What?
Was that about you, Ben?!
It DOESN’T MATTER whether it was “about me”. You asked a question, I chose to answer it.
You then chose to make me feel bad at having apparently spoken out of place by parroting out this “it’s not about you” cliché.
My reply wasn’t offensive, it wasn’t sexist, it wasn’t insulting, it wasn’t rude. It was merely stating my opinion - as I
thought I was entitled to do. Clearly not. But you chose to take offence to it anyway. With an ad hominem, withering put down that isn’t intended to even be able to be debated or come back on. The only purpose of your post is not to make a point but to make yourself look good and me to look bad.
Two longstanding members have left the forum in the last 24 hours after being involved in this thread I'm not saying the two facts are directly related, but before you post, think about the kind of forum you want.
The above ^^^ is the epitome of why this already isn’t the kind of forum I want.
People don’t want to have a debate, they just want to posture, preen their egos, make themselves look good and denigrate, rather than engage with, anybody they perceive as “on the wrong side”.
I’m sure they’re not like that in real life - it’s just what social media turns people into keyboard warriors.
It’s become too much like twitter.
For what it’s worth, the moderation seems either non existent or unfair as well - on the odd occasion I’ve used the report post button (for a post using directed insults with swearing, not in this thread) it’s as far as I can tell been ignored, and no ones replied
So that’s why I’m also deleting my account. If I want to read without posting on the Audax forum I can still do so anonymously, and if I want to ask/answer cycling related matters I’ll create a new, anonymous, user name but won’t post anything opinionated.