Wireless UFL connectors - won't connect

[ScumOfTheRoad]

Calling Wifi or radio experts please. I have a Jetson Nano (which is a lovely thing).
I attached a miniPIC wireless card Intel model 8265NGW
This is supposed to have two UFL standard tiny antenna connectors.
https://www.instructables.com/id/interfacing-ufl-connectors/

I have now bought 2 lots of antennas from Amazon, all supposed to be UFL sttandard.
When I try to click on the antenna plug to the socket nothing happens. No click sound.
I know these connectors are delicate and are not intended for multiple cycles, but still
they should work first time.

Am I just a victim of manufacturing tolerances?

[rusky]

One might be Murata, they look the same but are a tiny bit different

[ScumOfTheRoad]

Thanks!