and forties.

Seems to me any peoples who are desperate for food are going to eat the most calorie/nutrient rich stuff they can find. That's meat. That's certainly what chimpanzees do after all- eat fruit & vegetation most of the time but when they get the chance will gorge on meat.

What happened historically is irrelevant. We can be healthy on a variety of diets, and we can take supplements and substitutes if our moral stance or whatever preference makes some foods undesirable or distasteful. It's one of the benefits of living in a rich society, we get to choose.

yes I agree; just pointing out that having a plentiful supply of edible meat is not something we've evolved with; there's a big difference between evolution and adaptation. We have long lost the ability to intinctively go out and hunt something, so we eat farm animals (and fish vaccumed out of the sea) instead
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Kim on 27 January, 2014, 02:30:33 pm
We have long lost the ability to intinctively go out and hunt something, so we eat farm animals (and fish vaccumed out of the sea) instead

I don't think that's true of the human race in general.  Plenty of people are still regularly hunting for survival (both literal and economic) all over the world.  Though those of us in a position to make use of agriculture generally take it as the easier and more reliable option.

And it's not like we've forgotten how to hunt so have to go to Tescos.  We developed Tescos because it's better than going out hunting.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: anotherdeadhero on 27 January, 2014, 02:33:26 pm
Why are so many vegetarian options based around goats cheese?

Having done some extensive research in Paris, I believe French for 'vegetarian' is 'Salade aux chèvre chaud'.

Really? I thought it was jambon. At least that is what you get served :)

I don't think she'd have any trouble at tonight's venue.
Vegetables are all but absent.
Menu is mostly fries and grills.

 :hand:

You're right though. Its the way you're made to feel like a complete  :-X becuase you don't regard the muck they're serving up as food. Or you'd like to know what is *actually* in it.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: citoyen on 27 January, 2014, 02:50:25 pm
Its the way you're made to feel like a complete  :-X becuase you don't regard the muck they're serving up as food. Or you'd like to know what is *actually* in it.

Yebbut as per my earlier comment, you don't have to be a vegetarian to feel like that in a lot of eateries.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Kim on 27 January, 2014, 02:51:17 pm
Its the way you're made to feel like a complete  :-X becuase you don't regard the muck they're serving up as food. Or you'd like to know what is *actually* in it.

Yebbut as per my earlier comment, you don't have to be a vegetarian to feel like that in a lot of eateries.

Indeed.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: nicknack on 27 January, 2014, 02:58:34 pm
We have long lost the ability to intinctively go out and hunt something, so we eat farm animals (and fish vaccumed out of the sea) instead

You forgot farmed grains, farmed pulses, farmed fruit, farmed vegetables, etc.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: hellymedic on 27 January, 2014, 03:07:11 pm

Really? I thought it was jambon. At least that is what you get served :)

We got really fed up with jambon in France.
And we're not veggie or vegan.

Best meal out was at the Chinese.



Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: T42 on 27 January, 2014, 03:21:23 pm
Nuther one in the jambon line is saying you don't drink alcohol, so they offer you wine instead.  In France, alcool is usually taken to mean spirits.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Julian on 27 January, 2014, 03:56:48 pm
And don't even attempt to be seriously kosher in France.  After A levels a group of us went off to France, including one boy who was more observant than most (having begged and persuaded his parents to let him come at all - I have no idea how he wangled it as they were strictly kosher and we were staying in a non-kosher-kitchen place).  Cooking for ourselves was fine as long as he was prepared to turn a blind eye to the single sink and single set of crocks, but when we went out for dinner there was a choice of pork (in cream sauce), various other meat (in cream sauce), or shellfish (probably in cream sauce) none of which he could eat.  Fortunately his French was fluent, he explained the no-milk-and-meat and no pork rule to a very bemused waitress, and they offered him trout instead.

It arrived beautifully wrapped in bacon.  :facepalm:
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Valiant on 27 January, 2014, 04:17:55 pm
Pasta with some pesto and pine nuts, or some dhal and rice. Simples.

I find it harder to cook for my friend who seems to be allergic to most things and doesn't like her greens lol
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Euan Uzami on 27 January, 2014, 04:29:39 pm
And don't even attempt to be seriously kosher in France.  After A levels a group of us went off to France, including one boy who was more observant than most (having begged and persuaded his parents to let him come at all - I have no idea how he wangled it as they were strictly kosher and we were staying in a non-kosher-kitchen place).  Cooking for ourselves was fine as long as he was prepared to turn a blind eye to the single sink and single set of crocks, but when we went out for dinner there was a choice of pork (in cream sauce), various other meat (in cream sauce), or shellfish (probably in cream sauce) none of which he could eat.  Fortunately his French was fluent, he explained the no-milk-and-meat and no pork rule to a very bemused waitress, and they offered him trout instead.

It arrived beautifully wrapped in bacon.  :facepalm:

In france, they think bacon is a form of salad. ;D I've witnessed someone try to get a vegetarian salad and they were putting those little bits of bacon they call "lardons" in it, and when he held his hand up to say he didn't want them, they sort of went mais oui, lardons! lardons!? as if to say, "what do you mean you don't want lardons in your salad , they're PART OF the salad!" ;D


I think if someone 'suddenly' came round to my house and they were a vegan and didn't have prior notice, then no, they probably wouldn't have a very wide choice of food. If they were expected, they might do. But to keep food in just in case they do is to shop for a situation that probably won't arise and to either pointlessly throw lots of food away or change my own eating habits purely to match an unlikely hypothetical scenario both of which would be completely irrational behaviour. I don't mind vegans, allergists, lactose intolerants, koshers, halals, can't eat this, can't eat that, etc as long as they realise it's THEM that's abnormal, and don't just expect everyone else to understand what they can and can't/will and won't eat without them telling them what they would like instead.

To be honest I don't really understand boycottism. I don't believe that just silently not taking advantage of something that you don't agree with but not bothering to make any form of protest about it is a bit like convincing yourself you're doing something about it but you're actually not. I mean I don't agree with fois gras but I once ate it because it was the best thing on the menu.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Valiant on 27 January, 2014, 04:32:34 pm
Oh and for the record, if I invited you to dinner, asked you if you had any requirements I needed to cater for, and then you turnt up with your own bits I'd be offended. That says to me I don't trust you to...

If it was an inpromptu gathering then sure by all means bring something but bringing your own meal to a specially prepared dinner party, you can fuck right off.

/sorry.

This happened recently.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: PeeJay on 27 January, 2014, 04:34:53 pm
Pasta with some pesto and pine nuts, or some dhal and rice. Simples.

Vegan pesto hopefully - as most has parmesan in it. :)
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Valiant on 27 January, 2014, 04:37:30 pm
Well I tend to make it myself sometimes so yep
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Julian on 27 January, 2014, 04:47:25 pm
In france, they think bacon is a form of salad. ;D I've witnessed someone try to get a vegetarian salad and they were putting those little bits of bacon they call "lardons" in it, and when he held his hand up to say he didn't want them, they sort of went mais oui, lardons! lardons!? as if to say, "what do you mean you don't want lardons in your salad , they're PART OF the salad!" ;D

I got properly told off by an older French audaxer when I was support-waggoning for PBP 2007 and creating a Frenchified version of beans on toast for the veggies who were bored with cheese & jambon sandwiches with the jambon removed.  He thought there should be meat in there, I explained that it was intended for vegetarians and he looked at me reproachfully and said "If they are vegetarians then you could at least put some lardons in there!"  ;D
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Woofage on 27 January, 2014, 04:47:55 pm
Oh and for the record, if I invited you to dinner, asked you if you had any requirements I needed to cater for, and then you turnt up with your own bits I'd be offended. That says to me I don't trust you to...

If it was an inpromptu gathering then sure by all means bring something but bringing your own meal to a specially prepared dinner party, you can fuck right off.

/sorry.

This happened recently.

I can empathise.

OTOH, I reserve the right to be a bit pissed off when invited to a family supper only to be told to bring our own food. It's only meat we don't eat, FFS. It's not exactly rocket science to prepare a dish without it.

Then, of course, you turn up with your lovely food and all the carnivores pounce on it leaving not enough for the NMEs >:(.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Woofage on 27 January, 2014, 04:49:28 pm
Pasta with some pesto and pine nuts, or some dhal and rice. Simples.

Vegan pesto hopefully - as most has parmesan in it. :)

Chop some olives, capers, a bit of garlic and some herbs and add olive oil. Mix with pasta and enjoy :). Non vegans can add cheese, if desired.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: hellymedic on 27 January, 2014, 04:49:28 pm
This thread has demonstrated how some cook very little from scratch.

I suppose I'm lucky to have a well-stocked kitchen and could throw some food together omitting anything a person did not want.

Processed food is more challenging. I suppose I have rather little of it.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Charlotte on 27 January, 2014, 04:58:00 pm
Then, of course, you turn up with your lovely food and all the carnivores pounce on it leaving not enough for the NMEs >:(.

Yeah.  That's happened enough times when I've been at an event to really, really start to fucking annoy the shit out of me.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Martin on 27 January, 2014, 06:00:11 pm
We have long lost the ability to intinctively go out and hunt something, so we eat farm animals (and fish vaccumed out of the sea) instead

You forgot farmed grains, farmed pulses, farmed fruit, farmed vegetables, etc.

I didn't forget them, they were not relevant my point that meat is more generally available, nobody hunts vegetables do they?

(http://img685.imageshack.us/img685/6038/40587995.jpg)
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: PeeJay on 27 January, 2014, 06:03:28 pm
Well I tend to make it myself sometimes so yep

:thumbsup: Sorry for implying otherwise
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: geraldc on 27 January, 2014, 06:19:16 pm
Root vegetables are out for some buddhists as by removing the root, you kill the plant.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Kim on 27 January, 2014, 07:12:55 pm
Oh and for the record, if I invited you to dinner, asked you if you had any requirements I needed to cater for, and then you turnt up with your own bits I'd be offended. That says to me I don't trust you to...

Yes, that's the point.  A lifetime of experience has taught me that even nice people who can be trusted not to deliberatley lie to you or accidentally contaminate food, will likely have weird and unpredictable definitions of what a certain food might contain.  The one the one thing more offensive than not eating someone's food, is not eating someone's food when they've gone out of the way to provide you with something specially.

If you try to make alternative arrangements you either have to have a humiliating and anxiety-inducing open ended dialogue about what you do eat (to which most answers are of course "it depends"), and still risk causing offence and going hungry because your language has different definitions of things like 'bread' and 'pub food' from theirs.

I neither expect nor particularly want people to feed me.  I just wish that we could be friends without being judged or having to explain myself the whole time.  Easier to go on bike rides.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Kim on 27 January, 2014, 07:17:48 pm
Then, of course, you turn up with your lovely food and all the carnivores pounce on it leaving not enough for the NMEs >:(.

Yeah.  That's happened enough times when I've been at an event to really, really start to fucking annoy the shit out of me.

Happens all the bloody time, in whatever direction.

Rule one of mass catering is never to put the veggie food out first.  I'd suggest that in situations where there's likely to be contention (LGBT events with mainstream caterers, for example), polite meat eaters should make an active effort to eat the meat-based food first.

Rule one for me is to quickly corner whatever token item of non-hippy identifiable actual food is available at an event and eat at least some of it before it disappears.

And if you share a student house with freezer-pilfering veggies, tactical purchase of meat products can ensure that you have a meal to come home to.   :facepalm:
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Peter on 27 January, 2014, 07:21:27 pm
Happens at audaxes, weddings and funerals.  I was recently asked to sing at a funeral, which I did.  There was absolutely nothing - NOTHING - left that a vegetarian could eat at the buffet when  I arrived.  I'm pretty sure the other mourners weren't all vegetarians.  I've stopped going to my work's Christmas do because all the "chef" would come up with would be the deadly "spinach bake" and that's with three weeks notice.  Can't help thinking I'm being punished for something!

Yours sincerely

Newcastle supporter (punishment enough)
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Woofage on 27 January, 2014, 07:36:36 pm
There was absolutely nothing - NOTHING - left that a vegetarian could eat at the buffet when  I arrived.  I'm pretty sure the other mourners weren't all vegetarians. 

Reminds me of a meeting at work for which lunch was provided for us and our guests. Nothing at all for veggies. When I mentioned this afterwards all I got was "none of the visitors is vegetarian". HOW DID YOU KNOW? It was only chance that prevented a guest going hungry.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: SteveC on 27 January, 2014, 08:09:05 pm
Couple of random thoughts on this:

When I used to do more mass catering than of late (*) we ended up majoring on vegetarian food. If there is soup, all the varieties will be veg. The main course may well be a veggy stew of some sort. There will be, as extras, bread, cheese, something like pork pies. And we always asked about dietary requirements.  It does depend on the occasion, of course. What's acceptable for a bunch of morris dancers who are really there for the dancing (replace with cyclists and riding!) isn't quite the same as for a 'posh' social do, but if we can do in, surely professionals should be able to!

And when she was a vegetarian, MrsC would always make sure she had emergency rations with her, just in case.

* Note: The only mass catering I do these days is seventeenth century re-enactments. I have only seen documentary evidence of one contemporary vegi and he was pretty well off. The ordinary types would have eaten what they could get. But we still manage, over an open fire, without going too ahistorical or anachronistic!
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Euan Uzami on 27 January, 2014, 10:13:51 pm
Then, of course, you turn up with your lovely food and all the carnivores pounce on it leaving not enough for the NMEs >:(.

Yeah.  That's happened enough times when I've been at an event to really, really start to fucking annoy the shit out of me.

Happens all the bloody time, in whatever direction.

Rule one of mass catering is never to put the veggie food out first.  I'd suggest that in situations where there's likely to be contention (LGBT events with mainstream caterers, for example), polite meat eaters should make an active effort to eat the meat-based food first.

Rule one for me is to quickly corner whatever token item of non-hippy identifiable actual food is available at an event and eat at least some of it before it disappears.

And if you share a student house with freezer-pilfering veggies, tactical purchase of meat products can ensure that you have a meal to come home to.   :facepalm:
Oh hang on a bit I think we've got some double standards going on here! ;)
Let's not forget that it's vegetarians CHOICE to be a vegetarian. It isn't something they're born with and can't do anything about. What if I want to TRY vegetarianism? ;D
You're not really doing much to help the plight of the little animals if the meat eaters are ONLY allowed to eat meat. ;)
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Martin on 27 January, 2014, 10:21:43 pm
You're not really doing much to help the plight of the little animals if the meat eaters are ONLY allowed to eat meat. ;)

not quite the point; meat eaters can eat what they like (as I don't believe any of them do not eat veg) it's that some will eat anything on the table and indeed all of it without a thought for those for whom it was mainly prepared;

happens to me all the time at barbies having lovingly crafted my own veggie stuff; have to hide it until I'm actually ready,

and as a +1 to Julian at set meals generally meat eaters always get twice as much as the veggie option; after all we are rabbits with similar appetite  ???
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: red marley on 27 January, 2014, 10:35:47 pm
My worst ever mass catering veggie experience was at a US conference "banquet". I had informed them in advance of my veggieness, but nothing arrived when everyone else got their meal served. Despite several reminders to the waiting staff, they didn't serve me for a good 50 minutes after everyone else. That's after their first, second and third courses when all the other plates had been cleared away and we were well in to the coffee and after dinner speeches. And after all that wait, they just served me a large portion of the beans and potatoes they had served everyone else with their meat  dish.

However much people may not understand vegetarianism, I really struggle to imagine that they thought they were offering anything other than completely shit service.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: barakta on 27 January, 2014, 11:00:18 pm
If I am organising any catering of any kind (and I have done food at events of various kinds inc parties) I will explicitly serve meaty food first and I will also ask the meat eaters not to eat all the vegan/veggie food until every veggie/vegan has had a chance for at least first servings.  I think being very clear about this does help as it makes expectations shared.  I also try to make sure there are enough staples that are veggie that it's not a tiny minority of it.

As for vegetarianism etc being a choice, I'd disagree. I have family who have been raised from birth as vegetarian and there are lots of people who for faith/culture reasons are veggie. For some people regardless of when they became vegetarian meat is simply "Not food" in the same way insects and fish eyes are not usually food to British people.

I was vegetarian for a decade and one thing I hated was being served hours after everyone else cos somehow veggie options took longer. On more than one occasion a catering establishment took my order, made me wait an hour after everyone was served then said "oops we ran out of veggie food, sorry, here have a refund" which left me hungry and often without time/opportunity to seek alternative food.

I wouldn't go back to being vegetarian due to the lactose intolerance, cooking issues and the annoyance of trying to get decent food while out which isn't sodding cheese which I don't care for that much.  This article did the rounds of my FB last week http://disabilityintersections.com/2014/01/march-of-the-food-snobs/ and I thought it was a reasonable overview of a lot of food stuff many people take for granted and make huge assumptions about.

Food is more than just eating, it's how we obtain it, the values we attach to it, hosting/guesting etc, class, wealth, ability, time, comfort, experience growing up and so on.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: L CC on 28 January, 2014, 08:17:18 am
As for vegetarianism etc being a choice, I'd disagree. I have family who have been raised from birth as vegetarian and there are lots of people who for faith/culture reasons are veggie. For some people regardless of when they became vegetarian meat is simply "Not food" in the same way insects and fish eyes are not usually food to British people.
In the same way that some people raised in a faith with strict dietary guidelines can lose that faith, or chose not to follow those guidelines, so anyone raised meat eating can chose to become vegetarian and vice versa. Of course it's a choice.
Insects and fish eyes aren't common foods in the UK but each to their own, some people eat celery.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: barakta on 28 January, 2014, 08:24:05 am
Yes very true. Most of my vegetarian from birth family have tried meat with familial "yeah do what you like" but most went back to being veggie as the adults who are veggie have remained veggie. Most didn't remain vegan if they were for a while though.

I agree about celery, I mean why?  It's foul cooked or uncooked.  My mum likes it boiled in long chunks.  I can eat it if it is small and ignorable but it's not nice.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Euan Uzami on 28 January, 2014, 08:26:12 am

not quite the point; meat eaters can eat what they like
Grrrr....ANYONE can eat what they like, vegans are CHOOSING not to eat meat, it's not some affliction that's foist upon them from on high. Let's try to remember that.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: PeeJay on 28 January, 2014, 08:31:11 am
I don't feel like I could just choose to eat meat.  It's part of my moral make up and had been since I was old enough to make food decisions for my self.

What are your views on homosexuality? Is that just a choice too?
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: GothonaBrompton on 28 January, 2014, 08:31:34 am
I work for an Indian company, so it is very easy indeed when we have catering - we hardly order any meat.  The vast majority of the 80% of staff here that are Indian expats are vegetarian, though there are a few vegans, and a lot of them don't eat mushrooms (I think because it is a fungus it sort of sits between meat and veg for them).  Some of the north Indians eat meat (tend to be Sikh), and many of the Goans are keen on fish, but a lot of our staff are from the south and Hindu, so they are veggie.  This includes my boss, but he doesn't eat mushrooms, which can get awkward at events.  He is fine with goats cheese, thankfully, as that is the other veggie staple, but avoiding mushrooms can be tricky.  We tend to stick to Indian restaurants for corporate meals out, or Middle Eastern.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: citoyen on 28 January, 2014, 08:35:32 am

some people eat celery.

I'll tolerate most dietary fads but not this. Weird freaks.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Jaded on 28 January, 2014, 08:48:17 am
I don't feel like I could just choose to eat meat.  It's part of my moral make up and had been since I was old enough to make food decisions for my self.

What are your views on homosexuality? Is that just a choice too?

Is homosexuality part of a moral make up too?
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: madcow on 28 January, 2014, 09:28:39 am
I don't feel like I could just choose to eat meat.  It's part of my moral make up and had been since I was old enough to make food decisions for my self.

This is a result of living in a society where you can actually choose what to eat. If food were scarce you might consider eating meat.
Vegetarianism has grown in popularity in the post war generations precisely because food is not a scarce or expensive  commodity.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: PeeJay on 28 January, 2014, 09:34:11 am
I don't feel like I could just choose to eat meat.  It's part of my moral make up and had been since I was old enough to make food decisions for my self.

This is a result of living in a society where you can actually choose what to eat. If food were scarce you might consider eating meat.
Vegetarianism has grown in popularity in the post war generations precisely because food is not a scarce or expensive  commodity.

This is true, if I were on the verge of starvation and meat was the only option then, yes I would eat it.  (this is highly hypothetical)

I don't consider a badly catered buffet to be in that category though.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Bledlow on 28 January, 2014, 09:39:44 am
...do you eat meat? in which case you are saying you exercise no control over your diet ...
That's a very odd thing to say. Why do you think that anyone who eats meat exercises no control over their diet?

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I don't like meat and don't wish to eat any of the by products of it as by and large they are unhealthy
So unhealthy that your ancestors have been eating them for millions of years, but somehow managed to survive long enough to produce you.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: pcolbeck on 28 January, 2014, 09:40:22 am
Not getting the catering to match what was ordered is a simple fail of service delivery. Not good business and I would be annoyed and probably not use that company again.
Expecting to get vegan options without asking is different as vegans are about 0.3% of the UK population so automatically providing for them is not always going to make financial sense.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Bledlow on 28 January, 2014, 09:45:06 am
Then, of course, you turn up with your lovely food and all the carnivores pounce on it leaving not enough for the NMEs >:(.

Yeah.  That's happened enough times when I've been at an event to really, really start to fucking annoy the shit out of me.

Happens all the bloody time, in whatever direction.

Rule one of mass catering is never to put the veggie food out first.  I'd suggest that in situations where there's likely to be contention (LGBT events with mainstream caterers, for example), polite meat eaters should make an active effort to eat the meat-based food first.

Rule one for me is to quickly corner whatever token item of non-hippy identifiable actual food is available at an event and eat at least some of it before it disappears.
The problem is due to caterers foolishly assuming that only vegetarians will eat vegetarian dishes. It's part of the general caterers prejudice against veggies. If they just did enough vegetarian food for all the veggies they're likely to get plus a sizable proportion of the carnivores, & reduced the amount of meat accordingly, everyone should be happy.

I eat most things, but I've sometimes homed in on the veggie options at a buffet because they looked (& often were) tastier. I don't think I'm unique.

A former employer of mine organised a Christmas party for all its Reading-based staff & their partners, to be held at some big venue (in Frimley?) that sometimes hosts darts tournaments. The venue proposed a menu with no veggie options. Staff complained, & venue was told to come up with something better.

They suggested a cheese salad.  :facepalm: The firm told 'em that unless they offered veggies food as good & varied as what the carnivores were getting, the booking would be cancelled, & they'd be pursued for any costs incurred.

I fell ill & missed the party, but apparently the veggie food was excellent. Once they'd had a kick up the arse & realised they had to try, the caterers were perfectly capable of providing good veggie grub. I suspect this is common. It's mostly laziness. Can't be bothered.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: madcow on 28 January, 2014, 09:53:34 am
""The problem is due to caterers foolishly assuming that only vegetarians will eat vegetarian dishes. It's part of the general caterers prejudice against veggies. If they just did enough vegetarian food for all the veggies plus a sizable proportion of the carnivores, & reduced the amount of meat accordingly, everyone should be happy.

I eat most things, but I've sometimes homed in on the veggie options at a buffet because they looked (& often were) tastier. I don't think I'm unique.""

Complex food dynamics -familiar territory for the caterers on LEL this summer.
It is the prerogative of any commercial establishment to say "Sorry, but I don't have the time/staff/ enthusiasm to cater for vegetarians"-AKA the Frankie Boyle option.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gfa8S2ETogo (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gfa8S2ETogo)

Why do you think  caterers have a prejudice against veggies? I assume you mean event caterers rather than eating houses?
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Euan Uzami on 28 January, 2014, 10:04:18 am
I don't feel like I could just choose to eat meat.  It's part of my moral make up and had been since I was old enough to make food decisions for my self.

What are your views on homosexuality? Is that just a choice too?

Personally I genuinely don't know - I would guess, in some cases yes, in others no - but I may be wrong.

But I just think saying vegetarians "can't" eat meat is over-strong use of the word can't. Which is fine, but it shouldn't be taken to mean they literally can't.
It's using the word 'can't' to mean something stronger than 'don't want to', as in, to emphasize the idea of having chosen the lifestyle of never entertaining the idea of such a thing, rather than just not fancying it on this occasion on a whim. But it IS still a choice.

Saying meat-eaters aren't allowed to eat the vegetarian option is along the lines of saying disabled people are ONLY allowed to park in disabled spaces.


You're not really doing much to help the plight of the little animals if the meat eaters are ONLY allowed to eat meat. ;)

not quite the point; meat eaters can eat what they like
Oh, including the veggie option then?... Oh well that's ok then. As long as we agree ;)
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: citoyen on 28 January, 2014, 10:19:10 am
Saying meat-eaters aren't allowed to eat the vegetarian option is along the lines of saying disabled people are ONLY allowed to park in disabled spaces.

No, it isn't. In fact, it's the exact opposite - ie more like saying that non-disabled drivers aren't allowed to use the facilities that have been provided specifically for those who actually need them.

Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: anotherdeadhero on 28 January, 2014, 10:22:05 am
Can you eat broken glass? But other people love broken glass. Stop being difficult and eat your broken glass up. Honestly, making out that it is physically impossible for you to consume broken glass is just some semanic masturbation.

There are kids in the third world who would kill for a few mouthfuls of broken glass  >:(
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: citoyen on 28 January, 2014, 10:30:25 am
Or indeed a handful of freezing cold gravel.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: hellymedic on 28 January, 2014, 10:33:31 am
Not getting the catering to match what was ordered is a simple fail of service delivery. Not good business and I would be annoyed and probably not use that company again.
Expecting to get vegan options without asking is different as vegans are about 0.3% of the UK population so automatically providing for them is not always going to make financial sense.

Maybe supplying fresh fruit to a Glaswegian does not make financial sense.
I was called to appear at a Court case in Glasgow a long while ago. As is frequent with these affairs, there was much hanging around and waiting.
I went to the cafeteria wanting an apple or, failing that, any other fresh fruit.

They could not supply.
I am not a vegan.
I wanted an apple.

People who eat apples are in a minority...
Maybe.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Butterfly on 28 January, 2014, 10:47:07 am

not quite the point; meat eaters can eat what they like
Grrrr....ANYONE can eat what they like, vegans are CHOOSING not to eat meat, it's not some affliction that's foist upon them from on high. Let's try to remember that.

Actually that isn't true. My mother doesn't eat meat or fish because it makes her ill; others are vegan or virtually vegan for the same reason. She had a vegetarian ration book in the war. It's like the waitress/chef who insisted that a meal was dairy free because they thought it was a middle class mummy being precious: when the child had a reaction that required use of an epi-pen, they said 'oh sorry' >:(. It's not up to other people to decide what you should eat.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Euan Uzami on 28 January, 2014, 10:51:31 am
Can you eat broken glass? But other people love broken glass. Stop being difficult and eat your broken glass up. Honestly, making out that it is physically impossible for you to consume broken glass is just some semanic masturbation.

There are kids in the third world who would kill for a few mouthfuls of broken glass  >:(
it's (a) not food and (b) is dangerous to eat it. Obvioiusly  ::-)

If anyone is a vegan for moral reasons then surely their ideal goal is for the meat industry to stop killing animals. For that to happen enough people have got to become vegans for the demand for meat to dry up - their boycott has got to set an example to others to follow in their footsteps. That's never going to happen if they keep going to buffets and telling people they've GOT to eat the meat option because THEY want to scoff the vegetarian option themselves. It's like, you've got to stay being a meat eater so I can stay being a vegetarian. Ridiculously backward logic - a completely self-defeating prophecy if you ask me.




not quite the point; meat eaters can eat what they like
Grrrr....ANYONE can eat what they like, vegans are CHOOSING not to eat meat, it's not some affliction that's foist upon them from on high. Let's try to remember that.

Actually that isn't true. My mother doesn't eat meat or fish because it makes her ill; others are vegan or virtually vegan for the same reason. She had a vegetarian ration book in the war. It's like the waitress/chef who insisted that a meal was dairy free because they thought it was a middle class mummy being precious: when the child had a reaction that required use of an epi-pen, they said 'oh sorry' >:(. It's not up to other people to decide what you should eat.

That's fair enough then. OK maybe not anyone, then, but I would think your mother is in a minority. Most vegetarians are so by choice.
Whether it's moral reasons, just preference, they think it's healthier, or religion - it's all still personal choice.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Euan Uzami on 28 January, 2014, 10:56:05 am
Actually that isn't true. My mother doesn't eat meat or fish because it makes her ill; others are vegan or virtually vegan for the same reason. She had a vegetarian ration book in the war. It's like the waitress/chef who insisted that a meal was dairy free because they thought it was a middle class mummy being precious: when the child had a reaction that required use of an epi-pen, they said 'oh sorry' >:(. It's not up to other people to decide what you should eat.
I knew someone who didn't drink coffee because it gave her a headache an hour afterwards, but she was fine with decaff and couldn't tell the difference in taste. But in a restaurant she'd often ask for decaff, drink it , but then get a headache, and what had obviously happened is that they'd found they hadn't got decaff like she'd asked and just given her normal anyway.  ::-)
I mean I think decaff's just wrong. But, if it's on the menu but they've run out, they shouldn't do it. same principle.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: simonp on 28 January, 2014, 10:58:48 am
Why are so many vegetarian options based around goats cheese?

Having done some extensive research in Paris, I believe French for 'vegetarian' is 'Salade aux chèvre chaud'.

Avec lardons.

 ::-)
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: simonp on 28 January, 2014, 11:05:55 am
A fair amount of the food I make is vegan friendly. Pesto from a jar isn't. I've tried the vegan pesto from a jar, it's ming.

I used to have a vegan girlfriend, so I've seen the routine a number of times where they have to check what the restaurant can do. A vegan meal is not difficult to prepare. My lunch yesterday was vegan, though I made no conscious effort to have a vegan meal.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: anotherdeadhero on 28 January, 2014, 11:08:55 am
it's (a) not food and (b) is dangerous to eat it. Obvioiusly  ::-)

Well, I was being slightly facetious. Are there any foods that literally make you vomit if you try to force yourself to eat it? No? You're lucky then.

If anyone is a vegan for moral reasons then surely their ideal goal is for the meat industry to stop killing animals. For that to happen enough people have got to become vegans for the demand for meat to dry up ...

Horse :hand:, it is about not wanting to be part of the market that demands this.

I can't avert climate change by myself. I'm not going to come round your house and harangue you into living in a hessian sack in a hole in the ground. I'm just going to try and live in as eco way as I can, sensibly, and not be part of the market that destroys the planet.

I am not my brother's keeper, and all that jazz.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Woofage on 28 January, 2014, 11:12:29 am
If anyone is a vegan for moral reasons then surely their ideal goal is for the meat industry to stop killing animals. For that to happen enough people have got to become vegans for the demand for meat to dry up - their boycott has got to set an example to others to follow in their footsteps.

Not everyone who chooses not to eat meat or other animal products is an evangelist. Some of my best friends eat meat ;).

That's never going to happen if they keep going to buffets and telling people they've GOT to eat the meat option because THEY want to scoff the vegetarian option themselves. It's like, you've got to stay being a meat eater so I can stay being a vegetarian. Ridiculously backward logic - a completely self-defeating prophecy if you ask me.

It's not about the dietary "choices" people make. It's not just about catering for everybody's requirements either. It's about thought and respect for others.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Peter on 28 January, 2014, 11:17:04 am
@ Ben


"If anyone is a vegan for moral reasons then surely their ideal goal is for the meat industry to stop killing animals. For that to happen enough people have got to become vegans for the demand for meat to dry up - their boycott has got to set an example to others to follow in their footsteps. That's never going to happen if they keep going to buffets and telling people they've GOT to eat the meat option because THEY want to scoff the vegetarian option themselves. It's like, you've got to stay being a meat eater so I can stay being a vegetarian. Ridiculously backward logic - a completely self-defeating prophecy if you ask me."

Ben, vegetarians are just disappointed when they can't get anything to eat, even when it's known in advance that they will be attending a function or something.  It's a matter of courtesy, about getting enough to eat that doesn't conflict with your dietary wishes.  Suddenly we're expected (by you) to be changing the world every time we eat out.  You don't campaign for vegetarians to eat meat when you eat out, do you?  You try to make out that it's a problem for meat eaters - it isn't.  If you go to a function and all the meat has gone, you eat what's left.  That's understandable, if unfortunate for vegetarians, who don't have that option.  We end up gettting our food from somewhere else - after leaving the function to which we were invited.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: geraldc on 28 January, 2014, 11:21:55 am
Having worked in catering, a lot of the time you're not empowered to make decisions. If you go off menu, or veer off from the standard recipe, the ingredient costs and labour costs change, and I'm not going to risk my minimum wage job by using my initiative.


Looking at the stats, there aren't that many vegetarians and vegans, and they probably don't spend that much on eating out. 

https://www.vegsoc.org/sslpage.aspx?pid=753#

in 2012 2% of both adults and children reported that they were vegetarian
Less than 1% reported following a vegan diet
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Woofage on 28 January, 2014, 11:25:20 am
vegetarians and vegans ... probably don't spend that much on eating out. 

I think there's a chicken and egg situation there (I write from experience).
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Euan Uzami on 28 January, 2014, 11:44:23 am
Saying meat-eaters aren't allowed to eat the vegetarian option is along the lines of saying disabled people are ONLY allowed to park in disabled spaces.

No, it isn't. In fact, it's the exact opposite - ie more like saying that non-disabled drivers aren't allowed to use the facilities that have been provided specifically for those who actually need them.

That's fine but vegetarianism isn't a disability. (Is it?)
The vegetarian is no more the equivalent of the disabled person, than is the meat-eater the equivalent of the disabled person.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Euan Uzami on 28 January, 2014, 11:51:55 am
If anyone is a vegan for moral reasons then surely their ideal goal is for the meat industry to stop killing animals. For that to happen enough people have got to become vegans for the demand for meat to dry up - their boycott has got to set an example to others to follow in their footsteps.

Not everyone who chooses not to eat meat or other animal products is an evangelist. Some of my best friends eat meat ;).

That's never going to happen if they keep going to buffets and telling people they've GOT to eat the meat option because THEY want to scoff the vegetarian option themselves. It's like, you've got to stay being a meat eater so I can stay being a vegetarian. Ridiculously backward logic - a completely self-defeating prophecy if you ask me.

It's not about the dietary "choices" people make. It's not just about catering for everybody's requirements either. It's about thought and respect for others.

That's fine - I'm ok with a bit of give and take.*
I'm often happy to eat "option A" if I would ideally prefer "B" but like both, to let someone else eat "A" just because they would prefer it, not even due to vegetarianism. But what I object to is people trying to impose some blanket rule that meat eaters must take the meat option if one is available** and backing it up with false claims that their options are restricted by factors beyond their control when in reality they are restricted by their own lifestyle choices.
* I suppose what I really mean is I'm ok with "give" but not with "take".
** In fact, saying meat eaters must use the meat option if one is available, is absolutely no different to saying cyclists MUST use the cycle lane if one is available! More so in fact, cars are less able to use the cycle lane than vegetarians are to eat meat. I'm fine with using the cycle lane if it's good, but I reserve the right not to, should I so choose.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: anotherdeadhero on 28 January, 2014, 11:52:44 am
That's fine but vegetarianism isn't a disability. (Is it?)
The vegetarian is no more the equivalent of the disabled person, than is the meat-eater the equivalent of the disabled person.

not able to walk

not able to eat meat

As analogies go, I thought it fairly close. But if you refuse to take the point, that is your choice.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: citoyen on 28 January, 2014, 11:56:52 am
That's fine but vegetarianism isn't a disability. (Is it?)

a) Don't be so obtusely literal.
b) You're the one who made the analogy in the first place so don't quiz me about its validity.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: PeeJay on 28 January, 2014, 11:58:09 am
Despite being vegan, I'm with Ben on this one. The meat eaters should be free to eat what they want.  It's the caterers who are at fault if the veg options run out and leave people hungry.

In these situations, I just try and get near the front of the queue if possible.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: anotherdeadhero on 28 January, 2014, 11:59:55 am
...
But what I object to is people trying to impose some blanket rule that meat eaters must take the meat option if one is available

I agree, but this has not been suggested.

.. and backing it up with false claims that their options are restricted by factors beyond their control when in reality they are restricted by their own lifestyle choices.

I agree, but again, this isn't what is being discussed here. A completely seperate issue.

In fact, saying meat eaters must use the meat option if one is available, is absolutely no different to saying cyclists MUST use the cycle lane if one is available! More so in fact, cars are less able to use the cycle lane than vegetarians are to eat meat. I'm fine with using the cycle lane if it's good, but I reserve the right not to, should I so choose.

Good analogy, I like it. I completely agree.

How would you feel if you were ONLY able to ride on cycle lanes, someone invited you out on a ride and said 'it's OK, it is cycle lanes the whole way!', then you find the entire ride disrupted by cars parked in the cycle lanes, with only the road carriageway passable?
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Euan Uzami on 28 January, 2014, 12:08:06 pm
Ben, vegetarians are just disappointed when they can't get anything to eat, even when it's known in advance that they will be attending a function or something.  It's a matter of courtesy, about getting enough to eat that doesn't conflict with your dietary wishes.  Suddenly we're expected (by you) to be changing the world every time we eat out.  You don't campaign for vegetarians to eat meat when you eat out, do you?  You try to make out that it's a problem for meat eaters - it isn't.  If you go to a function and all the meat has gone, you eat what's left.  That's understandable, if unfortunate for vegetarians, who don't have that option.  We end up gettting our food from somewhere else - after leaving the function to which we were invited.

I suspect some establishments simply don't have the skill or imagination to create the food that vegetarians want, it's not that they don't respect their wishes. It might sometimes be a lack of respect, I guess #81 (https://yacf.co.uk/forum/index.php?topic=79741.msg1632918#msg1632918) reflects that.
You can vote with your feet whatever the reason when it's commercial establishments.
I do have sympathy with vegetarians when it's something that they don't have control over the venue.

I don't exepct you to campaign to change the world but if you are a vegetarian for moral reasons then what is the actual point of choosing not to eat meat when you are doing absolutely nothing to change the actual amount of meat eaten? In other words, if there are going to be 70 meat dishes and 30 veg dishes at a function then going to the function and insisting that you are one of the 30 that eats the veg dishes does nothing to change the total amount of meat eaten.
Just don't go to the function, then there will be (on average) 69 meat dishes and 30 veg dishes. (or 70 and 31, but on average you reduce the number of meat dishes  by 0.5).
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Woofage on 28 January, 2014, 12:08:14 pm
That's fine - I'm ok with a bit of give and take.*
I'm often happy to eat "option A" if I would ideally prefer "B" but like both, to let someone else eat "A" just because they would prefer it, not even due to vegetarianism. But what I object to is people trying to impose some blanket rule that meat eaters must take the meat option if one is available** and backing it up with false claims that their options are restricted by factors beyond their control when in reality they are restricted by their own lifestyle choices.

I think that's an unfair choice of words. Some choose not to eat meat (or certain types) because of religion. Is it fair to expect them to go against their beliefs? Some choose not to for moral and/or economic reasons (I don't mean they can't afford it). Is it fair to expect them to cast aside their morals?

In my case, I would probably eat meat if I was assured it came from a humane and sustainable source. However, I haven't eaten meat in such a long time that the very thought of it turns my stomach. I wouldn’t ask you to consume a product that repulses you so why should I be expected to?
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Euan Uzami on 28 January, 2014, 12:12:04 pm

How would you feel if you were ONLY able to ride on cycle lanes, someone invited you out on a ride and said 'it's OK, it is cycle lanes the whole way!', then you find the entire ride disrupted by cars parked in the cycle lanes, with only the road carriageway passable?

;D That makes about as little sense as saying what if someone invited you to meat party, saying it's ok, it's meat all the way, and you got there to find all the meat had been scoffed by vegetarians.   ::-) ;D

In my analogy cars are the equivalent of vegetarians. Cyclists the equivalent of meat eaters. Cyclists (meat eaters) can choose to use the road (vegetables) as and when they want to.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Euan Uzami on 28 January, 2014, 12:13:26 pm
Horse :hand:, it is about not wanting to be part of the market that demands this.

I can't avert climate change by myself. I'm not going to come round your house and harangue you into living in a hessian sack in a hole in the ground. I'm just going to try and live in as eco way as I can, sensibly, and not be part of the market that destroys the planet.

I am not my brother's keeper, and all that jazz.

Like an ostrich bullying other ostriches out of the way so it can bury its OWN head in the only small patch of sand available.   ::-) ;)
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: anotherdeadhero on 28 January, 2014, 12:17:06 pm
Like an ostrich bullying other ostriches out of the way so it can bury its OWN head in the only small patch of sand available.   ::-) ;)

If you like. I don't think anyone here has suggested they go round insisting on what others eat though. That is your own fabrication.

It IS about being personally responsible. I don't do stuff I regard as morally abhorant. The rest of the world can get on with doing what I regard as morally abhorant. I'm not going to tell you what to do. But at least I'm not acting in a morally abhorant way. This is important, if only to me.

 ;D
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: pcolbeck on 28 January, 2014, 12:18:56 pm
I am always amazed at how some of the places that are cheap and dont have real chefs manage to cater quite well for vegetarians but those that do can't. McDonalds and Burgerking both have veggie options and they are essentially in the business of selling processed beef !
Premier Inns have quite a range of veggie options on their menus. I was eating in one once though when a woman got irate when they couldn't accommodate her request for a vegan meal accompanied by a list of other things she could eat, complete lack of understanding of the culinary skills of the food re-heaters in the kitchen, the amount of produce they had to choose from and the fact that they just work of scripts down to where on the plate each item goes.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: anotherdeadhero on 28 January, 2014, 12:23:44 pm
... In my analogy ...

Well, in MY analogy vegetarians are 10ft tall with LAZERS for eyes and can vaporise a meat-eater for looking at an avocado askance  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Euan Uzami on 28 January, 2014, 12:25:23 pm
I think that's an unfair choice of words. Some choose not to eat meat (or certain types) because of religion. Is it fair to expect them to go against their beliefs? Some choose not to for moral and/or economic reasons (I don't mean they can't afford it). Is it fair to expect them to cast aside their morals?

In my case, I would probably eat meat if I was assured it came from a humane and sustainable source. However, I haven't eaten meat in such a long time that the very thought of it turns my stomach. I wouldn’t ask you to consume a product that repulses you so why should I be expected to?

Good, that's fine then! No one's expecting anyone to eat anything that "repulses" them.
Equally, if I'm NOT a vegetarian, and I go to a function where the meat option repulses me, I don't expect to be told I can't eat the veg option because I 'should' eat the meat option on the grounds that I'm "a meat-eater". That's all.
Vegetarianism isn't a special registered status that you can elevate yourself to that confers additional rights over others.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Euan Uzami on 28 January, 2014, 12:29:04 pm
I am always amazed at how some of the places that are cheap and dont have real chefs manage to cater quite well for vegetarians but those that do can't. McDonalds and Burgerking both have veggie options and they are essentially in the business of selling processed beef !
Premier Inns have quite a range of veggie options on their menus. I was eating in one once though when a woman got irate when they couldn't accommodate her request for a vegan meal accompanied by a list of other things she could eat, complete lack of understanding of the culinary skills of the food re-heaters in the kitchen, the amount of produce they had to choose from and the fact that they just work of scripts down to where on the plate each item goes.
Oh yes, course they work off scripts. I would go so far as saying Premier Inn no more have "proper chefs" than do McDonalds. That doesn't surprise me at all.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: pcolbeck on 28 January, 2014, 12:49:41 pm
They even have a picture on the wall in the kitchen of what each meal should look like when it goes out ...

I spend far too much time in Premier Inns, mind you better that than a Travel Lodge.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: barakta on 28 January, 2014, 01:25:00 pm
When I ask the meat eaters to let the vegetarians/vegans have first dibs on the food they can/will eat it's not so much a demand as a request for courtesy and thoughtfulness cos I assume most people don't realise. If someone feels strongly enough not to be courteous or doesn't like the meat on offer then I am not going to stop them, but it can help a general trend to avoid scarcity of food.  Of course I tend to overcater veggie/vegan coming from communities (which are admittedly white, middle class, educated etc) where 50%+ of people are vegetarian at least.

One of the things we do when running BiCon events now is let all the local eateries we might use know that 300+ people are coming for a con and if they can stock up on vegetarian food that'd get them more customers cos of how many of us are veggie.  Same for asking the bar of the venue to have cider and real ale if they can (we'll agree to a cask etc) and over cater (and more than they want to believe) on non booze drinks too.  We've got past years' bar takings/usings to prove just how consistently weird we are and how it's in their favour. The venues wot listen realise we're right, the ones who ignore us run out of drinks and get pissed and moaned at cos we organisationally warned them not just the front line min wage workers.

I don't think vegetarianism is that odd these days. I'm surprised the official figs are 2%, even accounting for my cultural group, that's waay low. 
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Euan Uzami on 28 January, 2014, 01:36:18 pm
When I ask the meat eaters to let the vegetarians/vegans have first dibs on the food they can/will eat it's not so much a demand as a request for courtesy and thoughtfulness cos I assume most people don't realise. If someone feels strongly enough not to be courteous or doesn't like the meat on offer then I am not going to stop them, but it can help a general trend to avoid scarcity of food.  Of course I tend to overcater veggie/vegan coming from communities (which are admittedly white, middle class, educated etc) where 50%+ of people are vegetarian at least.


It sounds like if you're in a community where 50%+ of people are vegetarian and you 'overcater' vegetarian foods then the reason the meat eaters might be eating vegetarian food is because you're better at vegetarian food and the veggie stuff is simply nicer. If you neglect the meat eaters then course they'll turn to the vegetarian option. Meat's nice, but it's not crucial.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: rr on 28 January, 2014, 01:37:40 pm
My observations and views :
Small restaurants with informal visitors have to make a commercial decision about whether it is worth their while catering for non-meat eaters.
At events aimed at larger groups, particularly when the food is not the main point of the event, weddings etc the organisers should ensure that all known non-standard diets are catered for as well as the.
expected proportion of veggies and vegans
Caters should understand that veggie and vegan food is attractive to meat eaters and so provide enough to allow for this.
Above all they should make it obvious what it all is.

Were there is some element of compulsion it the event - work training courses, sales conferences etc I think that the organiser has a moral duty to  make provision for all diets.

I also remember going to a works Christmas party wgjere every item on the buffet for 150 people contained meat.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Kim on 28 January, 2014, 01:41:03 pm
Meat's nice, but it's not crucial.

That's the sort of assumption that white, middle-class, educated, right-on vegetarians make.  It's an issue the bi community (which is overwhelmingly the above) is beginning to challenge in an attempt to become more diverse.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Euan Uzami on 28 January, 2014, 01:54:12 pm
Meat's nice, but it's not crucial.

That's the sort of assumption that white, middle-class, educated, right-on vegetarians make.  It's an issue the bi community (which is overwhelmingly the above) is beginning to challenge in an attempt to become more diverse.

I absolutely don't even begin to understand what point you're making. Sorry! :)
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Woofage on 28 January, 2014, 01:55:25 pm
Good, that's fine then! No one's expecting anyone to eat anything that "repulses" them.

Thank you. It's just that you described in a previous post that a person's decision to not eat meat is a "lifestyle choice". I am suggesting that, in the vast majority of these cases, no such choice actually exists.

Equally, if I'm NOT a vegetarian, and I go to a function where the meat option repulses me, I don't expect to be told I can't eat the veg option because I 'should' eat the meat option on the grounds that I'm "a meat-eater". That's all.

Of course not, but I'm sure you recognise that in such a situation you may not be alone in your reaction to the food. Therefore, the availability of food you and others with similar taste can enjoy would be somewhat limited. Being aware of this, would you consider it fair to help yourself to a large portion? This is an extreme example, I know, but this is the type of situation that NMEs face all too often in free-choice type catering. I'm not going to starve if I miss a meal (and if was was really hungry I'd pop out for a bag of chips) but it doesn't exactly enhance one's enjoyment of the function, especially if you have prepared and brought the food yourself.

Vegetarianism isn't a special registered status that you can elevate yourself to that confers additional rights over others.

No special rights over and above any other human being, no.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Euan Uzami on 28 January, 2014, 02:37:28 pm
Good, that's fine then! No one's expecting anyone to eat anything that "repulses" them.

Thank you. It's just that you described in a previous post that a person's decision to not eat meat is a "lifestyle choice". I am suggesting that, in the vast majority of these cases, no such choice actually exists.


Well I'm sorry but, despite trying, you've as yet failed to convince me that vegetarianism is anything but a choice.
You may well have gone so long without meat now to find it repulsive, but it was a choice to stop eating it in the first place.


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Of course not, but I'm sure you recognise that in such a situation you may not be alone in your reaction to the food. Therefore, the availability of food you and others with similar taste can enjoy would be somewhat limited. Being aware of this, would you consider it fair to help yourself to a large portion?
Possibly not. Whether I did so or not would in all fairness probably be related to how much I liked the other people in the function ;)
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: CrinklyLion on 28 January, 2014, 02:47:52 pm
I think that people's non harmful-to-others lifestyle choices should be respected even if or when they are 'just' a choice.

S'called manners.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Kim on 28 January, 2014, 02:48:14 pm
Meat's nice, but it's not crucial.

That's the sort of assumption that white, middle-class, educated, right-on vegetarians make.  It's an issue the bi community (which is overwhelmingly the above) is beginning to challenge in an attempt to become more diverse.

I absolutely don't even begin to understand what point you're making. Sorry! :)

We're back to the definition of 'real food' (see link posted by barakta above).  It's an unpleasant truism that certain demographics will be actively put off by an event that proudly proclaims that "wholesome vegan food will be provided".  It's othering as much as it is welcoming, chiefly along class/education lines.

For some people white sliced Chorleywood bread and mechanically reclaimed ham is 'safe' rather than 'junk'.

There is no "one size fits all" solution.  And IMHO arrogant to assume that there is.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Euan Uzami on 28 January, 2014, 02:57:09 pm
We're back to the definition of 'real food' (see link posted by barakta above).  It's an unpleasant truism that certain demographics will be actively put off by an event that proudly proclaims that "wholesome vegan food will be provided".  It's othering as much as it is welcoming, chiefly along class/education lines.

For some people white sliced Chorleywood bread and mechanically reclaimed ham is 'safe' rather than 'junk'.

There is no "one size fits all" solution.  And IMHO arrogant to assume that there is.
So you're saying you wouldn't go to an event that proclaims to serve 'wholesome vegan food' because you consider that that establishment probably doesn't regard 'wholesome vegan food' as normal...?
Well I'd say if you can afford to be picky enough to choose your establishment based on not just what they serve but their attitude towards it and whether you deem that they're "judging you on class/education lines" as well then you haven't got that much to worry about and should probably count yourself lucky.  ;) In our local village there's one chippy and one chinese, and that's about it. I've never surveyed them as to their attitudes or their prejudices to certain demographics.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: pcolbeck on 28 January, 2014, 03:06:59 pm
I think you may have got the wrong end of the stick Ben. My understanding of what Kim is saying is that advertising an "wholesome vegan food" as part of an event may put certain demographics off attending the event as they don't think "vegan food" is a particularly good thing. It may scream "middle class" or "hippies" or whatever to some people and make them think that event is not for them. If vegan food isn't the purpose of the event but being inclusive is then linking the two may not be such a good idea.

Apologies to Kim if the point missed me by completely.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: mrcharly-YHT on 28 January, 2014, 03:13:42 pm
We're back to the definition of 'real food' (see link posted by barakta above).  It's an unpleasant truism that certain demographics will be actively put off by an event that proudly proclaims that "wholesome vegan food will be provided".  It's othering as much as it is welcoming, chiefly along class/education lines.

For some people white sliced Chorleywood bread and mechanically reclaimed ham is 'safe' rather than 'junk'.

There is no "one size fits all" solution.  And IMHO arrogant to assume that there is.
So you're saying you wouldn't go to an event that proclaims to serve 'wholesome vegan food' because you consider that that establishment probably doesn't regard 'wholesome vegan food' as normal...?

I think you are picking an argument for the sake of it.

Kim didn't say that "she wouldn't go to an event".  She didn't say anything close to that.

I've been reluctant to join in this because:
A) I'm in a bad mood
B) From the start you've been intransigent and argumentative.

Now you are mis-quoting people and arguing with the mis-quote. Why would you do that?
I have teenagers who do something similar, when they are in the mood to pick an argument.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Euan Uzami on 28 January, 2014, 03:21:06 pm
I think you may have got the wrong end of the stick Ben. My understanding of what Kim is saying is that advertising an "wholesome vegan food" as part of an may put certain demographics off attending the event as they don't think "vegan food" is a particularly good thing. It may scream "middle class" or "hippies" or whatever to some people and make them think that event is not for them. If vegan food isn't the purpose of the event but being inclusive is then linking the two may not be such a good idea.

Apologies to Kim if the point missed my by completely.

Oh yes, I probably have got the wrong end of the stick, I don't understand what she's on about at all. I understand all of your post in terms of an observation, but still don't get what the point is.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: anotherdeadhero on 28 January, 2014, 03:22:28 pm
Well I'm sorry but, despite trying, you've as yet failed to convince me that vegetarianism is anything but a choice.

Aww diddums.

Can you eat broken glass? But other people love broken glass. Stop being difficult and eat your broken glass up. Honestly, making out that it is physically impossible for you to consume broken glass is just some semanic masturbation.

There are kids in the third world who would kill for a few mouthfuls of broken glass  >:(

If you choose not to believe that some people find eating meat as repulsive and impossible as the idea of eating broken glass, that is your choice. It does not make it so.

I'm not even veggie/vegan/fruitarian/antiprocessedgunkist FFS.

I am loving this argument though  ;D
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Euan Uzami on 28 January, 2014, 03:25:24 pm
Well I'm sorry but, despite trying, you've as yet failed to convince me that vegetarianism is anything but a choice.

Aww diddums.

Can you eat broken glass? But other people love broken glass. Stop being difficult and eat your broken glass up. Honestly, making out that it is physically impossible for you to consume broken glass is just some semanic masturbation.

There are kids in the third world who would kill for a few mouthfuls of broken glass  >:(

If you choose not to believe that some people find eating meat as repulsive and impossible as the idea of eating broken glass, that is your choice. It does not make it so.

I'm not even veggie/vegan/fruitarian/antiprocessedgunkist FFS.

I am loving this argument though  ;D

Well you stopped making sense long ago, probably should realise that by the fact you've started replying to yourself? ;)
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: citoyen on 28 January, 2014, 03:27:31 pm
Ben, get a room. Not with anyone else, just by yourself.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: anotherdeadhero on 28 January, 2014, 03:29:53 pm
Well you stopped making sense long ago, probably should realise that by the fact you've started replying to yourself? ;)

I was merely re-quoting for your convenience. The argument, still valid, appears to have passed you by the first time round.

But then you seem unable, or unwilling, to consider viewpoints other than your own.

 :thumbsup:
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Peter on 28 January, 2014, 03:37:01 pm
"I don't exepct you to campaign to change the world but if you are a vegetarian for moral reasons then what is the actual point of choosing not to eat meat when you are doing absolutely nothing to change the actual amount of meat eaten? In other words, if there are going to be 70 meat dishes and 30 veg dishes at a function then going to the function and insisting that you are one of the 30 that eats the veg dishes does nothing to change the total amount of meat eaten."

Ben, you do say some strange things.  The point about me being a vegetarian is that I'm one less person eating meat.  That is a statement in itself.  It may be the only statement that I've got time for, because, strange as it may seem, vegetarians have just as many calls on their time, more if you count the efforts required to get something to eat sometimes.  As for not campaigning, it's certainly stirred you up.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Euan Uzami on 28 January, 2014, 03:49:39 pm
"I don't exepct you to campaign to change the world but if you are a vegetarian for moral reasons then what is the actual point of choosing not to eat meat when you are doing absolutely nothing to change the actual amount of meat eaten? In other words, if there are going to be 70 meat dishes and 30 veg dishes at a function then going to the function and insisting that you are one of the 30 that eats the veg dishes does nothing to change the total amount of meat eaten."

Ben, you do say some strange things.  The point about me being a vegetarian is that I'm one less person eating meat.  That is a statement in itself.  It may be the only statement that I've got time for, because, strange as it may seem, vegetarians have just as many calls on their time, more if you count the efforts required to get something to eat sometimes.  As for not campaigning, it's certainly stirred you up.

But the above was specifically in response to discussion of the hypothetical situation in which the amount of vegetarian meals is limited.
YOU may be one less person eating meat, but someone else is one more.

You note that being a vegetarian means that it takes you longer to find suitable food to eat and that as such you don't have any time left for campaigning, I would therefore tactfully suggest that you start eating meat in order to free up more time in which to explain to others why killing animals is less than morally acceptable should that be your view. We're back to that thing about lions not being the dominant species of the planet, again!
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: anotherdeadhero on 28 January, 2014, 03:53:22 pm
But the above was specifically in response to discussion of the hypothetical situation in which the amount of vegetarian meals is limited.
YOU may be one less person eating meat, but someone else is one more.

But you are, again, ignoring the salient dependant clause in the argument: that eating meat is not a choice for some people.

Also, that total amount of meat consumed is immaterial.

Also, that free choice for meat eaters should not override the theoretical possibility of ensuring everyone at the function gets to eat something. Because rudeness.

Arguments are complex. Do keep up! Not getting enough selenium? Try cauliflower with your bison tartar.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: mrcharly-YHT on 28 January, 2014, 03:53:48 pm
Ben, erm your logic is really wierd.

This is zero-sum situation. A limited number of people. One person chooses to be vegetarian. That is one less person eating meat. Savvy?
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: DrMekon on 28 January, 2014, 03:54:31 pm
My worst ever mass catering veggie experience was at a US conference "banquet". I had informed them in advance of my veggieness, but nothing arrived when everyone else got their meal served. Despite several reminders to the waiting staff, they didn't serve me for a good 50 minutes after everyone else. That's after their first, second and third courses when all the other plates had been cleared away and we were well in to the coffee and after dinner speeches. And after all that wait, they just served me a large portion of the beans and potatoes they had served everyone else with their meat  dish.

However much people may not understand vegetarianism, I really struggle to imagine that they thought they were offering anything other than completely shit service.

Staff summer do. Hog roast, but was assured there was a veggie option. I was served a bun with apple sauce and sage & onion stuffing. I got cross, and then left.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Euan Uzami on 28 January, 2014, 03:57:23 pm
My worst ever mass catering veggie experience was at a US conference "banquet". I had informed them in advance of my veggieness, but nothing arrived when everyone else got their meal served. Despite several reminders to the waiting staff, they didn't serve me for a good 50 minutes after everyone else. That's after their first, second and third courses when all the other plates had been cleared away and we were well in to the coffee and after dinner speeches. And after all that wait, they just served me a large portion of the beans and potatoes they had served everyone else with their meat  dish.

However much people may not understand vegetarianism, I really struggle to imagine that they thought they were offering anything other than completely shit service.

Staff summer do. Hog roast, but was assured there was a veggie option. I was served a bun with apple sauce and sage & onion stuffing. I got cross, and then left.

;D If you are a vegetarian, did you not consider that maybe a Hog Roast may not be the best choice of event to go to? ;D

Sounds to me like you're just deliberately testing them. I think you got what you deserved ! ;)
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: anotherdeadhero on 28 January, 2014, 04:00:07 pm
Does anyone fancy coming to my broken glass BBQ?

There will be real food options. Honest.

 O:-)
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: CrinklyLion on 28 January, 2014, 04:06:43 pm
Staff summer do. Hog roast, but was assured there was a veggie option. I was served a bun with apple sauce and sage & onion stuffing. I got cross, and then left.

;D If you are a vegetarian, did you not consider that maybe a Hog Roast may not be the best choice of event to go to? ;D

Sounds to me like you're just deliberately testing them. I think you got what you deserved ! ;)

Anybody else who works in primary schools starting to feel an urge to sit Ben down with last summer's Reading Comp Standard Attainment Task?  Now, which level paper do we think....
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: mrcharly-YHT on 28 January, 2014, 04:13:03 pm
Staff summer do. Hog roast, but was assured there was a veggie option. I was served a bun with apple sauce and sage & onion stuffing. I got cross, and then left.

;D If you are a vegetarian, did you not consider that maybe a Hog Roast may not be the best choice of event to go to? ;D

Sounds to me like you're just deliberately testing them. I think you got what you deserved ! ;)

Anybody else who works in primary schools starting to feel an urge to sit Ben down with last summer's Reading Comp Standard Attainment Task?  Now, which level paper do we think....
See post up above about behaviour of teenagers in my household. Those who wish to pick an argument will do so, with no regard to logic or facts.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: madcow on 28 January, 2014, 04:18:16 pm
My worst ever mass catering veggie experience was at a US conference "banquet". I had informed them in advance of my veggieness, but nothing arrived when everyone else got their meal served. Despite several reminders to the waiting staff, they didn't serve me for a good 50 minutes after everyone else. That's after their first, second and third courses when all the other plates had been cleared away and we were well in to the coffee and after dinner speeches. And after all that wait, they just served me a large portion of the beans and potatoes they had served everyone else with their meat  dish.

However much people may not understand vegetarianism, I really struggle to imagine that they thought they were offering anything other than completely shit service.

Staff summer do. Hog roast, but was assured there was a veggie option. I was served a bun with apple sauce and sage & onion stuffing. I got cross, and then left.

We had the same at a farm shop café a few years ago. Vegetarian friends were offered Sunday roast , without the meat content, as the alternative. Some people just don't get it.
 Even I, as a meat eater ,was embarrassed and angry  on their behalf, and I felt responsible because I chose the venue.
My fault for assuming that there would be something vegetarian on the menu.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Euan Uzami on 28 January, 2014, 04:19:21 pm
Ben, erm your logic is really wierd.

This is zero-sum situation. A limited number of people. One person chooses to be vegetarian. That is one less person eating meat. Savvy?

No - this is an event in which each individual's choices aren't pre-ordered, remember.
Ergo, the number of vegetarian meals cooked and the number of meat meals cooked isn't dependent on any one individual's choice when they get there. It's only dependent on (a) their knowledge of the total number of people, and (b) their estimate of the split between vegetarians and non.
If there is an event in which there are 100 people and they estimate there to be 30 veggies and 70 non. So they make 30 veggie meals and 70 meat meals. If 10 meat eaters eat the veggie option, whether that's because just because they prefer it, are "rude", or just find the meat option repulsive, then 10 veggies are going to have to eat the meat option, whether or not they are a vegetarian. The total amount of meat eaten is the same regardless of whether you are one of the 30 that gets the veggie option or one of the 10 that doesn't.
An 'occasional' vegetarian, i.e., one who professes vegetarian principles on moral grounds but who actually likes meat, might be all too willing to "martyr" themselves to be one of the 10 that "has to" eat the meat ;) I've seen this happen.

BUT, consider a related but slightly different example: Let's say, if the event assumes 100 people are going to turn up, and estimate that that will be split 30 vegetarians, 70 meat eaters. When it comes down to the day of the event, in fact, there are only 20 vegetarians and 80 meat eaters. So 10 of the meat eaters will have to eat the vegetarian option. But if an extra vegetarian turns up, then they will have to cook some more food.
The extra meal that they cook will probably be a meat one, since meat is more in demand as 10 meat eaters have had to have the vegetarian option and some of those 10 would probably prefer meat. So they've cooked 71 meat meals, whereas if that vegetarian hadn't have gone they would have only ended up cooking 70.

Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: pcolbeck on 28 January, 2014, 04:22:28 pm
To summarise for those late to this thread:


Can we get another nine pages out of an innocuous post in Food and Drink ? Will this be the first thread to be locked in Food and Drink ? We can but wait and see.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: anotherdeadhero on 28 January, 2014, 04:25:56 pm
Wow. I thought we were getting too abstract. Ben has facts & figures on our hypothetical, irrelevant, example.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: mrcharly-YHT on 28 January, 2014, 04:29:34 pm
Congratulations, you'd transposed Maxwell's Demon into a debate on the morals of vegetarianism.  Ken Kesey merely applied it to social interactions; it took a youngish child to point out to him that it was only a problem in a closed system.


Your logic is ridiculous. If an extra person turns up, an extra meal has to be cooked. You suggest it is likely to need to be meat. I agree with your logic in that point.

However, because there are vegetarians and the caterers catered for them, there were 30 fewer meat meals than if there were no vegetarians. Less meat cooked.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Woofage on 28 January, 2014, 04:33:39 pm
^ in practise the caterers would a) ask for menu choice with the RSVP and b) have extra of each dish just in case ;).
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Peter on 28 January, 2014, 04:36:22 pm
Ben, I really hope you don't teach maths - or logic.  If 10 vegetarians are faced with a meat-only option because the meat-eaters have eaten all the veggie food that doesn't lead to the same amount of meat consumed.  The veggies just don't eat the meat.  (By the way, there is no such thing as an occasional veggie or a vegetarian who only eats fish, say.)

And you still haven't explained why, because I am a vegetarian, I should be campaigning anymore than a meat-eater.  I just don't eat meat and while I wish more people were like me (in that respect at least) I don't bang on about it.  I've campaigned about loads of things in my time and currently have just as full and busy a life as any meat-eater.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Kim on 28 January, 2014, 05:19:40 pm
We're back to the definition of 'real food' (see link posted by barakta above).  It's an unpleasant truism that certain demographics will be actively put off by an event that proudly proclaims that "wholesome vegan food will be provided".  It's othering as much as it is welcoming, chiefly along class/education lines.

For some people white sliced Chorleywood bread and mechanically reclaimed ham is 'safe' rather than 'junk'.

There is no "one size fits all" solution.  And IMHO arrogant to assume that there is.
So you're saying you wouldn't go to an event that proclaims to serve 'wholesome vegan food' because you consider that that establishment probably doesn't regard 'wholesome vegan food' as normal...?

No I'm not.  I'm not sure how you're inferring it...

*I* would happily go to an event that proclaims to serve "wholesome vegan food", as long as eating it wasn't compulsory.  Because I'm a white, middle class, educated, lefty, feminist, queer and very much the in-group for the organisers of those sorts of events.  That I have awkward dietary requirements just means I have to provide my own food.  That's my middle-class privilege.

OTOH, to J Random Working Class Brummie, quinoa is an access issue.

Vegetarian/vegan food (and when you see it described as such, you can bet they don't mean beans and chips) isn't necessarily the lowest common denominator that people often assume it to be.


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Well I'd say if you can afford to be picky enough to choose your establishment based on not just what they serve but their attitude towards it and whether you deem that they're "judging you on class/education lines" as well then you haven't got that much to worry about and should probably count yourself lucky.  ;) In our local village there's one chippy and one chinese, and that's about it. I've never surveyed them as to their attitudes or their prejudices to certain demographics.

This is hinting somewhere in the vague direction of my original point, which is summed up quite adequately here:

I think you may have got the wrong end of the stick Ben. My understanding of what Kim is saying is that advertising an "wholesome vegan food" as part of an event may put certain demographics off attending the event as they don't think "vegan food" is a particularly good thing. It may scream "middle class" or "hippies" or whatever to some people and make them think that event is not for them. If vegan food isn't the purpose of the event but being inclusive is then linking the two may not be such a good idea.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Eccentrica Gallumbits on 28 January, 2014, 05:25:16 pm
My worst ever mass catering veggie experience was at a US conference "banquet". I had informed them in advance of my veggieness, but nothing arrived when everyone else got their meal served. Despite several reminders to the waiting staff, they didn't serve me for a good 50 minutes after everyone else. That's after their first, second and third courses when all the other plates had been cleared away and we were well in to the coffee and after dinner speeches. And after all that wait, they just served me a large portion of the beans and potatoes they had served everyone else with their meat  dish.

However much people may not understand vegetarianism, I really struggle to imagine that they thought they were offering anything other than completely shit service.

Staff summer do. Hog roast, but was assured there was a veggie option. I was served a bun with apple sauce and sage & onion stuffing. I got cross, and then left.

;D If you are a vegetarian, did you not consider that maybe a Hog Roast may not be the best choice of event to go to? ;D

Sounds to me like you're just deliberately testing them. I think you got what you deserved ! ;)
A friend of mine had a hog roast at her 40th birthday party. I assumed she would provide a veggie option; I went hungry. Should I have not gone to my friend's party because it was a hog roast?

In other news, the Daily Mail has added this thread to the list of things that give you cancer.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: rr on 28 January, 2014, 05:36:42 pm
My worst ever mass catering experience was "sea food lingue " at aforementioned Scottish university - pilchards in tomato sauce mashed into some pasta. Had pre-ordered and by the time I had realised how heavingly vile if was all the veggie option had gone. Mentally scared for life, I still get flash backs. 
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: anotherdeadhero on 28 January, 2014, 05:40:12 pm
In other news, the Daily Mail has added this thread to the list of things that give you cancer.

 :thumbsup:
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: geraldc on 28 January, 2014, 05:48:57 pm
That's all well and good, but what does the Guardian think?
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: pcolbeck on 28 January, 2014, 05:56:20 pm
That's all well and good, but what does the Guardian think?

It's not sure but has somebody working on the best wine to go with it and has asked someone to canvas twitter on the matter.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Jaded on 28 January, 2014, 06:08:10 pm
That's all well and good, but what does the Guardian think?

There will be an odd cartoon by Stove Bell.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Bledlow on 28 January, 2014, 08:41:59 pm
""The problem is due to caterers foolishly assuming that only vegetarians will eat vegetarian dishes. It's part of the general caterers prejudice against veggies. If they just did enough vegetarian food for all the veggies plus a sizable proportion of the carnivores, & reduced the amount of meat accordingly, everyone should be happy.

I eat most things, but I've sometimes homed in on the veggie options at a buffet because they looked (& often were) tastier. I don't think I'm unique.""

Complex food dynamics -familiar territory for the caterers on LEL this summer.
It is the prerogative of any commercial establishment to say "Sorry, but I don't have the time/staff/ enthusiasm to cater for vegetarians"-AKA the Frankie Boyle option.

Why do you think  caterers have a prejudice against veggies? I assume you mean event caterers rather than eating houses?
Event caterers, yes. And prejudice because they still often need to be reminded of the need to provide for people who don't eat meat, & even when they don't, regularly fail to make proper provision, regardless of how many vegetarian customers there are.

On the occasion I mentioned above, about 20% of diners preferred a vegetarian option. That was 20% of over 400. But the caterers, after being given the figures, offered a cheese salad - for Christmas dinner. What would you call that, except prejudice? It certainly wasn't based on analysis of the market.

That was quite a while ago, & I think it's generally got better, but I still see examples of "can't be bothered" which ignore the market. Reminds me of when I was in Buenos Aires, & was tired of steak. I tried to dine in a vegetarian restaurant. All those I found had long queues. I ended up eating in one of the many half-empty places offering beef, more beef, or even more beef.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Bledlow on 28 January, 2014, 09:04:36 pm
My observations and views :
Small restaurants with informal visitors have to make a commercial decision about whether it is worth their while catering for non-meat eaters.
At events aimed at larger groups, particularly when the food is not the main point of the event, weddings etc the organisers should ensure that all known non-standard diets are catered for as well as the.
expected proportion of veggies and vegans
Caters should understand that veggie and vegan food is attractive to meat eaters and so provide enough to allow for this.
Above all they should make it obvious what it all is.

Were there is some element of compulsion it the event - work training courses, sales conferences etc I think that the organiser has a moral duty to  make provision for all diets.
Absolutely right.

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I also remember going to a works Christmas party wgjere every item on the buffet for 150 people contained meat.
See my story about the venue that had to be bullied into providing something without meat for a works party for 400. At least the employer was willing to do the necessary bullying.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Martin on 28 January, 2014, 09:17:30 pm
Can we get another nine pages out of an innocuous post in Food and Drink ? Will this be the first thread to be locked in Food and Drink ? We can but wait and see.

I'll try;

I really like Quorn products; the more it looks and tastes like meat the better  :demon:
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Julian on 28 January, 2014, 09:46:54 pm
I hadn't realised helmets were now made out of meat.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Martin on 28 January, 2014, 09:55:25 pm
I hadn't realised helmets were now made out of meat.

yes and Quorn helmets should be compulsory
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Eccentrica Gallumbits on 28 January, 2014, 10:30:27 pm
I hadn't realised helmets were now made out of meat.
That's because you're a lesbian.  :demon:
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Euan Uzami on 28 January, 2014, 10:42:54 pm
Ben, I really hope you don't teach maths - or logic.  If 10 vegetarians are faced with a meat-only option because the meat-eaters have eaten all the veggie food that doesn't lead to the same amount of meat consumed.  The veggies just don't eat the meat.  (By the way, there is no such thing as an occasional veggie or a vegetarian who only eats fish, say.)
;D I'm sorry but there  absolutely is ! I've witnessed them. A bloke where used to work was one.
And you still haven't explained why, because I am a vegetarian, I should be campaigning anymore than a meat-eater.  I just don't eat meat and while I wish more people were like me (in that respect at least) I don't bang on about it.  I've campaigned about loads of things in my time and currently have just as full and busy a life as any meat-eater.
I just don't see the point of being a vegetarian on moral grounds if you don't... like I've said,I just don't see the point in boycotting things,I just don't think it does any good.
It's like the spokesman who jets around the world advising governments on climate change policy. His personal carbon footprint is massive due to all his flights, but he is a net benefit to the planet due to the political good he does in influencing green policies. He's better for the planet than the tree hugging hippy who sits in his house all day smoking weed thinking he's a saint just cos he hasn't got a car.
The meat eater who  campaigns for better animal welfare does more good to animals than the vegetarian who doesn't.
You don't HAVE to campaign if you don't want to, just don't necessarily think you've got the moral high ground over something you consider objectionable just because you decide not to benefit from it. Or, you don't convince me that you have.
If you don't intend to, that's fine.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Feline on 28 January, 2014, 11:27:08 pm
I have pretty limited caterering skills (as anyone on an Audax I've catered for probably knows!), but the formula I've found to work is assume a 50% split vegetarian and non-vegetarian.

On the national 400 this resulted in us running out of the meat option for the last 2 riders, which was not really an issue since the veggie option was actually vegan so anyone could eat it. We worked on the basis that a certain percentage of people will prefer the veggie option just because they like the sound of it even if not veggie, some will choose it because they are veggie, and some will choose it for digestion reasons on a long event.

At the end of the day I knew it would be much more of a problem to run out of the veggie dish than the meat dish and so catered accordingly. If I was catering for a wedding or similar I would probably do exactly the same for all the same reasons. I am not vegetarian but prefer to only eat free range meat so in a mass catering event I will often opt for the vegetarian option. Of course if asked beforehand I would have let them know that in advance , but all too often no one bothers to collect the data before the event. I don't think the ethical choices a vegetarian makes should trump my choices in that situation thus forcing me to eat meat I am not comfortable with the provenance of. Caterers should plan for all likely scenarios and if not should take the hit of having to source extra at the last minute to make good for unexpected demand on certain dishes. The word 'cater' means to fulfill demands doesn't it?
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: teethgrinder on 29 January, 2014, 12:12:57 am
A lot of meat eaters turn vegetarian on long rides. Meat is hard to digest.
Twas one of Velocio's 7 commandments of cycling...
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Peter on 29 January, 2014, 01:34:00 am
All right, Ben, since you seem to want to dictate how I should be behaving without actually knowing what I do (I didn't say I didn't campaign, I merely questioned your prescription that I should campaign because I'm a vegetarian and I don't think I mentioned morals).  I don't campaign actively for vegetarianism, except by being a vegetarian, which has certainly been effective on its own in rattling you.  You then go on to say that a meat-eater who campaigns for better animal welfare is doing more good than a vegetarian who doesn't campaign.  I know all about Temple Grandin (a non-vegetarian who has worked wonders for the welfare of animals in the American meat industry) and I applaud her work.  I also campaign, the whole family does, for animal welfare, usually quietly by means of regular donations and correspondence.  Does that make me better or worse than a campaigning meat-eater or as good as, maybe?

I don't presume that you campaign because presumption is what got you into this mess in the first place.

I don't hate meat-eaters - I've been one - I don't even blame them for not leaving me anything to eat sometimes.  I blame lack of sufficient provision and I thought that that was what this thread was about.  Incidentally, if I find myself at someone's house unexpectedly (I am extraordinarily attractive) and they offer to get me something to eat, I explain that I'm a vegetarian but I don't expect them to do anything except not give me meat.

But none of this comes up very often, so you really shouldn't worry too much about it.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Eccentrica Gallumbits on 29 January, 2014, 08:05:41 am
Ben, I really hope you don't teach maths - or logic.  If 10 vegetarians are faced with a meat-only option because the meat-eaters have eaten all the veggie food that doesn't lead to the same amount of meat consumed.  The veggies just don't eat the meat.  (By the way, there is no such thing as an occasional veggie or a vegetarian who only eats fish, say.)
;D I'm sorry but there  absolutely is ! I've witnessed them. A bloke where used to work was one.
He wasn't vegetarian. He might not eat much meat or fish, but he does eat it. So he's not vegetarian.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: nicknack on 29 January, 2014, 10:41:13 am
An exception to the 'meat - interesting, veggie stuff - boring' attitude of caterers quoted above is, in my experience, the pub buffet. I quite often go for the veggie stuff cos the meat stuff is so awful. Sausage rolls, plastic ham sandwiches, chicken nuggets, etc. are enough to turn anyone veggie for the night.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Cudzoziemiec on 29 January, 2014, 10:54:55 am
A lot of meat eaters turn vegetarian on long rides. Meat is hard to digest.
Twas one of Velocio's 7 commandments of cycling...
I wasn't familiar with Velocio, so google found me this:
http://thebikeshow.net/velocios-7-commandments-for-the-wise-cyclist/
Seven simple rules and... a left-hand chain with multiple chainwheels and one sprocket!

(http://thebikeshow.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/velocio.jpg)

In fact I can't quite work out what's going on with that drive system - he seems to have one chain each side.

Ok - another site explains it:
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Velocio was a really neat guy. He was the one who invented first bikes with two concentric gears selected by hand, later on both sides of the wheel (you had to turn the wheel around), and later invented the modern derailleur.
http://www.bicyclesource.com/seven_cyclist_commandments
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Peter on 29 January, 2014, 11:14:52 am
Ah, I thought one chain was made of meat and the other of tofu!
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: rr on 29 January, 2014, 12:29:26 pm
An exception to the 'meat - interesting, veggie stuff - boring' attitude of caterers quoted above is, in my experience, the pub buffet. I quite often go for the veggie stuff cos the meat stuff is so awful. Sausage rolls, plastic ham sandwiches, chicken nuggets, etc. are enough to turn anyone veggie for the night.
totally, cheap and nasty meat and pastry products are some of the worst "food " products available. Often known in our team as UFOs (unidentified fried objects ).
Veggie option every time for  me.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Euan Uzami on 29 January, 2014, 12:52:59 pm
Ben, I really hope you don't teach maths - or logic.  If 10 vegetarians are faced with a meat-only option because the meat-eaters have eaten all the veggie food that doesn't lead to the same amount of meat consumed.  The veggies just don't eat the meat.  (By the way, there is no such thing as an occasional veggie or a vegetarian who only eats fish, say.)
;D I'm sorry but there  absolutely is ! I've witnessed them. A bloke where used to work was one.
He wasn't vegetarian. He might not eat much meat or fish, but he does eat it. So he's not vegetarian.

Well, the point was he described himself as a vegetarian, but then goes and necks the odd bacon sandwich when he  thinks it will go unnoticed.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: anotherdeadhero on 29 January, 2014, 01:24:13 pm
Ben, I really hope you don't teach maths - or logic.  If 10 vegetarians are faced with a meat-only option because the meat-eaters have eaten all the veggie food that doesn't lead to the same amount of meat consumed.  The veggies just don't eat the meat.  (By the way, there is no such thing as an occasional veggie or a vegetarian who only eats fish, say.)
;D I'm sorry but there  absolutely is ! I've witnessed them. A bloke where used to work was one.
He wasn't vegetarian. He might not eat much meat or fish, but he does eat it. So he's not vegetarian.

Well, the point was he described himself as a vegetarian, but then goes and necks the odd bacon sandwich when he  thinks it will go unnoticed.

Ergo, all 'vegetarians' are liars, and don't eat meat only to be precious and picky  :facepalm:
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Woofage on 29 January, 2014, 01:31:27 pm
Well, the point was he described himself as a vegetarian, but then goes and necks the odd bacon sandwich when he  thinks it will go unnoticed.

Sometimes it's easier to add a simple label to one's self than explain what you prefer or not prefer to eat. For example, I haven't described myself as a vegetarian in this thread because I'm not. If I'm going to a function or meal though by far the easiest approach is for me to say I'm vegetarian.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: hellymedic on 29 January, 2014, 03:09:48 pm
Well, the point was he described himself as a vegetarian, but then goes and necks the odd bacon sandwich when he  thinks it will go unnoticed.

Sometimes it's easier to add a simple label to one's self than explain what you prefer or not prefer to eat. For example, I haven't described myself as a vegetarian in this thread because I'm not. If I'm going to a function or meal though by far the easiest approach is for me to say I'm vegetarian.

As I don't usually exceed one turkey meal per festive season, I could use this option.
I am not a vegan or a veggie but don't always want the meat option.
I suppose I would try to leave enough sustenance for vegetarians at a buffet but it can be hard to assess others' supply and demand.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: citoyen on 29 January, 2014, 03:50:45 pm
I am not a vegan or a veggie but don't always want the meat option.

BTDTGTTS

"I'll have the vegetarian option, please."
"Oh, I didn't know you were a vegetarian."
"I'm not."
"Then why... ***ERROR*** DOES NOT COMPUTE" <brain melts>

The idea of an omnivore not always wanting the meat option really does trouble some people. Mainly those with no imagination.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Jasmine on 29 January, 2014, 03:54:52 pm
I don't think that vegetarians would ask non-vegetarians not to eat any of the veggie food, but to be slightly considerate, given the crapness of some caterers.  Here's an example I experienced last year:

I attended an external lunch meeting, from 11 until 3pm, which included buffet sandwiches for lunch.  I had specifically mentioned being vegetarian to the organiser, as had another person.  The organiser tells the caterer that at least 2 of the 15 people due at the meeting are vegetarian.  When the sandwiches arrive, there is a large tray (about 30 sandwich triangles) of beef sandwiches, another of chicken something sandwiches, another of tuna mayo and another of ham.  There is then a plate containing 8 triangles of cheese sandwiches.  Personally, I think the caterer was taking the piss with that, especially as a few of the meat eating people at the front of the queue took them.

In contrast to BenT's scenario where the veggies would then eat the meat sandwiches, we didn't have any at all, so just ate the cake.

For pre-ordered food, or non-buffet food, the issue doesn't often arise - except when you've pre-ordered one thing and like the look of something better when the food starts coming out so there isn't enough of a particular thing, but that's annoying whatever you've ordered.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Euan Uzami on 29 January, 2014, 05:04:00 pm
I don't think that vegetarians would ask non-vegetarians not to eat any of the veggie food,
Well, you might not, but some of the more militant vegetarians in our midst have admitted upthread that they DO do exactly that.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: red marley on 29 January, 2014, 05:17:15 pm
Beware the militant vegetarians. They come over here, infiltrate our barbecues and stop us eating our vegetables. And what's more, they don't even have the guts to do so while campaigning. Or something.

BTW, someone ought to contact the real Ben T and tell him someone has hacked his account and replaced it with a parody of himself.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: hellymedic on 29 January, 2014, 05:24:15 pm
One problem is that caterers fail to appreciate that omnivores like a variety of foods and might not want meat all the time.
(Actually most people like some variety in their diet; why the hell is this *news* to fucking caterers?)
Providing little variety and insufficient provision for veggies are both catering sins IMO.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: zigzag on 29 January, 2014, 05:42:51 pm
(didn't read the whole thread, but) answering to op i can't see why would be hard to make some food for vegetarian guest(s). people who eat meat, eat it with something (potatoes, rice, pasta, vegetables, sauces) so more of that something minus meat would make a meal as a worst case, if there is lack of imagination or suitable products to cook a proper vegetarian meal. then there's always nuts, seeds, fresh and dried fruit and berries which guests can nibble on and i hope most households have at least some of that. there's always a big supermarket a short walk away, open 24hrs.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: clarion on 29 January, 2014, 06:04:52 pm
...didn't read the whole thread...

In this case, very wise.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Bledlow on 29 January, 2014, 07:03:30 pm
I don't think that vegetarians would ask non-vegetarians not to eat any of the veggie food, but to be slightly considerate, given the crapness of some caterers.  Here's an example I experienced last year:

I attended an external lunch meeting, from 11 until 3pm, which included buffet sandwiches for lunch.  I had specifically mentioned being vegetarian to the organiser, as had another person.  The organiser tells the caterer that at least 2 of the 15 people due at the meeting are vegetarian.  When the sandwiches arrive, there is a large tray (about 30 sandwich triangles) of beef sandwiches, another of chicken something sandwiches, another of tuna mayo and another of ham.  There is then a plate containing 8 triangles of cheese sandwiches.  Personally, I think the caterer was taking the piss with that, especially as a few of the meat eating people at the front of the queue took them.

In contrast to BenT's scenario where the veggies would then eat the meat sandwiches, we didn't have any at all, so just ate the cake.

For pre-ordered food, or non-buffet food, the issue doesn't often arise - except when you've pre-ordered one thing and like the look of something better when the food starts coming out so there isn't enough of a particular thing, but that's annoying whatever you've ordered.
That's an example of the anti-vegetarian prejudice of some caterers I mentioned.

I've eaten sandwich buffets where no special provision for vegetarians was asked for, & maybe half the sandwiches were meat & fish free. Normal, innit? Who actually eats only meat or fish sandwiches?
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Wowbagger on 29 January, 2014, 08:09:36 pm
It's no good. Every time I see this thread my dyslexoinnuendism converts the title to "I am not a virgin".

There is no hope for me I'm afraid.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: red marley on 29 January, 2014, 09:25:17 pm
I think you are allowed to call yourself a virgin if you sometimes don't have sex.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Martin on 29 January, 2014, 09:35:31 pm
as an aside has anyone noticed that 'spoons have withdrawn veggy dishes from most of their meal deals? (I think just veggie curry veggie burger and whatever they do Sunday lunch)

I hardly think it's lack of demand cos they never have the veggie curry when I order it)

am I also the only person who orders a McD's breakfast meal and pulls the meat out as it's cheaper and much quicker than ordering seperate items?
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: hellymedic on 29 January, 2014, 09:46:07 pm
as an aside has anyone noticed that 'spoons have withdrawn veggy dishes from most of their meal deals? (I think just veggie curry veggie burger and whatever they do Sunday lunch)

I hardly think it's lack of demand cos they never have the veggie curry when I order it)

am I also the only person who orders a McD's breakfast meal and pulls the meat out as it's cheaper and much quicker than ordering seperate items?

That is news to me!
The sweet potato & chickpea curry is on this menu. http://www.jdwetherspoon.co.uk/home/food/menu/main/mains-2 (http://www.jdwetherspoon.co.uk/home/food/menu/main/mains-2)
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: clarion on 29 January, 2014, 09:47:01 pm
So was Madonna singing that she was 'Like A Vegan'?
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Martin on 29 January, 2014, 09:49:38 pm
as an aside has anyone noticed that 'spoons have withdrawn veggy dishes from most of their meal deals? (I think just veggie curry veggie burger and whatever they do Sunday lunch)

I hardly think it's lack of demand cos they never have the veggie curry when I order it)

am I also the only person who orders a McD's breakfast meal and pulls the meat out as it's cheaper and much quicker than ordering seperate items?

That is news to me!
The sweet potato & chickpea curry is on this menu. http://www.jdwetherspoon.co.uk/home/food/menu/main/mains-2 (http://www.jdwetherspoon.co.uk/home/food/menu/main/mains-2)

I mean they have always run out;

but they are offering meal deals at silly prices (usually hardly any more than a glass of wine at any other pub) and by not offering a veggie option are discriminating; I think

as an example on Tuesdays they offer 2 steak and chips meals and a bottle of pretty decent Hardys for £15.99; to order the 3 items using another veggie option off the menu instead was £10 more
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Euan Uzami on 29 January, 2014, 10:06:26 pm
as an aside has anyone noticed that 'spoons have withdrawn veggy dishes from most of their meal deals? (I think just veggie curry veggie burger and whatever they do Sunday lunch)

I hardly think it's lack of demand cos they never have the veggie curry when I order it)

am I also the only person who orders a McD's breakfast meal and pulls the meat out as it's cheaper and much quicker than ordering seperate items?

Can only assume that it must be that vegetarians aren't doing enough to convince them of their cause. ;)
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Julian on 29 January, 2014, 10:19:48 pm
as an aside has anyone noticed that 'spoons have withdrawn veggy dishes from most of their meal deals? (I think just veggie curry veggie burger and whatever they do Sunday lunch)

I hardly think it's lack of demand cos they never have the veggie curry when I order it)

am I also the only person who orders a McD's breakfast meal and pulls the meat out as it's cheaper and much quicker than ordering seperate items?

You may be the only person on this thread who orders a McD's breakfast ;)

I usually get the veggie option in the 'spoons - they do veggie sausage and mash, baked potatoes, a 'superfood' pasta (never again, it was foul), and five bean chilli, off the top of my head.    Plus a lot of their stuff can be made vegan and they cater for the gluten-free squad and the carb-free brigade.  It's pretty much the only place you can be guaranteed that an assortment of fussy eaters those with specific dietary requirements will all be fed.


(Just looked at Hellymedic's link - there's also veggie burger, chilli noodles, nachos and a veggie all-day-breakfast, and three out of six of their 'two meals for £X are veggie or veggie-able, so I don't think they're guilty of withdrawing anything from the meal deals.)
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Martin on 29 January, 2014, 10:28:12 pm

You may be the only person on this thread who orders a McD's breakfast ;)

so I don't think they're guilty of withdrawing anything from the meal deals.)

I did think that but like 'spoons a McD's brekkie's hardly any more than a coffee anywhere else

the point I was mking about 'spoons is that they have a lot of all day every day and weekly meal deals that include a drink (which does not heave to be alcoholic and is cheaper if not) but many of them (hot dog, chicken, steak and fish) have no veggie alternative
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Julian on 29 January, 2014, 10:31:04 pm
I see what you mean, but one of their veggie meals is still cheaper than a 'steak club' dinner and there are plenty of veggie alternatives on the menu.  I don't think that's discrimination given the number of veggie options available.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: anotherdeadhero on 29 January, 2014, 11:09:17 pm
Can only assume that it must be that vegetarians aren't doing enough to convince them of their cause. ;)

I think they would, but they're so pale and pasty they've not the energy. The poor darlings.

Whenever you go out with them, you never see them eat anything save a bag of crisps.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Cudzoziemiec on 29 January, 2014, 11:21:41 pm
So was Madonna singing that she was 'Like A Vegan'?
Bitten for the very first time?
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: teethgrinder on 29 January, 2014, 11:28:26 pm

the point I was mking about 'spoons is that they have a lot of all day every day and weekly meal deals that include a drink (which does not heave to be alcoholic and is cheaper if not) but many of them (hot dog, chicken, steak and fish) have no veggie alternative

That is true.
Meat eating is more expensive than being a veggie. Quite a few of these offers at Wetherspoons will save you less than £1 (I know because I'm a tight git and do the sums)
One thing I really do like bout Wetherspoons is that they tell you the amount of miles calories you get out of one of their meals. :)
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: citoyen on 30 January, 2014, 11:26:24 am
You may be the only person on this thread who orders a McD's breakfast ;)

No, I must admit that a McD's breakfast is an occasional guilty pleasure here. I'm not saying I actually like it, but sometimes it's just the only thing that will do. (Having said that, I can't remember the last time I had one.)

Wetherspoon's food is beyond the pale though.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: hellymedic on 30 January, 2014, 01:51:17 pm
You may be the only person on this thread who orders a McD's breakfast ;)

No, I must admit that a McD's breakfast is an occasional guilty pleasure here. I'm not saying I actually like it, but sometimes it's just the only thing that will do. (Having said that, I can't remember the last time I had one.)

Wetherspoon's food is beyond the pale though.

I disagree.
I speak only for myself.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: geraldc on 30 January, 2014, 02:24:01 pm
McDonalds I love, Wetherspoons, not so much.
Sausage and Egg McMuffin/Breakfast wrap are the hangover food of the gods.

I had hot dog in Wetherspoons, they microwaved the bun, not good.
Title: I am not a vegan...
Post by: citoyen on 31 January, 2014, 12:32:41 am
Bacon & egg muffin for me. Don't like the sausage version.

I was put off Wetherspoons food by a very bad burger experience once. I'm sure it's not all as bad as that but it's a negative association I can't get past.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Martin on 31 January, 2014, 10:44:02 pm
Bacon & egg muffin for me. Don't like the sausage version.

I was put off Wetherspoons food by a very bad burger experience once. I'm sure it's not all as bad as that but it's a negative association I can't get past.

well if you will eat meat  ;) never had a problem with the veggie version  :P
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Gandalf on 02 February, 2014, 06:46:47 am
One thing I've never understood is the unwritten law in the catering trade. The one that states that when grudgingly providing a vegetarian 'option' it has to be slathered with eggs and/or dairy, thus making it useless for vegans.

Do they think the sky will fall in or something if they provide a meal devoid of animal products?
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Tewdric on 02 February, 2014, 07:27:13 am
One thing I've never understood is the unwritten law in the catering trade. The one that states that when grudgingly providing a vegetarian 'option' it has to be slathered with eggs and/or dairy, thus making it useless for vegans.

Do they think the sky will fall in or something if they provide a meal devoid of animal products?

Turn this on its head a minute - put yourself in the place a catering manager at a large event where you reckon youll probably sell 200 meals.  You know from experience that you'll get between 0 and 5 people asking for gluten, dairy or whatever else free meals, half a dozen asking for kosher or halal, and the vast majority plumping for traditional favourites, with maybe 10% choosing food with no meat.  You're required to operate at 100% mark up after staff costs and can't afford waste in any significant quantity.  You have a small team of zero hours contract chefs on minimum wage whose experience is limited.  What would you put on?
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: clarion on 02 February, 2014, 09:08:20 am
Entirely vegan, because that can be eaten by meat eaters (except addicts), vegetarians, vegans, lactose intolerant, Muslim, Orthodox Jewish and, if you're careful, gluten intolerant.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: L CC on 02 February, 2014, 09:13:22 am
Did you read Kim's post above, Clarion? And do you run a business?
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: red marley on 02 February, 2014, 09:26:49 am
I think Kim's point about promoting food as vegan not being a value-free lowest common denominator is a good one. However, that doesn't preclude the possibility of 'stealth' veganism/vegetarianism. A good example being a soup starter that happens not to contain any meat or dairy products.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Julian on 02 February, 2014, 11:12:19 am
One thing I've never understood is the unwritten law in the catering trade. The one that states that when grudgingly providing a vegetarian 'option' it has to be slathered with eggs and/or dairy, thus making it useless for vegans.

Do they think the sky will fall in or something if they provide a meal devoid of animal products?

No, but having worked in a pub kitchen - and this was not of the gastropub variety, it was more like microwave meals put on a plate for you - one of the things that catered food must do is

* freeze and unfreeze well
* portion well
* sit under a hot lamp well

A quiche can be frozen, plated into 10 individual portions and then will sit happily for 20 minutes waiting for everything else to be ready and plated, whereas vegan food will be at risk of drying out.  Even if you produce something that goes out immediately, you have to assume it will be under a hot lamp in the lifts waiting for the waiter to get it to the table for about five minutes.

If you're doing a buffet that has to sit out for up to three hours, then this is even more important.  You don't want something that is going to dry up or go claggy while it's out.

Obviously there are a load of ways round this (cover the food in some form of tomato-based sauce instead of a cheese one, or ensure it is oiled up to the nines) but the eggy dairy solution is the most widely available if you're getting your food from Brake Bros.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Cudzoziemiec on 02 February, 2014, 11:38:17 am
So that's the reason: Because Broke Bros breaked brakefast.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Julian on 02 February, 2014, 12:03:20 pm
One thing I've never understood is the unwritten law in the catering trade. The one that states that when grudgingly providing a vegetarian 'option' it has to be slathered with eggs and/or dairy, thus making it useless for vegans.

Do they think the sky will fall in or something if they provide a meal devoid of animal products?

Turn this on its head a minute - put yourself in the place a catering manager at a large event where you reckon youll probably sell 200 meals.  You know from experience that you'll get between 0 and 5 people asking for gluten, dairy or whatever else free meals, half a dozen asking for kosher or halal, and the vast majority plumping for traditional favourites, with maybe 10% choosing food with no meat.  You're required to operate at 100% mark up after staff costs and can't afford waste in any significant quantity.  You have a small team of zero hours contract chefs on minimum wage whose experience is limited.  What would you put on?

Sausage & mash - can choose veggie or meat sausage (neither vegan nor gluten free, because the mash will need milk or butter to keep it from going dry between creation and serving.  Alternative would be to do carrot & parsnip mash, which is smoother than potato and would probably cope with a little oil instead of milk.  Soy milk in mash is too revolting to contemplate.  However, likely to be the most popular option especially if the sausages are posh.)

Pasta with meat or veggie sauce - veggie sauce will be a vegan tomato / olive sauce, the meat version will be the same thing but with chorizo added.  Parmesan available separately for meat eaters / veggies (can be vegan and gluten free pasta can be available to make it gluten free, although in reality this is probably unnecessary expenditure if you have g-f alternatives).

Salad plate: Puy lentil salad with spring onions, tomatoes and mushrooms, carrot and beetroot salad with caraway seeds and a green leaves / cucumber / avocado number  (vegan and gluten free - but will probably be heavier on calories than it sounds due to the amount of dressing needed).  Could offer a "with chicken" option if it was popular.

Sag gosht / sag aloo with rice and onion bhaji (can be vegan and gluten free)

Popular classics needn't be advertised as being vegan or g-f in a poncey way - most people will eat pasta in tomato sauce.  All of the above are reasonably cheap, easy to make and to make well, can be mass produced, will sit under a lamp so that 200 plates can go out in reasonable time, and cater for vegans, kosher, halal, gluten free, dairy intolerant but do so quietly.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: mrcharly-YHT on 02 February, 2014, 12:51:04 pm
Rissotto/ veg paella

roast veg

Baked potatoes, with veg chilli/curry

Title: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Tewdric on 02 February, 2014, 01:55:19 pm
Rissotto/ veg paella

roast veg

Baked potatoes, with veg chilli/curry

Which would piss off 80% of the punters ensuring you don't get the contract again.  Julian's menu is fine but what proportions of veg to no veg choice do you do?  You could keep everyone happy by over catering and throwing a lot away, I which case you will be undercut on price by someone else who gets the contract, or you make a judgement and risk annoying meat eaters by giving them gipping veggie sausages or incurring the wrath of the veggies.  Most opt for notification of fussiness in advance, which is fine until a meat eater sneaks a few veggie spring rolls away or someone who didn't bother to say in advance wants veggie food.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: hellymedic on 02 February, 2014, 02:12:49 pm
Rissotto/ veg paella

roast veg

Baked potatoes, with veg chilli/curry

Which would piss off 80% of the punters ensuring you don't get the contract again.  Julian's menu is fine but what proportions of veg to no veg choice do you do?  You could keep everyone happy by over catering and throwing a lot away, I which case you will be undercut on price by someone else who gets the contract, or you make a judgement and risk annoying meat eaters by giving them gipping veggie sausages or incurring the wrath of the veggies.  Most opt for notification of fussiness in advance, which is fine until a meat eater sneaks a few veggie spring rolls away or someone who didn't bother to say in advance wants veggie food.

I am not a caterer.
I don't think all meat-eaters are obligate carnivores, though some may be.
As I don't believe omnivores are obligate carnivores, I take issue with the assertion that 80% of the meat-eaters would get pissed off.
Vegan food is cheap enough for some over-catering to have little effect on margins.

It's the meat that's pricy.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Euan Uzami on 02 February, 2014, 02:14:42 pm
I don't think all meat-eaters are obligate carnivores, though some may be.
As I don't believe omnivores are obligate carnivores, I take issue with the assertion that 80% of the meat-eaters would get pissed off.
Vegan food is cheap enough for some over-catering to have little effect on margins.

It's the meat that's pricy.

This is it.
I can't help thinking this problem would be solved if vegetarians were a little bit more cooperative.
Most meat eaters' attitude is "I'd prefer a meat dish, but I don't mind a veggie dish if there's no meat left".
In contrast vegetarians' attitude is "I absolutely MUST have a dish devoid of meat."
Just seems they're being a little bit less accomodating than meat eaters.
If you got a buffet where 80% of the people's attitude was "I'd prefer meat, but I don't mind veggie"
and the other 20%'s attitude was "I'd prefer veggie, but I don't mind meat" then you would cook 80% meat, 20% veggie, but  there would be no problems if the odd person didn't notify their preference or switched,  no food wastage, and no toys would be thrown out of prams.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: CrinklyLion on 02 February, 2014, 02:22:26 pm
Ben... go look up vegetarian and omnivore (and cooperation) would you? Then piss off too.

Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: hellymedic on 02 February, 2014, 02:26:22 pm
I don't think it's right or fair to expect veggies to be 'flexible'.
If I can't get up stairs, being 'flexible' about toilets that are upstairs will not be possible...
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Eccentrica Gallumbits on 02 February, 2014, 02:27:30 pm
This is it.
I can't help thinking this problem would be solved if vegetarians were a little bit more cooperative.
Most meat eaters' attitude is "I'd prefer a meat dish, but I don't mind a veggie dish if there's no meat left".
In contrast vegetarians' attitude is "I absolutely MUST have a dish devoid of meat."
Just seems they're being a little bit less accomodating than meat eaters.
If you got a buffet where 80% of the people's attitude was "I'd prefer meat, but I don't mind veggie"
and the other 20%'s attitude was "I'd prefer veggie, but I don't mind meat" then you would cook 80% meat, 20% veggie, but  there would be no problems if the odd person didn't notify their preference or switched,  no food wastage, and no toys would be thrown out of prams.
I can't help thinking this problem would be solved if caterers took a bit more pride in their work, and some omnivores realised the world won't end if they have a cheese sandwich instead of a ham one.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Euan Uzami on 02 February, 2014, 03:28:27 pm
I can't help thinking this problem would be solved if caterers took a bit more pride in their work, and some omnivores realised the world won't end if they have a cheese sandwich instead of a ham one.

They might be cheese-intolerant. I have a relation who is.

(Otherwise, what's wrong with cheese AND ham sandwiches? ;) It annoys me having to take the bread off one of each and put the two halves together )

Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: hellymedic on 02 February, 2014, 03:54:22 pm
(Otherwise, what's wrong with cheese AND ham sandwiches? ;) It annoys me having to take the bread off one of each and put the two halves together )

Bread is cheap.
Cheese and ham are relatively costly.
A cheese and ham sandwich would cost nearly twice as much as a plain cheese or ham sandwich.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: teethgrinder on 02 February, 2014, 04:07:24 pm
Bread is cheap.
Cheese and ham are relatively costly.
A cheese and ham sandwich would cost nearly twice as much as a plain cheese or ham sandwich.

Only if you're a meanie who makes cheese or ham sandwiches with only one slice of cheese or ham.
I use at least 2 slices per roll.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: SteveC on 02 February, 2014, 04:24:36 pm
Only if you're a meanie who makes cheese or ham sandwiches with only one slice of cheese or ham.

That'd be most mass caterers then.

Trouble is, they do need to make a profit and food costs are the one thing they think they can cut back on.
In one of Gordon Ramsay's Kitchen Nightmares he explained to on café owner than if her food costs were more than 10% of her total costs, she'd go bust. But they've probably already cut staffing costs to minimum wages so there's nothing else.
Putting up prices is fine if your market will bear it. Many customers won't or can't.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Julian on 02 February, 2014, 04:37:56 pm
Rissotto/ veg paella

roast veg

Baked potatoes, with veg chilli/curry

Which would piss off 80% of the punters ensuring you don't get the contract again.  Julian's menu is fine but what proportions of veg to no veg choice do you do?  You could keep everyone happy by over catering and throwing a lot away, I which case you will be undercut on price by someone else who gets the contract, or you make a judgement and risk annoying meat eaters by giving them gipping veggie sausages or incurring the wrath of the veggies.  Most opt for notification of fussiness in advance, which is fine until a meat eater sneaks a few veggie spring rolls away or someone who didn't bother to say in advance wants veggie food.

Ask for menu choices in advance, if it's only 200 people.  For the inevitable few who forget to order in advance, the surplus will be in the mass things (like the spinach or the tomato sauce) rather than the countable things like sausages.

The other thing to do is take the meat out first (often the veggie option comes out first which results in a few people 'forgetting' that they had ordered the meat one.)

If we're running a cafe / restaurant rather than a catering service, keep everything frozen.  Batches of sausages can be defrosted and cooked as the day goes on and more can be ordered at short notice if demand is higher than anticipated.  Likewise making up a huge batch of tomato sauce or spinach for the sag gosht / aloo, the lamb or spuds can then be added at will and the leftover sauce can be frozen or kept fresh for the next couple of days. 

The only thing that wouldn't work for is the salads which will have to be made to order although the individual components can be prepped in advance and surplus can be kept refrigerated.

(ooh, the food hygiene qualifications are all flooding back to me now…)
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Eccentrica Gallumbits on 02 February, 2014, 05:05:32 pm
The other thing to do is take the meat out first (often the veggie option comes out first which results in a few people 'forgetting' that they had ordered the meat one.)
Work Christmas night out, one of those corporate party nights in the function room of a large hotel. Probably 10 tables of about 30 people each in the room. All the starters come out. Fine. The meat main courses come out. I wait for the veggie main course. The meat main course is cleared away and the desserts come out. The veggies are still waiting for the veggie main course. The desserts are cleared away and all the fed people hit the dance floor. At roughly 10pm, by which time we are very hungry and very very very drunk, the veggie main courses come out, and I am presented with three carrot batons, three Brussels sprouts, three roast potatoes, and a puff pastry crescent filled with mashed potato and a couple of mushrooms.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: hellymedic on 02 February, 2014, 05:14:49 pm
(ooh, the food hygiene qualifications are all flooding back to me now…)

Could you give some instruction to Heston, please?
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Julian on 02 February, 2014, 05:23:16 pm
The other thing to do is take the meat out first (often the veggie option comes out first which results in a few people 'forgetting' that they had ordered the meat one.)
Work Christmas night out, one of those corporate party nights in the function room of a large hotel. Probably 10 tables of about 30 people each in the room. All the starters come out. Fine. The meat main courses come out. I wait for the veggie main course. The meat main course is cleared away and the desserts come out. The veggies are still waiting for the veggie main course. The desserts are cleared away and all the fed people hit the dance floor. At roughly 10pm, by which time we are very hungry and very very very drunk, the veggie main courses come out, and I am presented with three carrot batons, three Brussels sprouts, three roast potatoes, and a puff pastry crescent filled with mashed potato and a couple of mushrooms.

I had a work xmas night out about 10 years ago when I was a proper veggie (as in, would not eat the meat option a la Ben T's suggestion upthread) where after the meat eaters had consumed their turkey roast, the veggies were presented with a filo pastry wrap, all triangular beauty and twisted into a little doo-dah in the top.  It was very pretty.  Unfortunately it had been filled with what seemed to be turnip and then drizzled festively with…. chocolate sauce.

Probably one of the most minging things I have ever tried to eat.  In the end the veggies just got drunk instead.  Apart from the one who didn't drink, who had a truly shit night.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Tewdric on 02 February, 2014, 06:28:55 pm
Rissotto/ veg paella

roast veg

Baked potatoes, with veg chilli/curry

Which would piss off 80% of the punters ensuring you don't get the contract again.  Julian's menu is fine but what proportions of veg to no veg choice do you do?  You could keep everyone happy by over catering and throwing a lot away, I which case you will be undercut on price by someone else who gets the contract, or you make a judgement and risk annoying meat eaters by giving them gipping veggie sausages or incurring the wrath of the veggies.  Most opt for notification of fussiness in advance, which is fine until a meat eater sneaks a few veggie spring rolls away or someone who didn't bother to say in advance wants veggie food.

Ask for menu choices in advance, if it's only 200 people.  For the inevitable few who forget to order in advance, the surplus will be in the mass things (like the spinach or the tomato sauce) rather than the countable things like sausages.

The other thing to do is take the meat out first (often the veggie option comes out first which results in a few people 'forgetting' that they had ordered the meat one.)

If we're running a cafe / restaurant rather than a catering service, keep everything frozen.  Batches of sausages can be defrosted and cooked as the day goes on and more can be ordered at short notice if demand is higher than anticipated.  Likewise making up a huge batch of tomato sauce or spinach for the sag gosht / aloo, the lamb or spuds can then be added at will and the leftover sauce can be frozen or kept fresh for the next couple of days. 

The only thing that wouldn't work for is the salads which will have to be made to order although the individual components can be prepped in advance and surplus can be kept refrigerated.

(ooh, the food hygiene qualifications are all flooding back to me now…)

Now come on Julian you're spoiling a perfectly good argument by actually knowing what you're talking about.  That's simply not fair! 
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: mrcharly-YHT on 02 February, 2014, 06:38:43 pm
Rissotto/ veg paella

roast veg

Baked potatoes, with veg chilli/curry

Which would piss off 80% of the punters ensuring you don't get the contract again.  Julian's menu is fine but what proportions of veg to no veg choice do you do?  You could keep everyone happy by over catering and throwing a lot away, I which case you will be undercut on price by someone else who gets the contract, or you make a judgement and risk annoying meat eaters by giving them gipping veggie sausages or incurring the wrath of the veggies.  Most opt for notification of fussiness in advance, which is fine until a meat eater sneaks a few veggie spring rolls away or someone who didn't bother to say in advance wants veggie food.
I was making dish suggestions that would span vegetarian-vegan-lactose/gluten intolerant.

Dunno what people think is wrong with risotto. Even Pizza Express do a damn nice vegetarian one.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: mrcharly-YHT on 02 February, 2014, 06:39:42 pm
I don't think all meat-eaters are obligate carnivores, though some may be.
As I don't believe omnivores are obligate carnivores, I take issue with the assertion that 80% of the meat-eaters would get pissed off.
Vegan food is cheap enough for some over-catering to have little effect on margins.

It's the meat that's pricy.

This is it.
I can't help thinking this problem would be solved if vegetarians were a little bit more cooperative.
....
...
 and no toys would be thrown out of prams.

so ironic for you to say this, given your attitude in this thread.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Julian on 02 February, 2014, 07:40:53 pm
Risotto is easily cocked up, often bland, often made with non-risotto rice, and too common as the default veggie option.  Also, it takes badly to heat lamps.  My heart sinks a little when I see mushroom risotto as the only available veggie option because it usually means the caterers are inept, unimaginative, and have probably bollocksed up the meat options too.  Which is of course deeply unfair to the places which produce really nice veggie risottos.

Charlotte had one somewhere which they'd made with pudding rice for some reason. 
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Julian on 02 February, 2014, 07:41:18 pm
PS: when I grow up I want to be a caterer.  I love mass cooking :D
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: clarion on 02 February, 2014, 07:45:12 pm
You'll never grow up. :-*
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Gandalf on 02 February, 2014, 08:17:03 pm
I don't think all meat-eaters are obligate carnivores, though some may be.
As I don't believe omnivores are obligate carnivores, I take issue with the assertion that 80% of the meat-eaters would get pissed off.
Vegan food is cheap enough for some over-catering to have little effect on margins.

It's the meat that's pricy.

This is it.
I can't help thinking this problem would be solved if vegetarians were a little bit more cooperative.
Most meat eaters' attitude is "I'd prefer a meat dish, but I don't mind a veggie dish if there's no meat left".
In contrast vegetarians' attitude is "I absolutely MUST have a dish devoid of meat."
Just seems they're being a little bit less accomodating than meat eaters.
If you got a buffet where 80% of the people's attitude was "I'd prefer meat, but I don't mind veggie"
and the other 20%'s attitude was "I'd prefer veggie, but I don't mind meat" then you would cook 80% meat, 20% veggie, but  there would be no problems if the odd person didn't notify their preference or switched,  no food wastage, and no toys would be thrown out of prams.

Forgive me, but are you taking the piss?
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Cudzoziemiec on 03 February, 2014, 12:20:19 am
Risotto is easily cocked up, often bland, often made with non-risotto rice, and too common as the default veggie option.  Also, it takes badly to heat lamps.  My heart sinks a little when I see mushroom risotto as the only available veggie option because it usually means the caterers are inept, unimaginative, and have probably bollocksed up the meat options too.  Which is of course deeply unfair to the places which produce really nice veggie risottos.

Charlotte had one somewhere which they'd made with pudding rice for some reason.
I'm our household default rice cook. It's something I am, somehow, able to cook reliably well and my wife can't. But even having lived in South India for three years (or was it three decades or something?) I have never learnt which sort of rice is supposed to be for what. It's really pretty adaptable stuff, IMO. (we usually used jeera rice, which is for, well, jeera rice! a good do-it-all option)
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Peter on 03 February, 2014, 12:42:32 am
Ben, do you think that Muslims in a town that hasn't a mosque should just Christian-up and attend a church instead?  You seem to have missed the point that, for whatever reason, vegetarianism is a thought-out position.  Eating meat violates that.  Nothing violates a meat-eater's position, except possibly some of your arguments.  This is not to say that vegetarians are "right" and animal-eaters "wrong".  Plenty of the latter have thought about the options and either stayed or reverted to their position.  Nevertheless, it is, like many other attitudes, a default poaition in society at large and it needs challenging.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Ruth on 03 February, 2014, 01:11:04 am
I just don't get it. Do people really feel the need for meat so badly? Or is it some kind of resentment thing? It's so weird that you'd be pissed off to have only veggie choices!

It's just fuel FFS.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: TimC on 03 February, 2014, 02:30:15 am
When the semi-detached MrsC was fully veggie, on the rare occasion that we catered for more than the immediate family, we'd do veggie-only food. We got pretty good at it, and simply didn't make a fuss about it, and our guests thoroughly enjoyed it. Given the propensity for meat-eaters to nick all the nice veggie stuff before all the veggies have been fed, it seemed the logical option: only serve nice veggie stuff that everyone will like.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Ruth on 03 February, 2014, 02:57:57 am
I have quite often cooked veggie when having friends round. Simply because some veggie food is just nicer, and that's what I fancied myself that day. Although I don't really do formal.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Gandalf on 03 February, 2014, 06:23:00 am
Ben, do you think that Muslims in a town that hasn't a mosque should just Christian-up and attend a church instead?  You seem to have missed the point that, for whatever reason, vegetarianism is a thought-out position.  Eating meat violates that.  Nothing violates a meat-eater's position, except possibly some of your arguments.  This is not to say that vegetarians are "right" and animal-eaters "wrong".  Plenty of the latter have thought about the options and either stayed or reverted to their position.  Nevertheless, it is, like many other attitudes, a default poaition in society at large and it needs challenging.

Yebbut we are only being 'fussy' apparently
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Eccentrica Gallumbits on 03 February, 2014, 08:05:07 am
The way Ben's going on, you'd think meat-eaters never ate cheese sandwiches, or beans on toast, or crudités and hummus, or wild mushroom risotto with truffle oil, or ice-cream, or ratatouille.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Valiant on 03 February, 2014, 09:31:04 am
^^ All of that is better with some shredded ham :) :p
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Valiant on 03 February, 2014, 09:35:45 am
With places like Weatherspoons, the meat dishes tend to taste better than the veggie dishes. If the veggie dishes tasted as good I'd be all up in that mutha. If i ran a place it'd be veggie/vegan by default finished off with meat or cheese if preferred.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Gandalf on 03 February, 2014, 10:27:47 am
Interestingly,well for me anyway,is that despite the unassailable difficulties which beset the poor caterer, there are some that manage. 

In terms of dining out, I think it is fair to say that more often than not, we're talking ubiquitous chains, such as Wetherspoons, Harvester, Brewer's Fayre et al. Before I was vegan, the default venue for Aunty Maud's birthday would be the local Harvester, not a vast vegetarian choice but you could get something.  When I became vegan seven years ago, the Harvester was no longer viable, due to their sod all for vegans policy.  I realise that my family ditching them won't exactly cause the share price to collapse, but every little helps.

Nowadays if I find myself being frogmarched to some dire family gathering, we end up at the Toby Carvery.  Admittedly it's like walking onto the set of 'Silent Witness' with different species substituted for the human cadavers, but they do offer two vegan main courses. No starters or desserts yet but it's a start.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Woofage on 03 February, 2014, 10:35:36 am
Slightly related to this topic: Costa will make (hot) drinks with soya milk in place of cow's milk if you ask. Mrs W has a slight intolerance to dairy so that's where we usually go. Shame more establishments don't offer this option.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Julian on 03 February, 2014, 10:56:51 am
Most of the chain coffee shops do!  In London, anyway, not tried to get one anywhere else.  Pret, Starbucks, Nero, Eat and the tragic hipster coffee shops all offer soya milk hot drinks.  I tend to gravitate to Pret because they use organic cow juice which has some minimum welfare standards for the cows.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Woofage on 03 February, 2014, 11:02:24 am
Most of the chain coffee shops do!  In London, anyway, not tried to get one anywhere else.  Pret, Starbucks, Nero, Eat and the tragic hipster coffee shops all offer soya milk hot drinks.  I tend to gravitate to Pret because they use organic cow juice which has some minimum welfare standards for the cows.

Thanks for the info. We don't have a Pret nor an Eat here and I refuse to go into Starbucks. I think there's a Nero but, if it's the place I'm thinking of, I've never thought it looks that inviting.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: pcolbeck on 03 February, 2014, 11:07:01 am
I would have thought soya milk was an unethical choice what with them cutting down the Amazon to grow it the US and Candian's using GM soya.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Cudzoziemiec on 03 February, 2014, 11:12:50 am
I would have thought soya milk was an unethical choice what with them cutting down the Amazon to grow it the US and Candian's using GM soya.
But those are your ethics! Woofage's are, presumably, different. I drink tea black myself, but that's a taste choice not an ethical one.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: red marley on 03 February, 2014, 11:15:13 am
It will depend in part on the brand. One of the more common is Provamel (which is what I use), which claims to source its soya from "small farmers who farm organically, away from rainforest areas and without the use of chemical and artificial fertilisers". Of course, they wouldn't say otherwise, but soya for beef farming does not necessarily work its way into the soya milk supply chain. The net effect of reducing the dependency on cattle (both dairy and beef) is likely to be much more environmentally beneficial than costly.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: L CC on 03 February, 2014, 11:23:18 am
It will depend in part on the brand. One of the more common is Provamel (which is what I use), which claims to source its soya from "small farmers who farm organically, away from rainforest areas and without the use of chemical and artificial fertilisers". Of course, they wouldn't say otherwise, but soya for beef farming does not necessarily work its way into the soya milk supply chain. The net effect of reducing the dependency on cattle (both dairy and beef) is likely to be much more environmentally beneficial than costly.
Cattle don't eat much soya, they don't need much vegetable protein, getting theirs from the action of bacteria in the rumen. The soya is for all the pigs, who being possessed of a different digestive tract, need more protein, and we, squeamishly (and sensibly, tbh) prefer them to get it from plant sources.
The expansion of soya markets is driven (at least in part) by a rise in affluence in China, where because they can afford it, they are eating much more meat, and much of that is pork.
The food miles are the killer. Local beef is fine. Argentinian, less so. Your Peruvian butternut squash isn't doing so well either, nor my lovely Kenyan green beans, but I get pretty tired of cabbage with my bacon.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Woofage on 03 February, 2014, 11:25:00 am
I would have thought soya milk was an unethical choice what with them cutting down the Amazon to grow it the US and Candian's using GM soya.

It's not an ethical choice but a dietary one.

I know two wrongs don't make a right but if a farmer does acquire land due to deforestation then growing vegetables can feed more people than keeping livestock.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: geraldc on 03 February, 2014, 01:37:47 pm
Re food miles, I thought for meat, it wasn't so bad, as the dead animals coming from overseas are in big freighters and that works out quite economical. It's the veg that's flown in by plane that's bad.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Charlotte on 03 February, 2014, 02:24:31 pm
Now come on Julian you're spoiling a perfectly good argument by actually knowing what you're talking about.  That's simply not fair!

It's a tactic she employs on me on an almost daily basis, Tewders...  ::-)

Slightly related to this topic: Costa will make (hot) drinks with soya milk in place of cow's milk if you ask. Mrs W has a slight intolerance to dairy so that's where we usually go. Shame more establishments don't offer this option.

Despite being a vegetarian rather than a vegan - and mainly because high-street coffee chains only serve their lattes in bucket-multiples rather than the usual cup sizes I prefer, I will usually opt for a soy milk latte.

If you're going to drink upwards of 350ml of latte (and if I'm served with it, I usually finish it) then for some reason, soy milk is much more palatable to me in those quantities.

Given enough of this shameful behaviour, eventually I'm going to finish off the last carton of Provamel - thereby depriving some poor vegan of his morning coffee  :D
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: ian on 03 February, 2014, 09:30:27 pm
^^ All of that is better with some shredded ham :) :p

A recent trip to the US reminded me that bacon is the universal seasoning. In the deep south they put bacon bits on their bacon. Then coat it with more bacon and deep fry in bacon fat and serve with a side of bacon. Every vegetable has to be served with bacon. Sometimes the bacon just pushes the veg off the plate when you're not paying attention. Surely there was a lonely spinach leaf on my plate? No sirree, says the bacon, just us little piggies.

I gave up with being a vegetarian because the selection was boring and everywhere I went I was the special needs food boy destined to have that single item on the menu. I'm happy to eat food without meat, it's just that the standard of veggie catering is dull. It's the land of an endless ankle-deep trudge through monochrome paddies of mushroom risotto. There's the deep-fried goats cheese and cranberry sauce. There's goats cheese everywhere. Vegetarians are used to dispose of goats cheese. Once they're full, they drop them in a deep sea trench or seal underground for the next couple of millennia until they're safe. It's a conspiracy I tell you. Pasta sauces that are a vague red sludge that might be some byproduct from a long-banned industrial process capable of wiping out entire aquatic ecosystems. Curries where the veg are so stewed that they may have started the cooking during the Raj. Certainly that was when the spices could have last passed for fresh.

Then there's cheese. Like any self-respecting man, my happiness is generally assured through the possession of a block of a cheddar the size of the car battery. But after a couple of years, even cheese starts to get a bit tired, and that's putting a major disrespect on the cheese. Every sandwich is cheese. If you're lucky, there's humus, and hell after fifteen thousand cheese sandwiches it sounds good. Until you realise you're chewing through a sandwich that appears to be filled with clay. And oh look, they put some cream cheese in it. That's not the end of it, two hours later you'll fart yourself into a low Earth orbit and leave behind the kind of smell that causes Mother Nature to unfriend you. Even gravity won't welcome you back.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: clarion on 03 February, 2014, 10:01:20 pm
Strange.  One of the reasons I liked going veggie was because of how boring meals are when they're. 'meat and something'.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Martin on 03 February, 2014, 10:50:23 pm
^^ All of that is better with some shredded ham :) :p

A recent trip to the US reminded me that bacon is the universal seasoning

+1; I was astounded that simple vegetarian baked beans have to be positively sought out, in Michigan neither Costco nor WalMart stocked them; some little drug mart whose name escapes me was the only place;

I also stared long and hard at the menu of Taco Bell before giving up & going in search of Filet o Fish
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: red marley on 03 February, 2014, 11:06:31 pm
I find the ease with which vegetarianism is catered for in the US hugely variable.

Dead easy: Sacramento, San Francisco, New York and Seattle (vegan food also pretty plentiful)
Surprisingly easy if you find the right bit of town: Salt Lake and Columbus (OH)
Unexpectedly hard: Providence (RI)
Downright impossible: Atlantic City

I also don't mind the novelty of crappy road trip fast food in small doses and Denny's and Taco Bell have kept me going for many miles.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Tewdric on 04 February, 2014, 02:41:20 am
Strange.  One of the reasons I liked going veggie was because of how boring meals are when they're. 'meat and something'.

Surely better than just the "something"?  ;D
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: clarion on 04 February, 2014, 06:44:14 am
You misunderstand vegetarian cookery completely.  It's a common mistake for habitual meat eaters to make.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Tewdric on 04 February, 2014, 07:33:03 am
You misunderstand vegetarian cookery completely.  It's a common mistake for habitual meat eaters to make.

Give me a few examples of really accomplished vegetarian cookery that you suppose I haven't experienced then?
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: CrinklyLion on 04 February, 2014, 07:50:55 am
And maybe look at the smiley, and the fact that a lot of the discussion in the thread is about the fact that as a vegetarian you are undoubtedly familiar with the 'meat and something with the meat taken away' menu item? 

At least, that was the context I read it in Tewdric, hope that was how it was intended - made oi larf!
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: teethgrinder on 04 February, 2014, 08:08:46 am
I just don't get it. Do people really feel the need for meat so badly?

I do.

I think a lot of that is to do with that I have a very lazy attitude to cooking.
I do like good veggie food and am happy to go without meat. But after a while I will start to crave to eat some dead animal.

Interestingly, the British Army thought very hard about nutrition for their soldiers in Iraq and decided that pork was the best thing for them to eat. At the time I was doing a lot of miles and was getting cravings for pork, so was eating about 2 kilos a week.

The soldiers had to re-think their diet because they were doing peace keeping in a Muslim country... ;D


I reckon if I was more interested in cooking then I could possibly become a veggie. But putting a bit of dead animal in my oven for a few hours takes not much more than zero effort and I can do other stuff instead.
Perhaps if decent veggie food was much more readily available in places like Wetherspoons, then I'd be more vegetarian than I am now.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: clarion on 04 February, 2014, 08:25:14 am
And maybe look at the smiley, and the fact that a lot of the discussion in the thread is about the fact that as a vegetarian you are undoubtedly familiar with the 'meat and something with the meat taken away' menu item? 

At least, that was the context I read it in Tewdric, hope that was how it was intended - made oi larf!

OK, perhaps I misread.  But I'm very bored of patronising attitudes from meat eaters.  I've had years of that crap, and perhaps it isn't as funny or original as Tewdric imagines.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Tewdric on 04 February, 2014, 08:33:36 am
And maybe look at the smiley, and the fact that a lot of the discussion in the thread is about the fact that as a vegetarian you are undoubtedly familiar with the 'meat and something with the meat taken away' menu item? 

At least, that was the context I read it in Tewdric, hope that was how it was intended - made oi larf!

It was indeed.   ;)
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Charlotte on 04 February, 2014, 08:40:31 am
I gave up with being a vegetarian because the selection was boring and everywhere I went I was the special needs food boy destined to have that single item on the menu. I'm happy to eat food without meat, it's just that the standard of veggie catering is dull. It's the land of an endless ankle-deep trudge through monochrome paddies of mushroom risotto. There's the deep-fried goats cheese and cranberry sauce. There's goats cheese everywhere. Vegetarians are used to dispose of goats cheese. Once they're full, they drop them in a deep sea trench or seal underground for the next couple of millennia until they're safe. It's a conspiracy I tell you. Pasta sauces that are a vague red sludge that might be some byproduct from a long-banned industrial process capable of wiping out entire aquatic ecosystems. Curries where the veg are so stewed that they may have started the cooking during the Raj. Certainly that was when the spices could have last passed for fresh.

Then there's cheese. Like any self-respecting man, my happiness is generally assured through the possession of a block of a cheddar the size of the car battery. But after a couple of years, even cheese starts to get a bit tired, and that's putting a major disrespect on the cheese. Every sandwich is cheese. If you're lucky, there's humus, and hell after fifteen thousand cheese sandwiches it sounds good. Until you realise you're chewing through a sandwich that appears to be filled with clay. And oh look, they put some cream cheese in it. That's not the end of it, two hours later you'll fart yourself into a low Earth orbit and leave behind the kind of smell that causes Mother Nature to unfriend you. Even gravity won't welcome you back.

Ian, console yourself with the fact that your meat-free suffering has at least given you the material to ensure that countless YACFers have to wipe coffee from their screens  :)

Perhaps if decent veggie food was much more readily available in places like Wetherspoons, then I'd be more vegetarian than I am now.

To be fair to 'Spoons, their veggie offerings aren't actually too bad for a bargain-bucket pub menu via Brake Bros.  I expect more from places that charge more and quite often, I get really good home made meals.  When it comes to chain pubs, I suspect that you're probably doing the hungry cyclist thing of looking at the pounds/calories/deliciousness ratio, doing the math and going with the meaty options. 

When you constrain yourself to the flesh-free sections of their menu, it could be much worse.  I remember vegetarian pub grub in the early nineties when it consisted almost entirely largely of a ploughmans' lunch with the ham scoffed off the plate by the barman as he walked between the kitchen and my table...
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: L CC on 04 February, 2014, 08:43:17 am
And maybe look at the smiley, and the fact that a lot of the discussion in the thread is about the fact that as a vegetarian you are undoubtedly familiar with the 'meat and something with the meat taken away' menu item? 

At least, that was the context I read it in Tewdric, hope that was how it was intended - made oi larf!

OK, perhaps I misread.  But I'm very bored of patronising attitudes from meat eaters.  I've had years of that crap, and perhaps it isn't as funny or original as Tewdric imagines.
Equally, meat eaters get pretty bored of the smug self righteous moral high ground stance of vegetarians...

(All those vegan dishes are chock full of carbs. Where's the mass catering options for my diet of choice, hmmm? I suppose I just have to have risotto without the rice, or pasta & sauce without the pasta, do I?)
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: clarion on 04 February, 2014, 09:01:58 am
You're right.  A lot of vegan food does contain carbs - rice, pasta, etc.

But a Google of 'low carb vegan' returns a lot of results.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: red marley on 04 February, 2014, 10:34:22 am
But I'm very bored of patronising attitudes from meat eaters.

Equally, meat eaters get pretty bored of the smug self righteous moral high ground stance of vegetarians...

I really don't like moralising or being moralised at about food when at the dinner table, and the novelty of having to justify my food choices has worn off a little. I have lost count of the number of dining conversations that broadly do the following:


Picture the scene at an academic conference dinner. Round tables that seat 12 people each, most of whom don't really know each other very well if at all. I am ceremoniously marked as The Vegetarian as my meal is delivered either five minutes before or five minutes after everyone else's...


OTHER DINER 1:So, how long have you been a vegetarian then?
ME:*does inward sigh* Oh, um, er *does quick mental calculation*, about 30 years.
OTHER DINER 1:Wow, that's a long time. So why don't you eat meat?
ME:Well, the main reason I don't is because I haven't for the last 30 years or so.
OTHER DINER 1:?
ME:I mean it's become a habit. It's part of who I am.
OTHER DINER 1: ?    But why did you stop eating meat in the first place? Was it for moral reasons?
ME:Well, yes I suppose it was. *Tells story of why I turned veggie as a 13 year old in 1981*
OTHER DINER 2, MALE, IN HIS LATE 50s:My wife usually cooks me vegetarian at home. But I like to have a bit of meat when I'm out. But I have to watch my weight. Usually just a bit of chicken or fish. Although it's nice to have a steak now and then as a treat.
OTHER DINER 3:They can do amazing things with Quorn these days. Do you like those Linda McCartney sausages?
ME:Um, not very much.
OTHER DINER 2:And why do those vegetarians who eat fish call themselves vegetarians?
ME:Um, I don't really know.
OTHER DINER 1:Are you one of those strict vegetarians who won't wear leather shoes or eat eggs?
ME:Did anyone see that paper this morning on the transformative hermeneutics of quantum gravity?
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: clarion on 04 February, 2014, 10:37:25 am
*gives thanks that he didn't question jo's food choices last week* ;D
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: GothonaBrompton on 04 February, 2014, 10:48:09 am
I am SO glad I work for an Indian company sometimes.  Veggie is the default, vegan is very common.  Mushrooms are a no-no usually.  I could live on dal.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: L CC on 04 February, 2014, 10:53:18 am
I really don't like moralising or being moralised at about food when at the dinner table, and the novelty of having to justify my food choices has worn off a little.
It's a breach of The Underpants Rule (http://danceswithfat.wordpress.com/2012/06/06/the-underpants-rule-and-you/).
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Bledlow on 04 February, 2014, 11:01:55 am
I would have thought soya milk was an unethical choice what with them cutting down the Amazon to grow it ...
Apart from the traditional areas in southern Brazil (in the Parana & Uruguay basin, draining south into the Rio de la Plata) & Argentina, soybeans in S. America are mostly grown in the Cerrado, & that's the big expansion area. Some of that drains into the Amazon basin, but there's no rainforest. Some savannah, some scrub & dryish forest. Needs fertilising before soybeans can be grown.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Kim on 04 February, 2014, 02:20:29 pm
I really don't like moralising or being moralised at about food when at the dinner table, and the novelty of having to justify my food choices has worn off a little.
It's a breach of The Underpants Rule (http://danceswithfat.wordpress.com/2012/06/06/the-underpants-rule-and-you/).

*files away for future reference*
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: ian on 04 February, 2014, 05:42:56 pm
But I'm very bored of patronising attitudes from meat eaters.

Equally, meat eaters get pretty bored of the smug self righteous moral high ground stance of vegetarians...

I really don't like moralising or being moralised at about food when at the dinner table, and the novelty of having to justify my food choices has worn off a little. I have lost count of the number of dining conversations that broadly do the following:


Picture the scene at an academic conference dinner. Round tables that seat 12 people each, most of whom don't really know each other very well if at all. I am ceremoniously marked as The Vegetarian as my meal is delivered either five minutes before or five minutes after everyone else's...


OTHER DINER 1:So, how long have you been a vegetarian then?
ME:*does inward sigh* Oh, um, er *does quick mental calculation*, about 30 years.
OTHER DINER 1:Wow, that's a long time. So why don't you eat meat?
ME:Well, the main reason I don't is because I haven't for the last 30 years or so.
OTHER DINER 1:?
ME:I mean it's become a habit. It's part of who I am.
OTHER DINER 1: ?    But why did you stop eating meat in the first place? Was it for moral reasons?
ME:Well, yes I suppose it was. *Tells story of why I turned veggie as a 13 year old in 1981*
OTHER DINER 2, MALE, IN HIS LATE 50s:My wife usually cooks me vegetarian at home. But I like to have a bit of meat when I'm out. But I have to watch my weight. Usually just a bit of chicken or fish. Although it's nice to have a steak now and then as a treat.
OTHER DINER 3:They can do amazing things with Quorn these days. Do you like those Linda McCartney sausages?
ME:Um, not very much.
OTHER DINER 2:And why do those vegetarians who eat fish call themselves vegetarians?
ME:Um, I don't really know.
OTHER DINER 1:Are you one of those strict vegetarians who won't wear leather shoes or eat eggs?
ME:Did anyone see that paper this morning on the transformative hermeneutics of quantum gravity?

I dunno, I get similar conversations about being a cyclist. Did you cycle here? I got that yesterday. I'm holding a Brompton and a helmet. Conversational fluff, you know everyone at a conference is just trying not to look too eager to retreat into the safety of shop-talk.

The problem with vegetarian food is that it's more difficult to do well (which is why, to be honest, I'd still choose a good vegetarian meal if I could be sure it was indeed good). Take ratatouille. I'd hazard that 90% of the ratatouille I've eaten has been of the red sludge variety. But cooked well with quality ingredients it can (and should!) sparkle. Same story with pasta sauce. Of course, throw a bit of pancetta into that anonymous sauce and you've changed the focus. Veg is now just the minor accompaniment. Of course, the standard approach to vegetarian dishes is to carpet bomb them into submission with cheese.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: pcolbeck on 04 February, 2014, 05:49:19 pm
I don't think vegetarian food is harder to do well than non vegetarian food. Look at Inida or the Middle East, loads of great veggie dishes that aren't difficult to do.
What is hard to do is  good "British" veggie food. Just trying to replace meat in a traditional "British" dish with a vegetable substitute doesn't really work. Mind you I find the standard meat and two veg thing quite boring anyway.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: CrinklyLion on 04 February, 2014, 06:31:41 pm
Unless you're a vegan or a celery avoider, I can thoroughly recommend the veggie 'cottage' pie at the Magpie in Whitby.  I didn't expect to get anything particularly good in a cafe specialising in seafood, but was impressed to note that although their chips aren't veggie they do in fact label them appropriately on the menu (as they also do with the non-veggie puds).  And the 'cottage' pie is bloody gorgeous.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: teethgrinder on 04 February, 2014, 06:50:36 pm

To be fair to 'Spoons, their veggie offerings aren't actually too bad for a bargain-bucket pub menu via Brake Bros.  I expect more from places that charge more and quite often, I get really good home made meals.  When it comes to chain pubs, I suspect that you're probably doing the hungry cyclist thing of looking at the pounds/calories/deliciousness ratio, doing the math and going with the meaty options. 

When you constrain yourself to the flesh-free sections of their menu, it could be much worse.  I remember vegetarian pub grub in the early nineties when it consisted almost entirely largely of a ploughmans' lunch with the ham scoffed off the plate by the barman as he walked between the kitchen and my table...

The same can be said for Wetherspoons meat dishes too. I'm quite fond of the 14oz Angus steak for about a tenner, with added beer on Tuesdays.
I do like the superfood pesto pasta too, but it's a very rare day that I do not add chicken to make it carnivorous.

It's not often that I enjoy veggie food as much as I'd enjoy a carnivorous version. But there have been exceptions which have been very good.
So I don't really get why meat eaters actually would want to scoff all the veggie food at buffets. There's usually a big plateful of chicken around somewhere.
Meat addict=me. ;D
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: andrewc on 20 March, 2014, 06:54:31 pm
A new(ish) vegetarian & vegan restaurant in Hoylake,  handy for anyone on the Wirral.

http://www.bejrestaurants.co.uk/ (http://www.bejrestaurants.co.uk/)

http://www.liverpoolecho.co.uk/whats-on/food-drink-news/vegan-restaurant-bej-hoylake-breath-6856041 (http://www.liverpoolecho.co.uk/whats-on/food-drink-news/vegan-restaurant-bej-hoylake-breath-6856041)

http://www.tripadvisor.co.uk/Restaurant_Review-g1096783-d4553854-Reviews-Bej-Hoylake_Wirral_Merseyside_England.html (http://www.tripadvisor.co.uk/Restaurant_Review-g1096783-d4553854-Reviews-Bej-Hoylake_Wirral_Merseyside_England.html)
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Wombat on 29 March, 2014, 07:08:34 pm
What used to piss me off most was when I went self-catering near Marmande.  I realised that, far from the impression you'd get from the restaurants, France is the best place in the world to be a vegan, with fantastic produce easily available.
The French have enough trouble coming to terms with the concept of vegetarian never mind vegan.

Related subject, I recall the deathly silence which fell in a rural French restaurant when Mrs W responded to the offer of the cheese course with "But I don't like cheese".  Looks which clearly said "well what the fuck are you doing in France, then?" appeared on the faces of many other customers.  It took a lot of persuading to get her to quietly respond with "non merci" in future.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Cudzoziemiec on 29 March, 2014, 09:09:00 pm
I was at a conference/course thingey today in a Hilton hotel. One of us was vegan, another was gluten-intolerant. In fact only one of the five of us was a non-allergic, non-intolerant omnivore - and she was the only one who wasn't served a gluten-free lunch. Somehow everyone else was assumed to be gluten-intolerant. I don't like gluten-free bread. I did manage to snaffle some extra chocolate brownies though, so that was good.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: rogerzilla on 27 January, 2015, 10:10:44 pm
Resurrecting this thread, I seem to be eating a lot of vegan food at the moment (I'm resolutely omnivorous but SO is vegan).  It's tasty enough but pretty much everything has to be cooked from scratch because there are virtually no vegan prepared foods.  I made a pie tonight, which looks and tastes impressively meat-like  ;D

Eating out is a challenge, except of course for chips and beans.  Foolishly I mentioned isinglass at the weekend (prompted by the away shirt sponsor of Oxford United, who actually saw fit to name their company after a product made from ground-up fish swim bladders) so that's cask ales out for her as well.  I am allowed to eat what I like but can't be arsed with making two separate meals.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Wowbagger on 01 February, 2015, 09:05:07 pm
Do a bit of research into cask ales. Not all of them are treated with isinglass.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vegetarianism_and_beer
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: davelodwig on 10 February, 2015, 10:54:27 am
Not too far from you I suspect, and the brewery is open on friday and saturday evenings for beer and pizza.

http://www.stroudbrewery.co.uk/organic-and-vegan/

20 min walk from my house as well, I may or may not prop the bar up there quite frequently.

D.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Julian on 10 February, 2015, 01:08:11 pm
Eating out for vegans - try Wagamama, Indian food, Wetherspoons and dust.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Wowbagger on 10 February, 2015, 01:28:45 pm
Eating out for vegans - try Wagamama, Indian food, Wetherspoons and dust.

On first seeing that post, I completely misread the fourth word.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: rogerzilla on 11 February, 2015, 08:55:40 am
I always have a spicy beanburger in Burger King, because I like them.  The cashier's face always falls because this involves a once-a-month excursion to the back of the freezer to find one, and I get looked at by the guy doing the frying as if I'm up there with Gary and Jimmy in the perversion stakes.  They're not even on the menu over the tills these days.  I need to get an "I am not a vegetarian but..." t-shirt.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: IanN on 11 February, 2015, 01:24:58 pm
A lot of the cask ale bottles are OK, even when the draft version isn't.
The barnivore.com link at the bottom of the wiki page seems the most up to date

The coop is the best supermarket for veggie friendly wine, IME 
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: Cudzoziemiec on 13 February, 2015, 10:43:20 am
I always have a spicy beanburger in Burger King, because I like them.  The cashier's face always falls because this involves a once-a-month excursion to the back of the freezer to find one, and I get looked at by the guy doing the frying as if I'm up there with Gary and Jimmy in the perversion stakes.  They're not even on the menu over the tills these days.  I need to get an "I am not a vegetarian but..." t-shirt.
Must be a Swindon thing. Who's going to read a menu in Swindon? Triggered by this, as I was passing Burger King in the middle of Bristle the other day, I went in to check - and not only is the bean burger on the menu, the veggie section is top of the list! Mind you, it didn't actually say "spicy".
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: hellymedic on 28 November, 2017, 02:34:08 am
Which chain would the panel recommend for a Festive Meal (for Brent Cyclists) next December?
I'm thinking of a group of 10-12, around ⅓ of whom are vegan, several are veggie and I'm in a wheelchair.

We're going to wagamama this year, after last year's venue turned into a meat, meat and more meat place.

Maybe we should just see which Indian places can take flexible bookings for a medium-sized party and a wheelchair...
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: orienteer on 28 November, 2017, 10:29:14 am
Haven't been yet, but the former Yaohan Plaza/Oriental City near you has re-opened as Bang Bang  :)
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: hellymedic on 28 November, 2017, 12:59:43 pm
Haven't been yet, but the former Yaohan Plaza/Oriental City near you has re-opened as Bang Bang  :)

Went there to celebrate David's birthday in early July. Got the discount for dining in its first few days. Air conditioning was very noisy and David nearly froze to death! (We'd gone out without our winter coats...) Food was OK, not special and it was quite pricy. We won't be back.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: L CC on 28 November, 2017, 02:46:09 pm
We (the diaspora of famille fboab) like a cheeky Nandos- for all its chicken-bias, it has options that tick the boxes for the HFLC, vegetarian, ketchup lovin' and plant-based-whole-food eaters among us.

It's massively overpriced though.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: hellymedic on 28 November, 2017, 03:07:49 pm
Sorry, fboab, David HATES Nando's

I'm starting to feel like a party pooper!
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: ian on 28 November, 2017, 03:46:52 pm
I confess I've cut my cheeky Nandos as I'm only eating certified and free roaming happy chickens but indeed the last time I was tempted by the piri piri, it was rather expensive for what seemed like it ought to be a 'cheap' meal (I could have eaten in a decent restaurant for not much more). It's pretty much fast food, not your haughty cousin.

Basically, Nandos is a cunning disguisedly Harvester.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: hellymedic on 28 November, 2017, 04:18:50 pm
We've had to scrub the idea of Wagamama because there's some kind of kick-ball fixture nearby that evening.

Rose Vegetarian has a wheelchair-friendly loo and 300 meat-free items on its menu. It's only just over a mile from here.

No alcohol is allowed on the premises...
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: fuaran on 28 November, 2017, 06:01:05 pm
For chains, some of the pizza places are pretty good. Zizzi or Pizza Express or Bella Italia can do vegan pizzas or pasta, and a few options for desserts.
And now Pizza Hut have vegan pizza.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: ian on 28 November, 2017, 06:05:34 pm
It's pizza Jim, but not as we know it.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: hellymedic on 28 November, 2017, 06:39:34 pm
We're now planning to descend on the Rose Vegetarian, which is local and has a HUGE choice on its menu. (They also offer onion and garlic-free for their Jain customers.)

They are alcohol-free but there are many pubs nearby.

I'm really happy to be going to a place that won't flaunt items offensive to friends who might be too shy to say that they find them so.

Am I over-sensitive? I went through a short vegetarian phase myself, during which I found the sight and smell of meat repulsive.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: hellymedic on 28 November, 2017, 07:22:11 pm
I confess I've cut my cheeky Nandos as I'm only eating certified and free roaming happy chickens but indeed the last time I was tempted by the piri piri, it was rather expensive for what seemed like it ought to be a 'cheap' meal (I could have eaten in a decent restaurant for not much more). It's pretty much fast food, not your haughty cousin.

Basically, Nandos is a cunning disguisedly Harvester.

Not really.
Harvester portions are BIG. Quarter of a Nando's chicken is Really Not Very Much.

A tenner will *just* get you some chicken, basic sides and a fizzy drink. As you say, rather mediocre value for money.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: ian on 28 November, 2017, 08:08:19 pm
I don't think I've ever been to an Harvester. Searches memory... Yes, yes, I remember now, we did once undramatically murder some time in the one by Falconwood station (if it's still there) many many years ago. We were hiding from squirrels, if I recall. That's all I recall. I do suggest to my wife that we go to the one in Upper Norwood but she gives me that look. I honestly don't know her problem. I enjoyed our anniversary jaunt to Toby's Carvery.

But yeah, I'd dodged the expense of Nandos by making other people buy it. It was shock when finally I found myself ordering and how fucking much?. Mind you, I carry both alleles for parsimony so I say that a lot. But still, £10 for a bit of grilled chicken that doesn't even come with its happy bonafides. It's like 10p in South Africa ('big lie' said a South African earlier, but it is cheaper). It's not like I'm eating somewhere posh like Wimpy.
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: hellymedic on 28 November, 2017, 08:15:22 pm
Went to the Harvester at Taunton last year as part of the Audax weekend jamboree.
Their barbecue sauce is 46% sugar!
Food otherwise so unmemorable that I only recall the company, not what I ate...
Title: Re: I am not a vegan...
Post by: ian on 28 November, 2017, 08:33:24 pm
Pah, I'm pretty sure I've BBQ sauce in Mississippi that was 110% sugar. And they still managed to fit all the butter in.