Well I've flucked up.
One twist not enough tension, whilst two twist does all bar four spokes (1 of four pairs) the one is loose, really loose whilst the other, the shorter doesn't reach. The hub is way off true even with all the spokes really loose. Does that all make sense?
WTF have I got myself in to. HELP before i go mad and smash everything up.
Going to do the rear wheel and do it as one pair per side instead of one side per time one pair at a time.