I agree. Much as the money I've put in to my light bike makes me want to use it on events, the reassurance that I'll be able to stop no matter how cold or tired my hands are makes me want toi take the bog standard disc bike. Sadly, my bikes aren't equal in all other respects, so the gap is 2kg+. However, the ways I've saved weight (asssaver instead of guards; very light, stiff wheels; very light, stiff carbon bars; very light, stiff carbon post; very light, barely padded saddle) on my quick bike have made it feel a much riskier prospect on 200km+ events. In contrast, getting on the admittedly still light disc bike is like popping on comfy slippers.
I think a Domane SLR could be built sub 7.5kg and still be comfy, but I think you'd be looking north of £5k - the Ultegra equipped 6 is £4K. You'd need Red22, some Aeolus 3 wheels, maybe some Ritchey WCS bits.
http://www.trekbikes.com/us/en_US/bikes/road-bikes/endurance-race-bikes/domane/domane-slr-6-disc/p/1477300-2017It would look lush (and can take 35mm tyres and guards if so minded). BTW, anyone interested in the Isocore bar, I hear it's so comfy, but the very square shape and soft feel makes in "unsuitable for sprinting" < sounds great to me. Mate who's done the TransCon has tied it and says it really filters ("deadens" road noise).