Don't give up on sedums. They are usually pretty robust and brilliant for insects.
But in my experience they are not especially happy in pots, and this year the weather has made that worse.
In pots they have to be kept well watered, but that means the compost is wet all the time, especially if the pots sit in a saucer of water. Sun heats up plastic pots very quickly, so the roots are in hot wet anaerobic conditions- it cooks them!
Large terracotta (breathable) pots are better, as the water evaporates from the surface slowly, cooling the compost and letting air in.
Whatever, tip it out and look at the roots - post a photo?