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Misery
« on: 04 September, 2008, 12:44:43 pm »
No, not the Stephen King tale.

I was in a book shop at the weekend, and I saw a whole section devoted to miserable books about abused children.  All "true stories", naturally.

A work colleague is reading a book about a deaf and mute child who was abused but managed to find his voice.  The next book on her reading list comes with the following blurb:

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"The moment you were born you were his," Mum once told me and I knew it was true.  He loved my brother Terry too, but once I was born Terry became Mum's and I was his.  The night of my birth I'm told he paraded around the hospital, completely drunk and smoking a cigar, much to the annoyance of the sister in charge.

"Right from the start,", Mum said, "from when you were born, he used to joke that he was going to make you the best little prostitute on the block."

Why is this stuff so prevalent?  I wouldn't dictate to someone what they should and shouldn't read, but I find this stuff voyeuristic and sickening.

Does anyone else read it?

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Re: Misery
« Reply #1 on: 04 September, 2008, 12:47:01 pm »
Nope, although I have read a couple in the past, not as depraved childhood as that, but "poor boy did good" style.

For some reason they seem to be popular at the moment, as you say, hopefully it'll just be a fad that dies off, the sooner the better IMHO.
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Re: Misery
« Reply #2 on: 04 September, 2008, 12:48:57 pm »
Aye, tales of people pulling themselves out of poverty/abusive homes/relationships are one thing - but in this particular genre, the abuse is the selling point.

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Re: Misery
« Reply #3 on: 04 September, 2008, 01:24:39 pm »
Why is this stuff so prevalent?  I wouldn't dictate to someone what they should and shouldn't read, but I find this stuff voyeuristic and sickening.

Life's good.  We don't have enough suffering. 
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Re: Misery
« Reply #4 on: 04 September, 2008, 01:43:02 pm »
It's the same thing that makes people watch Eastenders - "sosialpornografi" - i.e. watching other people's misery to make your life seems less crap.

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Re: Misery
« Reply #5 on: 04 September, 2008, 03:04:52 pm »
Probably the same reason I gorge on 24/7 weather coverage come hurricane season. 

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Re: Misery
« Reply #6 on: 04 September, 2008, 04:05:28 pm »
I'd suggest watching the drama of a worldwide catastrophe that's happening now is different to peeking into someone's private world of pain.

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Re: Misery
« Reply #7 on: 04 September, 2008, 05:22:42 pm »
No, not the Stephen King tale.

I was in a book shop at the weekend, and I saw a whole section devoted to miserable books about abused children.  All "true stories", naturally.

I think they're known as "Misery Memoirs" in the trade - a big money phenomenon.

I suspect they're very cheap, being written mostly by unknowns.
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Re: Misery
« Reply #8 on: 04 September, 2008, 08:24:26 pm »
The genre really took hold with the book 'A Child Called It' by David Pelzer.  Since then, there have been many similar books all covering similar themes.  The cynic in me says they are all just trying to cash in on a currently popular genre, rather than catharticaly describing a terrible chapter in their lives. 

Re: Misery
« Reply #9 on: 04 September, 2008, 09:14:49 pm »
The genre really took hold with the book 'A Child Called It' by David Pelzer.  Since then, there have been many similar books all covering similar themes.  The cynic in me says they are all just trying to cash in on a currently popular genre, rather than catharticaly describing a terrible chapter in their lives. 


Yes, I read that series. But I guess they're all of similar ilk, so haven't read any other "Misery" books.
I think it's just human nature to look at other people's misery. Just like the rubber neckers at a car crash. Public executions used to be a big family occasion. They even made toys of execution devices for the kids to play with.
Maybe we're all too sanitised from hardship sufferring and misery these days?
Many people cringe when they see animals being slaughtered and the meat production process. It all goes on behind closed doors now, but only a few generations back, we were doing it ourselves.
I heard an old aged woman talking on the radio about her childhood when she was buggered by the local, "Dirty old man" as they were called then.
In those days, they just got on with it. She said she never suffered for all her life because of it. It was just an unpleasant thing that happened to her and others. But because nobody made a big deal out of it, they just dusted themselves down and got on with it.
Dave Peltzer went through some pretty horrific stuff though. He's lucky to still be alive, so probably worse than getting buggered a few times by the local perv?
There's a lot of nasty stuff happening every day, so no surprise that there are a number of books about it. I guess it's just compelling reading. Which of course, makes it very marketable. It must be selling well if they are advertised so much and so readily available.

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Re: Misery
« Reply #10 on: 04 September, 2008, 09:37:30 pm »
The genre really took hold with the book 'A Child Called It' by David Pelzer.  Since then, there have been many similar books all covering similar themes.  The cynic in me says they are all just trying to cash in on a currently popular genre, rather than catharticaly describing a terrible chapter in their lives. 


Yes, I read that series. But I guess they're all of similar ilk, so haven't read any other "Misery" books.
I think it's just human nature to look at other people's misery. Just like the rubber neckers at a car crash. Public executions used to be a big family occasion. They even made toys of execution devices for the kids to play with.
Maybe we're all too sanitised from hardship sufferring and misery these days?
Many people cringe when they see animals being slaughtered and the meat production process. It all goes on behind closed doors now, but only a few generations back, we were doing it ourselves.
I heard an old aged woman talking on the radio about her childhood when she was buggered by the local, "Dirty old man" as they were called then.
In those days, they just got on with it. She said she never suffered for all her life because of it. It was just an unpleasant thing that happened to her and others. But because nobody made a big deal out of it, they just dusted themselves down and got on with it.
Dave Peltzer went through some pretty horrific stuff though. He's lucky to still be alive, so probably worse than getting buggered a few times by the local perv?
There's a lot of nasty stuff happening every day, so no surprise that there are a number of books about it. I guess it's just compelling reading. Which of course, makes it very marketable. It must be selling well if they are advertised so much and so readily available.

Some good points made.  The old attitude of 'getting on with things' seems to be in the past, and people are much more prepared to discuss and talk about their experiences with others, including writing books.  I definitely think David Pelzer brought the genre into the mainstream, as his original book really set a precedent.

As species, I agree that we do seem preoccupied with the morbid, from public executions to the Roman Games where gladiators would fight to the death.  In modern Spain, bullfighting is still prevalent - where a bull is tortured and killed for entertainment - although this is thankfully on the wain.  Maybe this in part explains our fascination with such themes, which begs the obvious question - why?

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Re: Misery
« Reply #11 on: 06 September, 2008, 08:55:49 pm »
I've just taken part in a book swap on another forum and someone's sent me one of those misery books. I'm black affronted. There's no way I want to read it - what a waste of a swap!
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Re: Misery
« Reply #12 on: 12 September, 2008, 06:41:50 am »
WH Smith have a big rack labelled (I kid you not) "Tragic Life Stories".

What isn't clear from that title is whether these are unusually badly-written life stories, stories about tragic lives, or both.
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Re: Misery
« Reply #13 on: 12 September, 2008, 06:58:23 am »
Is it a female thing? I can't say I've come across many blokes reading this crud but women's shelves are overflowing with it.

It's a bit like the difference between men's and women's magasines. Bloke's mags are all about fun whereas women's mags - from Cosmo down to the supermarket weekly's are pure suffering.

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Re: Misery
« Reply #14 on: 12 September, 2008, 08:16:23 am »
A friend and I compete to see who can find the most tragically titled magazine story - things like "my boyfriend ate my child's ear" or "I was like an 18 year old granny."
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Re: Misery
« Reply #15 on: 12 September, 2008, 09:56:10 am »
Not sure if it's exclusively a woman thing.  A lot of blokes liked Angela's Ashes etc.  But I think the current trend is a bit ghoulish.
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Re: Misery
« Reply #16 on: 12 September, 2008, 11:44:49 am »
Is it a female thing? I can't say I've come across many blokes reading this crud but women's shelves are overflowing with it.

It's a bit like the difference between men's and women's magasines. Bloke's mags are all about fun whereas women's mags - from Cosmo down to the supermarket weekly's are pure suffering.

When I was at school, I think the male equivalent of this sort of thing was Sven Hassel books.  The girls were reading incest pron like 'Flowers in the Attic'.

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Re: Misery
« Reply #17 on: 12 September, 2008, 04:12:33 pm »
It's the only thing most people in my class will read - they seem like extended versions of the True Life Magazines articles.  :-\

Current reading is an Eoin Colfer book and some biography of a Uist minister (it's not in English, English teacher hasn't realised).  ;D

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Re: Misery
« Reply #18 on: 12 September, 2008, 07:59:48 pm »
When I was at school, I think the male equivalent of this sort of thing was Sven Hassel books. 

Ah...Sven Hassel.

Whoever said you couldn't judge a book by its cover was so, so wrong.

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ISTR that the use of the SS "lightning flash" in Hassel's name caused a few ruffled feathers.
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Re: Misery
« Reply #19 on: 13 September, 2008, 09:40:31 pm »
I remember reading these when I was a teenager...
I particularly liked the bit in one Sven Hassel book were a hungry Sergeant Porta dipped into a dead colonels brains...
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Re: Misery
« Reply #20 on: 16 September, 2008, 08:04:03 am »
It's the only thing most people in my class will read - they seem like extended versions of the True Life Magazines articles.  :-\
I think you have hit the nail on the head there. People read this stuff in books for much the same reasons that they read it in the Daily Grail or watch it on the News at Thine.
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