Well, the answer at the end of the day was - it didn't matter.
You see, I thought that the clamp bolt had snapped at the back, but I found that it hadn't, but was a nice recessed allen bolt, and when I had looked at it in poor light I hadn't noticed that.
Of course, I only saw that everything was ok when I had chopped the gear and brake cables, removed the bar tape, removed one lever from the bar and then taken the bar & stem off.
Ah well, some nice new cables & bar tape and peace of mind isn't a bad price to pay for my stupidity.