No, you’re not alone. Lots of of us have gearing bugbears.
Whilst I think having a 16 is nice, I hate the 19 to 22 jump that adding seems to entail on a lot of modern cassettes. I’ve moaned before about how the two insistence on starting at 11 spoils the party.
Fwiw, I’ve got a 12 speed groupset and that does at least allow 11-32 with reasonable gaps - not Campag if you hate 19-22 - and. 48/32 chainrings work well with that cassette. Ymmv:)
11-32: 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 17, 19, 21, 23, 25, 28, 32
Mike