Some good comments in there. Good time not absolute time, but for me part of having a good time is enjoying the riding and pacing.
I pretty much know my place and am comfortable with it. I do like to know fastest times but only so I can be impressed. I am happy that there are people who can ride that fast for that long and - as I haven't got a snowflakes chance in hell of competing with them - I really don't care if they brag or not. What always interests me a lot more is their experience. I don't know if you remember that account of the 'winner' of the last PBP. It wasn't the winning it was the way he did it that was compelling and enjoyable to read about.
The spirit of Audax is to enjoy a ride and the letter of the law is to finish it inside a time window with upper and lower limits. I am not going to dictate what constitutes another's enjoyment. As long as there is no official timing and so on I am happy to let the fast guys and gals pretend it's a race.
I totally understand why it irks people, and yes I kinda agree that if they wanted a real test they might do a long individual time trial or a TCR, but heh. I do remember on my failed PBP getting demoralised by the Euro club trains with fast bikes and no luggage and sleep vans and support and thinking that wasn't the spirit of Audax, but I have to accept it's just the way that they do things and is well within the rules. If they enjoyed it, well, chapeau!
I got to a control second once. Felt pretty good, briefly. My favourite ride was the first Richard Ellis when his family came out to the controls, that stuck with me. My favourite riders are the nutters who ride fixed, or hybrids, or elliptigos, or pashleys, or the first timer, or the young 'un, or the one doubling their previous distance, and even occasionally the very fast ones.
Strava... well I find it motivating. I am 'friends' with a lot of the ACME crew and a few others and it really helps me get out on the bike when I see that they have been putting in the rides. I do compare average speeds and I do like to compete on that when I am in the mood (maybe one ride in 10) but as most of them are younger than me it's a game I most often lose! And it is a great training diary, though connect would be good enough for that I guess.