I obviously touched a raw nerve somewhere or your style of writing is to abrasive
Neither. You just got completely the wrong end of the stick. I was just commenting on your post and you went off on one for reasons best known to yourself.
The point is that it really isn't the same kind of word in itself as Nigger or Paki, although in certain contexts gets used as an insult, because being Jewish both historically and still today, is enough in itself to be a locus of hate. You say you know about this. About a quarter of my family* ended up in the UK because of it. They, by the way, were Jews.
And you really should read some Howard Jacobson. All about Jews who don't like being Jews, Goyim who secretly want to be Jews... anyway, you get the idea. Very much about Jews and being Jewish, by a Jew.
*the rest of us were Scots, French, and American music-hall entertainers. We certainly learned how to laugh at ourselves...