Kirst, I have a very similar tattoo to the one on your foot on my upper arm. It's not the best in the world, but I quite like it that way. It's fading quite a bit now too (I got it 16-ish years ago), which I also like.
All the men in my family have tattoos, I always thought it "normal". I like my uncle's on his forearm which is now more than 50 years old - it is more of a black silhouette now which always seemed very manly to me. My wee brother is 21 and has about 5 really fashionable tattoos, personally I think more old fashioned, maybe a bit crap ones are more cool. My wife however does not agree and hates the fact that I have one.
RJMcB