Equivalent VIII has a bit of an iconic status in this argument, with both sides very pompous (usually, not necessarily on yacf). I did 'get' it. I don't 'get' all art. But it's always worth approaching with an open mind.
Tracey Emin and Damien Hurst I find annoying self-publicists, but both are capable of brilliant work. Sarah Lucas, Steve McQueen and Jeremy Deller are less commercial, but all have very creative pieces in their portfolio.
I love Rothko, Riley, Moore, Hepworth, Frink, Pollock, Duchamp etc, all of whom have been dismissed many times as rubbish. But it communicates deeply with me.
Just cause I don't 'get' it, or it's something 'anyone could have done' does not mean it isn't art.