I don't know if anyone knows what I'm talking about and I'm not sure I do!
A close, younger relative, who is autistic, has been barred from a gaming site for an outburst of anger (not discriminatory). She regrets it and has pleaded to be allowed back on, with no success. The site will no longer communicate with her. The trouble is that being on this site is (at the moment) part of her gestalt and if she can't get back on, even if just to leave it on her own terms, she is "stuck" with everything else in her life, will almost certainly self-harm and quite possibly worse. I know it is hard to understand but she has very severe, so far untreatable, mental problems which include heavy-duty OCD.
I have done a bit of research into gaming (I don't game) and it seems that the games are hosted by a platform or server but are otherwise independent. However, the server seems to have a terms of use document, which includes a disputes section. I thought this might allow me to intervene via the server/platform to get them to emphasise to the "game" just how serious a situation this is. Does anyone know if this is worth a shot? At the moment several other gamers have tried to intervene on her behalf but the person who runs the game (and has the power) seems to assume everyone is just an alias for the poor sufferer and has blocked everything.
I know it all seems unbelievable and I wish it was. But if anyone has any idea or experience I'd really appreciate it, either here, or via PM.
Thank you, in hope rather than anticipation.
Peter