These are all valid things – we could have got public transport to the place we went the other day, but 10 minutes to the station, an hour into London, an hour out of London, then a taxi from the nearest station, so 2.5 hours plus about £75 for a journey that's actually <30km door-to-door, so yeah, we drove. To be fair, it is never going to be a sustainable journey by public transport.
But those ought to be occasional journeys and we ought to recognize that there's a cost. That's why I said we should focus on localism, we live a 10-minute walk from a town centre that ought to have most of the shops and recreational activities we routinely need, and we're fine with that (admittedly like most local high streets it's in decline, because, well cars), but most people instead will get in a car to drive to Croydon, Redhill, wherever, same as they'll drive their kids to school etc.