Our six year old daughter is developing her skills for later life. I can see why they say girls are far more manipulative than boys.
Her latest tactic when crossed is to flee to her room and fling herself onto her bed, sobbing inconsolably and to continue this for as long as it takes until someone comes to try to cajole her back into society once more.
What's most impressive is her dedication to the role.
When possible of course we ignore her and let her get on with it rather than reward the tantrum but this results in a prolonged battle of wills.
Today at lunch I mildly rebuked her for spilling a full glass of juice by not looking where she was putting it.
That resulted in an hour and twenty minutes of utter dejection, with us sitting downstairs trying to ignore it. Thank heavens she hasn't cottoned onto the fact that it is much easier to ignore when she takes herself to her room.
Eventually she issued a series of ultimatums. The first on her Princess notepad and delivered sullenly by an arm through a doorway read:
"To mummy and daddy if you downt cum into theis room I wil stay in theis room thorerthe (forever)".
As she calmed down a little I did go to see her and suggest she might like to join us, however it appears that I was not suitably apologetic for this resulted in more sobbing and a further note, this time written on a sheet of loo roll (I suppose she couldn't demand her notepad back) and delivered in person by someone trying very hard to stay sad.
"To daddy bcaus you didnt mack my happy I will stay in theis room thorerthe."
I totally ignored that one and about 10 minutes later got a half-smiling Lillian note, again on loo roll:
"OK I wil cum downstairs love from Lillian"
And of course then it was like nothing had ever happened.
Men of earth, you have been warned.