Oi! Cousin!
Look, I know it's going to be hard for you, having lost your mum earlier this year.
How about, for once, though, thinking of others? Sure many people seek solace in a bottle after the loss of a loved one, but your behaviour is fitting of a teen, not the >50 year old you are. You choosing to offload just how shit your life is onto my mum, your mum's sister (!) is just fucking crass, insensitive and inconsiderate, especially considering that my mum is not only having to deal with her own grief but is worried sick about my dad who had a lump removed from his nose only to find it needs radio therapy to completely eradicate the tumour.
So in short, shut the fuck up, pull your life together and realise that the world doesn't revolve around you!