I really don't know.
The poor lass is young enough to be my daughter, if I had one.
If I were 27 had two small kids and was known to have disseminated cancer, I'd be desparate, angry and wanting the best or the poor kids left. IMO that would include letting the kids have some privacy, which Jade Goody's apprroach will not permit.
John Diamond, Ruth Picardie and Dinah Rabinowitz did not act this way, but they were writers.