Are you having a custom frame built? I hope not but fear it sounds like you are. In which case make sure your frame builder has done, ideally loads of, the type of riding you want to do on the type of bike you want.
I'd start by identifying the events you want to ride it in and look at what bikes and what kit people are using now.
That's a yes Frank, the guys who have built my other bikes. They have built a fair few off road orientated bikes as well as MTB's and everything in between.
I have had a look at the set ups of other riders bikes in the events, but there is pretty wide disparity between them all. Some I imagine is what people have available or what they are familiar with. The French seem to be very oriented towards MTB on the events Im looking at, (in France) maybe a cultural thing. Im really resistant to flat bars, upright ultra riding.
The endurance bike I have used on TCR's could be used on some of the events, particularly by someone bendier, younger than me. It would be short in the wheel clearance department and need the gearing swapping out.
I'm getting older and less supple too so looking to future proof.
Thanks for the feedback of the suspension seat post, that's encouraging.