I'm trying to remember what some of the ones in the sieve were. They were, like the ones above, an interesting mix. Lots of practical skills - to read, to wire a plug, to sew, to use power tools, carpentry. Several related to self worth and how to treat others - to love oneself, to show respect for others. There was riding a bike and driving a car - I guess we thought independance of movement was something to aspire to. 3 separate people wrote 'to say no'. And I remember cooking a curry, making soup, baking bread, baking cakes, and drinking a pint were all in there - we'd all just been very well fed and watered, so I think that food and drink was at the forefront of everyone's mind.
Probably my favourite was one written the our host, that had been her dad's lesson for life - 'make sure you earn and control your own money'. Although I quite liked 'to climb a tree' too.
I think they were divided between the things that we had been taught and appreciated having been taught, the things that we had learnt later in life and wished we had known or known how to do earlier, and the things we wished we had been taught. There were also a few things that we had never learnt, and probably never would, but thought sounded like fun. Like driving a train.
This is not restricted to girls either..
Same would apply to a boy as well.
Indeed - one of the things that came up in discussion was that many or all of the things that people had chosen they would equally want boys to learn.