Private shools in France = catholic schools. I went to one. My parents didn't pay much more than in a state school (we paid a £300 p.a. 20 years ago as opposed to £100). Yes, however, education was better. But, as I understand it, the staff etc. are still paid by the Education Nationale, i.e. the state.
As for the UK, well, I will be deciding where I send my kids. If state schooling is poor, which it is in many areas, then I reserve the right to invest myself in my daugther's future, seeing as the UK is very liberal and has left it for me to decide to do so. Will she become a little pest? well that is also down, in part, to me at home and, with our respective origins and a strong belief in meritocraty, I think she will remain well grounded.
Thanks, Frenchie. That sort of answers a point I tried to establish a day or two ago with Pancho, before the entire thread blew up. It would appear that there is not the same availability in France or Germany as there is in this country to the £12000 p.a. privilege which a remarkable number of British parents seem to be able to afford for their children.
There are very few £12000 p.a. schools in France but if you go to one of these, people will assume that you are thick. There is even a derogatory name for these: "boite à bac"
I went to a Catholic school too from the equivalent of year 3 until my A level. My dad used to dislike them as he had a really bad experience so I started at the local "comprehensive" but the teachers were not the most open minded, the teacher unions were politicised and my parents sent me to the local Catholic school after a couple of years.
There definitely was stiff competition between the two schools and I think this is one of the reason why academic results are better in Western France. With insight I think that was good choice, out of my primary class a third ended up doing well academically and several have done very well professionally, the vast majority are in stable relationships and rather happy. Most people travelled to Paris to find a good job but I am not the only one who went abroad, people are starting to head back to Brittany though. You don't need to be posh to go to a Catholic school, in some cases the fees are adjusted depending on the means of the parents.
Btw there were girls vs boys games and it never crossed my mind that this was sexist. You didn't need to pretend to be Catholic to be admitted, tolerance was quite high on the agenda, discipline was enforced. My class once got into trouble as the headteacher felt we weren't making an effort to integrate a new gipsy kid. Although relatively calm I ended a few times in detention. Racism was a non issue as very few foreigners (apart from the Brits) come to live in Brittany. Political activism (by teachers or pupils) was a definite no no once you had crossed the school gates.