Shimano QR skewers are tougher than most.
Or strap the bike to the sides of the car, so the skewer isn't taking all of the force?
I was going to mention the same things. In any event an internal cam skewer, well lubricated, failing that a 'long bolt' type.
BTW if you are not capable of fully tightening the skewer, is its strength relevant? in any event neither the skewer or the fork ends are intended to see any local bending loads; either (or both) could break. Putting a strap across (essentially so that the bikes can't fall over even if the skewer is loose) is a good idea; it avoids any weird loads on the forks too.
I'd also note that the position and orientation of the lever makes a big difference to how easy it is to tighten it; if the fixing is at the front of the boot, is it easier to kneel on the seats and lean over to get at the QR lever?
Also is the mounting well designed? A well tightened QR skewer exerts about half a tonne of clamping force, and this is reacted by the wheel fittings in the car. If they are not well designed and/or are made of low strength materials, you might be squashing them with the skewer before they are tight enough to hold the bike.
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