OK, I give up, you win.
No. I'm not trying to just score points. I'm trying to explore the issue.
I have only trained as a civil engineer, have studied pavement design and have worked for a highway authority.
It's good to hear you're coming at this from a professional perspective. I'd make the slightly cheeky comment that a lot of highway engineers seem to know bugger all, but that's mainly about design & usage rather than construction, and, anyway, I know you're an intelligent and thoughtful person, so I respect your qualifications and experience.
Heavy traffic loadings damage roads, water (particularly frozen water) damages roads if it gets under the surface. Lightweight traffic merely scrubs off poor surfacing and worsens already existing damage caused by other factors. If water doesn't get under the surface and only lightweight traffic (cars and vans) use a properly-designed road, it will last for many decades.
OK. I believe that may be true. The examples I've seen may just be of poor construction or repair, which are more susceptible. There are a great many I can think of, not least my parents' road.
I still believe that, given the same payload, a van's loading is greater than that of a car, and thus there will be more damage. However, if the damage caused by cars is not significant, then that of vans may not be particularly increased, except in the case of poorly constructed roads.
That was not my principal point anyway. I was more concerned for our sakes about the wilful choice of a vehicle with impaired visibility when it is not necessary.