As age increases, eyesight generally worsens, particularly night vision.
Pitch-black lanes are where I can use poor lighting as there is nothing around to spoil my night vision.
... apart from the bloke riding behind you with a Exposure Toro Mk7 1800 Lumens.
How about the bloke behind using a 40-lux IQ/Fly? My diagonale partner in 2012 had two 20-euro BBB efforts and bellyached all the time that when he rode in front all he could see was his own shadow. He got quite shirty about it.
There are too many permutations to list who is in the wrong/right in every situation, and I am not intimate with the two models you describe, so I shan't attempt to comment.
But. There are things an experienced rider can do to make the most of these situations:
- the best possible approach is riding 2-abreast. You then both benefit from each-other's lights, and won't suffer too much even if the brightest light in the whole group is right behind you.
- if forced into line-astern, sit back a little (which is only sensible for night-riding compared to daylight), and further to 1 side than you might for the perfect draft. This puts the shadow into a much less problematic position.
AND DONT WEAVE ABOUT!!!
<see also LWAB's post about arms races>