What spoiled this for me?
Well, Iron Man 1, you get the immoral genius alchy playboy having his eyes opened. He starts to care for someone, knows them for a few days, sees them die. It changes his life, his attitude, he nearly destroys his company over it (ceases making weapons). Then he gets mad, builds the suit and starts standing up for the small oppressed people.
IM3?
He sees an ex gf die in front of him and looks a bit upset. Then Pepper falls to a fiery death
and he's a bit more upset.
Excuse me? Where is the heartfelt horror, the anger that you saw in IM1? In this movie he has a punch up with the bad guy and looks a little angry.
Then there is the whole 'nothings been the same since new york, I'm seeing things'. It's suggest that he has PTSD, but as anyone who has read the comics (sorry 'graphic novels') knows, this is the leak-over from the suit systems and the start of IM integrating everything into his nervous system.
But that thread fizzles out. Utterly.
The Mandarin? He's supposed to have mysterious magic powers (actually alien technology) from rings on his fingers. Instead he's a genetic experiment/tampering.
There are some good bits in this film but I wasn't impressed.