I've got the same bodylink seat on my speedmachine - although more reclined than the grasshopper, I've got it set to the more upright end. If you feel that you're slipping down the seat, you can undo the qr at the lower end and lift that section of seat upwards - that helps a little...I think there's a more correct order of doing things in the later manuals.
Re height - if it's too low, you may fell a bit squashed up around the shoulders, too high and it might fell like there's not much support around the top of your shoulders (iirc, from trying both the med and large Challenge seats at one point).
Having a lumbar curve doesn't seem to come into it as such, I think the middle mount point is unadjustable and you're just moving top/bottom to suit length/slippage.
Hillstarts - IMO much as I mentioned earlier (#6 ?) - until you're used to the balance you (feel that you) need a good shove on the first stroke to get some momentum, but once you're used to the balance it's a lot more leisurely.