My youngest sons school is insisting he has to wear a helmet now, as of this term, allegedly it's been the policy all along. My elder two are now at secondary school but both went to this school and cycled without helmets, as has the youngest for over a year. I tried to have the discussion with the school but it was pointless. So instructions now are, he has to take a helmet and must be wearing it when entering/exiting school. Other than that he can please himself.
I've cycled with all of them, to and from school, quite a few times and have gradually been training them to ride on the roads properly. But in reality they make their own way, via road, pavement, cyclepath, cut through, cycling, walking to chat with friends, etc. Pretty much as kids have always made their way to and from school when not ensconced in a car.
I expressly allow them to use the pavements, particularly around the schools, on the understanding that they behave correctly towards other pavement users. This is due to the fact that school policies are closing car parks to discourage car run parents, which just means ridiculous on road/pavement, wherever, parking around the schools. Also the local councils idea that chicanes and speed ramps either side of schools are a good idea. This all adds up to appaling driving and attitudes around the schools at those two special times of the day. The rest of the time these are perfectly safe roads to cycle on and would be with or without the road architecture.
I've held my position and cycled through one of the chicanes on my priority, despite the best efforts of a car coming the other way to stop me. Being driven by a women, with mobile phone glued to ear, various kids she's just collected and then screams out of her window, get off the fucking road, at me.
Wow, mini rant over, I guess I don't care for school run parents then