Maybe she's of a mentality that thinks you only do what you "have to", and if something is so astronomically strange as someone wanting to do something outside the normal sitting-on-the-sofa then there must be an unfathomable and mysterious reason behind it.
At least it sounds as though she's not being superior or condescending, which is nice. Some people can't cope with it and get almost nasty about it, e.g. examples I've mentioned above.
Each to their own!
I think that most people tend to be conformist and follow the crowd. When they see someone who does it their own way, they sometimes have trouble accepting it. Look atall the daft reasons that people suggest as to why people cycle instead of drive a car.
It's green.
For health and fitness reasons, such as getting fit or losing weight.
Can't afford a car/saving money.
They're a weirdo.
Never bacause we just enjoy it and prefer cycling to driving a car.
The other reasons are very good bonuses though. (especially being labelled a weirdo
)
Cars are marketed and catred for very well. Ever since I was in primary school I was taught that cars are desirable and I must bow down to the motor car (such as when I was taught that
I had to be carefull when crossing the road and it is
my fault if I get hurt or killed doing so)
It's forced upon us all that driving a car is the way to travel and any other means is for unfortunates.
I developed a habbit of asking why I should do as everyone else does. At 17 I decided against taking driving lessons. I asked myself what I needed a car for. Work was 5 miles away. Where did I go that I couldn't get to on my bike. I could cycle 200 miles in a day. If I needed to go far, instead ofpaying a lot ofmoney for driving lessons, cars etc, I could just buy a train ticket and leave the driving to a professional while I did as I pleased. I could always learn to drive if I needed to. I still don't drive and have no intention of doing so. I also don't own a TV, refrigerator, mobile phone or freezer. This often surprises people who I expect, are all following the crowd and don't think for themselves. But saying that, we all do that to some degree. At least, I know that I do and expect that everyone does the same.
I could ask, "What
makes people want to drive?" But I think that I may know the answer to that. I'm sure tht if I asked someone, they wouldn't come up with anything different to what I think, but perhaps with less observation on why. But some people do enjoy driving.