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Title: Wearing a tie
Post by: Cudzoziemiec on 09 February, 2021, 01:23:33 pm
I thought we already had a thread about wearing a tie, but a search failed to find one. (I did find several curious or interesting threads about cable tie contests, wearing scarves as well as one called "What are you wearing?" https://yacf.co.uk/forum/index.php?topic=5538.msg94567#msg94567 and one "Today I am wearing" https://yacf.co.uk/forum/index.php?topic=45651.msg898645#msg898645). But none specifically about wearing a tie, so I've started one.

And the first thing is... "descended from the codpiece"! Really?
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Clothing is inherently political in its ability to represent the values of our culture, and the necktie is one of the most politically charged items of body adornment. For those unfamiliar, the necktie is derived from the codpiece, a fabric flap or pouch designed 500 years ago to emphasise a European nobleman’s importance through his large phallic size. Today, the necktie retains its connection with the codpiece through its arrow shaped design and length that directs the eye of an onlooker down towards a man’s groin.
https://www.theguardian.com/world/commentisfree/2021/feb/08/the-phallic-necktie-is-an-outdated-symbol-of-white-male-rule-in-new-zealands-parliament
I am doubtful. Even if it does share some origin, the connection is hardly obvious today.

As a bonus, I note that the percentage of Maori in parliament exceeds their percentage in the population at large (16% from what I've read elsewhere).
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: ElyDave on 09 February, 2021, 01:32:58 pm
I ticked never, rather than occasionally, having worn one about once every 5 years in the last 15 years. I just don't see how wearing a strip of cloth round your neck makes you any smarter or more competent. Just look at BSJ as an example he always wears one, rarely done up, and looks like a bag of shit
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: L CC on 09 February, 2021, 01:41:53 pm
Only at funerals.


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Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: ian on 09 February, 2021, 01:52:38 pm
They can look good if it's part of your dress style, but it's mostly blokes badly wrapped in a cheap suit and tie, like the sort of gift you don't want. It's a sartorial sulk. They're making me do it. Which is mostly the case.

I've not worn one since school. Or a blazer with a half-ripped off pocket for that matter.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: andrewc on 09 February, 2021, 01:54:18 pm
Occasionally when I want to look smart, usually for social events.   I've not worn one to work for about 20 years, but used to enjoy wearing eye wateringly bright ones to break up the monotony. 


These days I buy nice ones on ebay, and actually have far more than I could regularly wear. 


Not what I'm wearing today (still in PJ's!)  A William Morris pattern I think.


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Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Cudzoziemiec on 09 February, 2021, 01:55:59 pm
Just look at BSJ as an example he always wears one, rarely done up, and looks like a bag of shit
That makes wearing a tie the only truthful thing about him.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: pcolbeck on 09 February, 2021, 02:02:41 pm
That explanation for the origin of the tie seems entirely bogus to me.  Surely they evolved from neckerchiefs / cravats which aren't long and pointy at all.
The modern long tie with a pointy end is a 20th century fashion invention.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Cudzoziemiec on 09 February, 2021, 02:06:38 pm
Wikipedia says:
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The necktie that spread from Europe traces back to Croatian mercenaries serving in France during the Thirty Years' War (1618–1648). These mercenaries from the Croatian Military Frontier, wearing their traditional small, knotted neckerchiefs, aroused the interest of the Parisians.[2] Because of the difference between the Croatian word for Croats, Hrvati, and the French word, Croates, the garment gained the name cravat (cravate in French).[3] The boy-king Louis XIV began wearing a lace cravat around 1646, when he was seven, and set the fashion for French nobility. This new article of clothing started a fashion craze in Europe; both men and women wore pieces of fabric around their necks. From its introduction by the French king, men wore lace cravats, or jabots, that took a large amount of time and effort to arrange. These cravats were often tied in place by cravat strings, arranged neatly and tied in a bow.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Necktie#Origins

The phallic codpiece theory smacks to me of being invented to make a political point.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Pedal Castro on 09 February, 2021, 02:32:58 pm
Certainly used in ancient China as an identifier of who's on your side in battle. Possibly originated as a cloth napkin tucked into your shirt neck to keep food off your best clothes?
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Jaded on 09 February, 2021, 02:34:24 pm
You need an option for: White Tie only
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: The Family Cyclist on 09 February, 2021, 02:56:08 pm

There was tie and general work clothing mention here

https://yacf.co.uk/forum/index.php?topic=115123.msg2511930#msg2511930
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Mr Larrington on 09 February, 2021, 02:57:46 pm
I think the last time was for a job interview in 2006.  Before that, two funerals in 2003 and 2002.  The last time they were a regular thing was mid-1997.  But in the last two jobs, with pretty lax dress codes, there were still oddballs who wore them every day.  Bain't be natural.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Regulator on 09 February, 2021, 03:12:11 pm
I thought we already had a thread about wearing a tie, but a search failed to find one. (I did find several curious or interesting threads about cable tie contests, wearing scarves as well as one called "What are you wearing?" https://yacf.co.uk/forum/index.php?topic=5538.msg94567#msg94567 and one "Today I am wearing" https://yacf.co.uk/forum/index.php?topic=45651.msg898645#msg898645). But none specifically about wearing a tie, so I've started one.

And the first thing is... "descended from the codpiece"! Really?
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Clothing is inherently political in its ability to represent the values of our culture, and the necktie is one of the most politically charged items of body adornment. For those unfamiliar, the necktie is derived from the codpiece, a fabric flap or pouch designed 500 years ago to emphasise a European nobleman’s importance through his large phallic size. Today, the necktie retains its connection with the codpiece through its arrow shaped design and length that directs the eye of an onlooker down towards a man’s groin.
https://www.theguardian.com/world/commentisfree/2021/feb/08/the-phallic-necktie-is-an-outdated-symbol-of-white-male-rule-in-new-zealands-parliament
I am doubtful. Even if it does share some origin, the connection is hardly obvious today.

As a bonus, I note that the percentage of Maori in parliament exceeds their percentage in the population at large (16% from what I've read elsewhere).


C.16.5% of NZ's population is Maori.  There are currently 24 Maori MPs in the 120 member Parliament - so 20%.   

There are 7 Maori Electorate seats - but you don't actually have to be Maori to stand for one of those seats.

The Maori Party, headed by Rawiri Waititi, lost most of it's seats in the last election.  They've not exactly wowed the Maori population with their stances on many things. 

Most Maori MPs are members of the Labour Party (15) followed by the Green Party and ACT Party who have three each, the National Party has 2 and the Maori Party has 1.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: robgul on 09 February, 2021, 03:29:55 pm
Tie wearing since 2000 for me:

Two weddings (daughters)
One funeral (father-in-law)
One speaking engagement (The Pedal Club)
Three events as an invitee (RAF Sunset Ceremony at Valley, The Pickwick Club and Henley Regatta)
One commemoration event (75th Anniversay of the Great Escape at Zagan, Poland)

That's it (tie collection pruned from about 30 pre-2000 to just 5 now)

Suit wearing has only been at the events listed other than Poland where I wore a "sports jacket"  - suit collection now 2 (and they both still fit) one dark and formal, one a little more informal.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Jurek on 09 February, 2021, 03:39:55 pm
I've not owned or worn one for at least 40 years.
With the exception of a couple of people in the accounts department, nobody wears one at work.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Regulator on 09 February, 2021, 03:52:12 pm
I used to regularly wear ties and have some really nice ones.  I haven't really worn one for about 10 years, as no tie is now de rigueur in healthcare - even in admin.

Last few weddings I've been to have been no tie affairs as well...
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: davelodwig on 09 February, 2021, 03:55:50 pm
They can look good if it's part of your dress style, but it's mostly blokes badly wrapped in a cheap suit and tie, like the sort of gift you don't want. It's a sartorial sulk. They're making me do it. Which is mostly the case.

I've not worn one since school. Or a blazer with a half-ripped off pocket for that matter.

Previously I worked in a place which had a casual dress code, and have increasingly found myself dressing up.  Now I'm at a megacorp and there is some expectation I should make some sort of effort.

Despite the project I'm currently on's client being super laidback (employees wandering around in shorts and flip flops in winter complaining the building is cold*) I tend to wear waistcoats and shirts, and will dress them up with a tie or more usually a bowtie. The few I have are liberty or William Morris prints.

Occasionally I am accused of being the best dressed chap in the office.

* one commented on the internal social media that it was so cold they had to go out and buy a jumper, in December. You just can't help some people.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: andrewc on 09 February, 2021, 04:07:55 pm
They can look good if it's part of your dress style, but it's mostly blokes badly wrapped in a cheap suit and tie, like the sort of gift you don't want. It's a sartorial sulk. They're making me do it. Which is mostly the case.

I've not worn one since school. Or a blazer with a half-ripped off pocket for that matter.

Previously I worked in a place which had a casual dress code, and have increasingly found myself dressing up.  Now I'm at a megacorp and there is some expectation I should make some sort of effort.

Despite the project I'm currently on's client being super laidback (employees wandering around in shorts and flip flops in winter complaining the building is cold*) I tend to wear waistcoats and shirts, and will dress them up with a tie or more usually a bowtie. The few I have are liberty or William Morris prints.


I've got a couple of gorgeous Liberty silk waistcoats,  I just need to slim down a bit  :(
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: ElyDave on 09 February, 2021, 04:11:47 pm
last funeral was an uncle of mine, he stipulated bright clothes, not a tie in sight
last wedding on wife's side, there was a distinct age-based split of tie wearing or not.  I was around the cusp, but a sizeable portion of under 50's not wearing one, and most under 30's not
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: davelodwig on 09 February, 2021, 04:12:14 pm
They can look good if it's part of your dress style, but it's mostly blokes badly wrapped in a cheap suit and tie, like the sort of gift you don't want. It's a sartorial sulk. They're making me do it. Which is mostly the case.

I've not worn one since school. Or a blazer with a half-ripped off pocket for that matter.

Previously I worked in a place which had a casual dress code, and have increasingly found myself dressing up.  Now I'm at a megacorp and there is some expectation I should make some sort of effort.

Despite the project I'm currently on's client being super laidback (employees wandering around in shorts and flip flops in winter complaining the building is cold*) I tend to wear waistcoats and shirts, and will dress them up with a tie or more usually a bowtie. The few I have are liberty or William Morris prints.


I've got a couple of gorgeous Liberty silk waistcoats,  I just need to slim down a bit  :(

I have a local shop I am a frequent flyer at. 

https://www.jameslearofarundel.com/

Not that I'm playing up to any Cotswolds tropes.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Cudzoziemiec on 09 February, 2021, 04:15:11 pm
They can look good if it's part of your dress style, but it's mostly blokes badly wrapped in a cheap suit and tie, like the sort of gift you don't want. It's a sartorial sulk. They're making me do it. Which is mostly the case.

I've not worn one since school. Or a blazer with a half-ripped off pocket for that matter.

Previously I worked in a place which had a casual dress code, and have increasingly found myself dressing up.  Now I'm at a megacorp and there is some expectation I should make some sort of effort.

Despite the project I'm currently on's client being super laidback (employees wandering around in shorts and flip flops in winter complaining the building is cold*) I tend to wear waistcoats and shirts, and will dress them up with a tie or more usually a bowtie. The few I have are liberty or William Morris prints.

Occasionally I am accused of being the best dressed chap in the office.
I remember a long ago flatmate's father used to wear a bowtie. This was because he had a business printing t-shirts and a conventional tie might get caught in the machinery.

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* one commented on the internal social media that it was so cold they had to go out and buy a jumper, in December. You just can't help some people.
Ah, yes. An indoor temperature of at least 20C is in the Geneva Convention and the UN Charter, don't you know? (The heating thread is thataway>)
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: rafletcher on 09 February, 2021, 04:29:18 pm
I've worn one at a wedding, and a funeral, and 2, no 3 job interviews in the last 20 years. The and I only wore a suit to one of those events.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: andrewc on 09 February, 2021, 04:47:29 pm
I remember a long ago flatmate's father used to wear a bowtie. This was because he had a business printing t-shirts and a conventional tie might get caught in the machinery.


My first ever job was office monkey, ensuring that a couple of huge industrial spec dot matrix printers were fed with concertina'd insurance certificates,  then getting those certificates from the other end & feeding them into a "burster" to remove the punched edges & split them up.  The tie was tucked away for that job.  Dusty as well, I used to itch & sneeze.   Elf & safe tea?  What was that ? 
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: T42 on 09 February, 2021, 05:18:03 pm
In the last 30 years, I've worn one for two funerals, one wedding and one naturalisation ceremony.  It was the same tie every time, and the same suit.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: pcolbeck on 09 February, 2021, 05:23:10 pm
My father in law is a cravat wearer. He's not posh more country. Might also be because he used to be a stone mason, ties are not very good when working on castle or cathedral walls.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Wobbly John on 09 February, 2021, 06:00:01 pm
I usually wear a tie at work, even though it is not a requirement, and often when I dress smartly. I can't remember if have riden on YACF rides wearing a tie, but I have done other group rides wearing one.  :smug:

I've certainly worn a cravat on a YACF ride...
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Jurek on 09 February, 2021, 06:07:18 pm
I usually wear a tie at work, even though it is not a requirement, and often when I dress smartly. I can't remember if have riden on YACF rides wearing a tie, but I have done other group rides wearing one.  :smug:

I've certainly worn a cravat on a YACF ride...
I would've thought wearing a tie at your work was a bit dodgy if there was a chance of it getting caught up in the chuck of a Myford or a Colchester - unless the tie was a clip-on....
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: citoyen on 09 February, 2021, 06:13:58 pm
And the first thing is... "descended from the codpiece"! Really?

Ascended from the codpiece, surely?

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Today, the necktie retains its connection with the codpiece through its arrow shaped design and length that directs the eye of an onlooker down towards a man’s groin.

Reminds me of the lyrics from the Belle & Sebastian song Step Into My Office Baby:
"I've got to change my ways
Dress for business every day
A sharp suit and a kipper tie
A big arrow pointing to my fly"
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: SteveC on 09 February, 2021, 06:30:58 pm
When I started in my current job, twenty-six years ago, the dress code was jacket and tie. Few people had jackets with them, let alone wore them, but those were the roolz.
As time as worn on, and we've been moved within parent organisations, sold, and absorbed into ever larger groups, the requirement for such things has declined to the state that, apparently we no longer have a dress code at all. So, when we used to be in the office, you could see everything from torn jeans and tatty t-shirts to rather posh suits.
I gave up wearing a tie in our office about ten years ago. I do have one in my locker in case of a customer visit, but I think I've worn it once.
I do wear a suit and tie on other sites (customer or internal). I'm usually being sold as a 'consultant' and there is still some sort of vague authority about dressing up. Mind, it's been over five years since I had to go anywhere other than base.
Bizarrely, the only time I regularly wear a tie is when dancing for one of my morris teams, whose kit is based on a predecessor team from 1901. 
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Wobbly John on 09 February, 2021, 06:41:27 pm
I usually wear a tie at work, even though it is not a requirement, and often when I dress smartly. I can't remember if have riden on YACF rides wearing a tie, but I have done other group rides wearing one.  :smug:

I've certainly worn a cravat on a YACF ride...
I would've thought wearing a tie at work was a bit dodgy if there was a chance of it getting caught up in the chuck of a Myford or a Colchester - unless the tie was a clip-on....

Not many Myfords or Colchester lathes in schools now. Guarding is much better, and I would wear a buttoned up boiler suit when working on such machinery. In the home workshop, I have a Drummond lathe with open gears and belts, so I'm used to respecting moving machinery.

I would still take my tie off if using the polisher or bench grinder at work, though!
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Jaded on 09 February, 2021, 06:46:23 pm
Funerals. Several each year over the last few years.
Reading a lesson at the Carol Service.
At the formal dinner of the Twinning trip in France
Laying wreaths the War Memorial.

For business, probably not for 20 years. Some years ago I told my Canukistan Business Partner that we no longer wear ties when going to business meetings. He appeared at breakfast with his top button done up  ;D
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: MikeFromLFE on 09 February, 2021, 06:50:24 pm
I will be wearing a tie tomorrow morning for the first time in maybe 10 years (as far as I can work out).
I've got an in-person job interview at a school.
My logic for the noose is that the school dress code includes a tie, and if the children are expected to wear one, then probably the staff should too.

I've got a good collection of really nice ties - many of the bought for pennies in South Korea - from when the job required them. I will be wearing my old school tie - not the original from 50 years ago, but a very smart replica flogged to me by the old boys club some years since.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Jurek on 09 February, 2021, 06:51:04 pm
I usually wear a tie at work, even though it is not a requirement, and often when I dress smartly. I can't remember if have riden on YACF rides wearing a tie, but I have done other group rides wearing one.  :smug:

I've certainly worn a cravat on a YACF ride...
I would've thought wearing a tie at work was a bit dodgy if there was a chance of it getting caught up in the chuck of a Myford or a Colchester - unless the tie was a clip-on....

Not many Myfords or Colchester lathes in schools now. Guarding is much better, and I would wear a buttoned up boiler suit when working on such machinery. In the home workshop, I have a Drummond lathe with open gears and belts, so I'm used to respecting moving machinery.

I would still take my tie off if using the pollisher or bench grinder at work, though!
I'm clearly behind the times.......
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Wobbly John on 09 February, 2021, 07:05:38 pm
I've just remembered - we do have a Myford!

ML8 wood lathe. I would remove my tie for that one too (and put on my Screwfix baseball cap on backwards to keep the shavings from going down the back of my shirt collar)
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Jurek on 09 February, 2021, 07:07:25 pm
I've just remembered - we do have a Myford!

ML8 wood lathe. I would remove my tie for that one too (and put on my Screwfix baseball cap on backwards to keep the shavings from going down the back of my shirt collar)
;D
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Cudzoziemiec on 09 February, 2021, 07:26:17 pm
For business, probably not for 20 years. Some years ago I told my Canukistan Business Partner that we no longer wear ties when going to business meetings. He appeared at breakfast with his top button done up  ;D
I think that's comparatively less odd than some of the other suit-no suit hybrid styles: suit with t-shirt (sometimes with a tie printed on it!)  for instance, or suit jacket, shirt, tie with jeans and trainers. But hey, it's only fashion!
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: FifeingEejit on 09 February, 2021, 07:33:04 pm
In normal times I wear one in the office, but since around April I've stuck to a polo shirt when I'm in because meh.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: nicknack on 09 February, 2021, 07:40:48 pm
I can't remember when I last wore one. My funeral shirt is collarless so I can do without the stupid things. I'm not sure if I can still tie one.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: ian on 09 February, 2021, 08:14:19 pm
I'm not sure I ever could tie one, our school ties were deliberately mangled, usually the giant knot with the thin end out front, or we'd tuck the entire lot into our shirts. Tie that tie properly! Never did. We couldn't roll up our skirt hems like the girls, so it was our only option to rebel.

I did, when I first started going back to the office for a couple of days, take a pair of trousers to change out of my shorts (I'd take the train in and then ride from the station and then cycle all the way home). Then one day I was sitting there and thought why, I may as well just wear shorts. That was the closest I got to dressing for the office. I think that was a hang over from 'business casual' in the US.

I did lie about the tie, I have worn one since school days. Back when I lived out in the colonies, I used to get invited to the occasional dinner at the CEO's country club, a proper southern place (where the restaurant didn't have menus, you just told them what you wanted and they somehow made it happen) they always used to have to bring me a tie and jacket from the shame closet. Well, at least you managed trousers, sir.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: drossall on 09 February, 2021, 09:29:25 pm
I stayed at my previous employer for over 30 years and just carried on wearing one as fewer and fewer around me did so. When I was made redundant and moved, to a similar environment, absolutely no-one did, not even the CEO, so I didn't either (except for interview, obviously). Now I haven't worn one for about eight years, and still have loads left from when I did.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Mr Larrington on 10 February, 2021, 01:12:40 am
I have a sneaking suspicion that I've forgotten how to tie one as well.  But I'm not planning on going to any weddings, funerals or bar-mitzvahs any time soon and if Miss von Brandenburg's long-postponed wedding reception ever happens it'll be strictly jeans and T-shaped shirts.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Kim on 10 February, 2021, 02:12:07 pm
Needs a "not since school" option really, especially for the female forumites who can easily avoid ties in adult contexts.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Cudzoziemiec on 10 February, 2021, 02:42:36 pm
Needs a "not since school" option really, especially for the female forumites who can easily avoid ties in adult contexts.
I was kind of assuming ( :hand:) adult contexts only. So 'Never' = 'Never as an adult', which is the same really as 'Not since school'.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Cudzoziemiec on 10 February, 2021, 02:45:21 pm
I see one person has voted for the 'codpiece (or other device to attract the onlooker's eye to my groin)'. :o ;)

Well, I'm presuming they were joking, but you never know.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Woofage on 10 February, 2021, 05:01:19 pm
I last wore a tie to a job interview about 15 years ago I think. I don't even own any now.

Although I voted "never", I do wear a bow tie for orchestra concerts as it's part of the dress code (as a player, not part of the audience!).
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Cudzoziemiec on 11 February, 2021, 10:16:21 am
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New Zealand’s male MPs will no longer be required to wear ties in parliament, following a row over the item of clothing that involved the speaker ejecting Māori party co-leader Rawiri Waititi from the chamber for refusing to wear one.
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2021/feb/11/new-zealand-male-mps-no-longer-have-to-wear-ties-after-maori-mp-ejected
They must have seen the poll! (34% occasionally, 32% never)
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: bobb on 16 February, 2021, 09:50:26 am
For weddings and a funeral.

Not worn one for work sine the 90s. I actually quite like wearing ties, but obviously not enough to wear one regularly...
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Ham on 23 March, 2021, 07:16:16 pm
For weddings and a funeral.


I saw that film, too.

I used to wear ties daily, and found it convenient to avoid carrying a suit on the bike, as it stood duty for a suit in most occasions. Trousers & white shirt was my standard office attire, the daily tie got dropped a few years back although I still keep one at the office. I used also to have an affectation in my yoof to wear a (proper) bow tie, which I found was particular fun when gurls invited me to demonstrate how to tie it on them.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Cudzoziemiec on 10 February, 2022, 09:23:18 am
Use the ties!
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/feb/10/like-most-men-i-now-only-wear-ties-at-funerals-so-why-do-i-have-60-of-them
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I found more in a bag at the back of the wardrobe, waiting to be taken somewhere. But where? Who would want them? Charity shops must be sick of the sight of them. What is going to become of them all? The average length of a tie is, I read, 58 inches or just short of 1.5 metres. My collection alone, laid end to end, would stretch for 90 metres. Let’s say there are 30 million males in the UK – including all the tie-wearing schoolboys – and they have, on average, five ties each: that comes to well over 200,000km of ties. A use must be found for them.

And a comment therefrom:
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in your attire are you a tie tyer?
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: ian on 10 February, 2022, 09:44:26 am
Thinking about it, I don't think I know a single person who wears a tie these days. Certainly, no one aboard my current mothership (or the previous one). Things went downhill when we let women into the workforce.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Cudzoziemiec on 10 February, 2022, 10:36:43 am
He mentions a TV show in the early 90s on which, radically for the time, the presenters wore no jackets. But they kept their ties on. Observation suggests this was a media blip and the formal jacket is outlasting the tie by some margin.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: ian on 10 February, 2022, 11:00:41 am
Having interviewed a lot of people recently (looks at calendar, and there's more) – come to think of it, I don't remember any of the male candidates wearing a tie. I should ask them to stand up and parade in front of the camera to check they're neat and tidy, above and below the equator.

Possibly interviewing from home has killed that final refuge of the tie. Back in the pre-plague era, if you saw someone in a tie and M&S suit in the office, you knew they were there for an interview.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: davelodwig on 10 February, 2022, 11:39:32 am
Quite often, including bow ties. But then I also wear proper shirts, and waistcoats.

I never used to bother working in IT, but I suspect it's a combination of feeling middle aged, and being surrounded by people who clearly haven't made any effort to be presentable.  I mean when did scruffy t-shirts and jogging bottoms become OK in the workplace.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: ElyDave on 10 February, 2022, 11:55:54 am
I was duped into wearing a tie for a meeting with [VERY IMPORTANT CLIENT] on Tuesday, first work situation in >10 years. 

The male half of our party wore ties, the client did not.  My initial instinct should have been respected
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Cudzoziemiec on 18 April, 2022, 12:49:31 pm
Never mind ties, suits are on the way out. But not dead. More migrating from the office to special occasions such as weddings.
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Andy Saxton, strategic insight director for fashion at Kantar, doesn’t expect the market for office suits to recover but reckons people are more willing than ever to spend money on suits for weddings and parties. “Casualisation has been growing for quite some years now,” he says– while wearing a navy jumper with dark jeans. “The suits market is down 40% in five years, I don’t think that is ever coming back to that level. But I do feel there are huge opportunities for dressing-up for celebrations – I feel like everyone is going to go very big on weddings.”

While in the office they are being replaced by French peasants' coats.
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The suit is being replaced, Paget says, not with working from home outfits of joggers, jeans or hoodies but with “chore jackets”.

Asked to explain, he says: “It’s in the name really.” They are jackets first designed for tradesmen to wear for handiwork, painting or plumbing. Originating in late 1800s France, where they were worn by farm workers and labourers, the jackets were dubbed “bleu de travail” or “worker’s blues” for their deep shade of indigo.

“Workwear staples that are comfortable and practical have been elevated to office attire, particularly in the creative industries,” Paget says. “The fabrics and detailing have been improved on, but fundamentally they are clothes that an old-school plumber would have worn.”

I'd not heard of these so I looked them up. Predictably, some of them are priced at the equivalent of a old school plumber's annual income. I don't like the word 'gentrification' but I reckon it applies more to clothes and food than places.

https://www.theguardian.com/fashion/2022/apr/18/the-end-of-the-suit-has-covid-finished-off-the-menswear-staple
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Mr Larrington on 18 April, 2022, 01:19:31 pm
(Clicks link)

That bloke in the plain jacket and check weskit and trousers :jurek:
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Cudzoziemiec on 11 November, 2022, 03:45:17 pm
Ties are mandatory in the US House of Reps.
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What happens to his wardrobe if Fetterman progresses remains to be seen. In the House of Representatives, men must wear a coat and tie at all times while Congress is in session. Fetterman owns a suit – most publicly worn when he was sworn in as lieutenant governor in 2019 – but insists that he mostly wears it at Halloween.
https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2022/nov/11/its-powerful-how-john-fettermans-hoodie-won-the-popular-vote
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: arabella on 12 November, 2022, 06:47:21 pm
I voted "never".
Perhaps there should be "No, cos of not presenting as male there is no society-imposed for me to need to do so anyways"
with concomitant "Yes, in spite of not presenting as male where there is no society-imposed for me to need to do so anyways"
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Cudzoziemiec on 12 November, 2022, 07:07:58 pm
I voted "never".
Perhaps there should be "No, cos of not presenting as male there is no society-imposed for me to need to do so anyways"
with concomitant "Yes, in spite of not presenting as male where there is no society-imposed for me to need to do so anyways"
Fair does. There might have been a reason I didn't do so, but I can't remember.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Jaded on 12 November, 2022, 09:05:54 pm
Thrown a load of ties away today.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Cudzoziemiec on 12 November, 2022, 09:08:04 pm
Thrown a load of ties away today.
Cutting your losses.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: barakta on 12 November, 2022, 10:28:12 pm
Ties are mandatory in the US House of Reps.
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What happens to his wardrobe if Fetterman progresses remains to be seen. In the House of Representatives, men must wear a coat and tie at all times while Congress is in session. Fetterman owns a suit – most publicly worn when he was sworn in as lieutenant governor in 2019 – but insists that he mostly wears it at Halloween.
https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2022/nov/11/its-powerful-how-john-fettermans-hoodie-won-the-popular-vote

I wonder if part of the reason Fetterman is wearing hoodies is following his stroke? It's not uncommon to be left with weakness on one side which may improve but never return to 100%. If so, he could request 'reasonable accommodations' in Congress. I don't know if the Americans with Disabilities Act or Section 504 of the Rehabilitation Act 1973 apply to congress themselves tho cos I am not a US lawyer.

In the UK we had Jared O'Meara who was an MP for a short while (he was a dodgy person). Jared has cerebral palsy and can't do shirts independently, he had to borrow one and his dad helped him on the election results night. In the UK, our Equality Act doesn't apply to parliament itself (nice little exception they have), but the Speaker agreed Jared could wear a plain smart teeshirt and open jacket rather than shirt and tie because of his disability.

I do think demanding ties in most situations is silly. There are other ways to be smart.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Wowbagger on 12 November, 2022, 11:15:23 pm
One of our Green Party candidates in the most recent local elections raised the topic of candidates' sartorial standards at a meeting a couple of months ago. I was the first to say that that would instantly disqualify me from standing for the council. To be honest, I don't really want to stand again* anyway and I certainly don't want to be elected. If I bow out now I can boast that I've stood for the council on 4 occasions and never come last. Given that I've never represented Tory or Labour, that's not a bad boast.

*I came to this conclusion a few months ago when I attended a Police/Community liaison meeting. All the topics discussed could have been straight from the comments section of the Daily Heil. It was at that point that I realised how I'm really a misanthropist and that the council chamber is full of people I'd much rather not spend any time with.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Wowbagger on 12 November, 2022, 11:21:24 pm
(https://scontent.flhr12-1.fna.fbcdn.net/v/t39.30808-6/278377871_358465622990292_7570438672463787143_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_p843x403&_nc_cat=106&ccb=1-7&_nc_sid=730e14&_nc_ohc=DM5Vmsr8avkAX8frOpv&_nc_ht=scontent.flhr12-1.fna&oh=00_AfClCSSDqfWcsnlDQWtYg7RRKaZLzbz5iuzJCKGpVzlDpg&oe=63755543)

That's me on last year's election leaflet. The whole photo includes my bike as well. The Hat is from the Prittlewell Collection by Mrs. Wow.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Kim on 12 November, 2022, 11:29:25 pm
That does look a bit like a 'choose your character' screen from some sort of fighty computer game...
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Basil on 12 November, 2022, 11:42:44 pm
Choose your Fighty Character name for the Wowbagger.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Jaded on 13 November, 2022, 12:22:14 am
I saw a band that looked a bit like that.
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Wowbagger on 13 November, 2022, 12:50:56 am
I saw a band that looked a bit like that.

An unpopular beat combo, m'lud?
Title: Re: Wearing a tie
Post by: Cudzoziemiec on 14 November, 2022, 10:28:49 am
Would be better without the dark glasses. As it is, the leaflet makes you look like the Green Party Outlaw Biker Gang.



Should have got Charlotte to pop up and do a photo for you, LEL style!