I went for the XT T8000s and a pair of Giro traineresque shoes in the sale, and fitted them earlier.
They went on easily enough and after 3 iterations I think I’ve got the cleats lined up well enough to venture beyond the street. I’ve never used SPDs before, and they feel quite different to the crank brothers I’m used to.
The pinned side holds my foot well enough for the more utility end of that bikes use.
And I like how both pedals and shoes look, so that’s a plus. Thanks for all the advice.