Firstly, don't call me a kid.
Secondly, I don't drink alcohol. I don't piss my money into a toilet.
I see you waste your money on something you piss down the toilet, I waste my money on something that lasts abit longer.
Sorry, but from our aged perspective, you're a kid. Don't worry, you grow out of it, and then you spend all your time scoffing at the youth of today yourself. We all get a turn at it.
With regard to the post above about "Would the boyfriend do the same for her, making meals etc?"..
My boyrfriend sent me that link the other day, saying he reckoned I was already the kind of girl who'd muck in and support, and that made him very lucky. He also pointed out that he'd do the same back. That's the important bit. I hate it when I see people posting about how their other half doesn't let them do stuff, I end up wondering why some couples are still together when they appear to be unable to give and take - and that works both ways.
Yeah, I thought the post was funny myself, if a little on the edge of rude- bearing in mind that the OP was new and apparently genuinely seeking advice. Maybe it was the sor tof thing better saved for rough and tumble debate between people who know each other. But it did miss the vital insight that it's a two way process.
Also, if it's his money he's pouring into it, fair enough. In the situation of a couple living together, with a budget and kids etc, or if the guy was getting into debt, then there does come a time when priorities need to be considered.
By the way, just asking, but how DO you screw someone's ears off?