TBH, I think that's more of a proper MTB brakes vs crappy road bike brakes distinction than rim vs disc. Decent V-brakes or hydraulic rim brakes require no more lever-squeezing than discs (though obviously you still get lag when it's wet). If I were specifying a rim-braked tourer, those would be the only options I'd be considering, for exactly this reason.
I'm not convinced it's that simple. The brakes on my road bike (Ultegra dual pivot calipers) require rather less hand effort than the brakes on my touring bike (XT V brakes), using drop bar levers on both, and Koolstop Salmon pads on both.
Don't drop bar levers have the wrong pull ratio for V brakes? Or is there a thingy?
Part of the reason that "proper MTB brakes" feel so much stronger is that MTB brake levers are operated with your hand in a much stronger position than the hoods of a drop bar, which is the position that most riders spend most of their time. From the drops, I can lift the rear wheel of my road bike with one finger. From the hoods, not so much.
This is why I eschew drop bars. Not only is the leverage all wrong from the hoods, but the ergonomic compromise inherent in making a thing you operate the brakes with double as a thing you support your arms on means that they're always slightly too big for decent grip. Though I assume that's less of an issue if you have larger hands.
Braking from the drops, sure, but if you're making a habit of braking from your least stable most aerodynamic position, you've not anticipated properly.
While we're on the subject, with USS you generally have MTB brake levers mounted the opposite way round to usual, giving maximum leverage for the stronger, longer fingers. It works really well. Interesting that levers designed to operate this way round never became a thing.