Had a minor falling out with another rider last week over a matter of group riding etiquette. Would be interested to hear the thoughts of others.
It was an organised event but I was riding solo at the time.
A group started to come past me, passing very close. The second rider in the line started cutting back in before he was fully past me and almost clipped my front wheel. I had to shout a warning to him. A few more riders came by, also very close and cutting in quite tightly but not as bad as that first idiot.
There were still a couple of riders left to pass me when the gradient turned upwards very slightly and the front of the group slowed down, which caused the gap between me and the rider in front to close up, preventing the next rider in line from cutting in.
He then made a sarky comment about me leaving him dangling in the wind. I suggested that if there wasn't room for the group to overtake properly, they should have waited behind me (actually, it was a wide road with no traffic so there really was no need to pass so closely). He told me to fuck off and sped off to the front of the group rather than continue the discussion.
I saw him at the next feed station and went over to apologise for my tetchiness, explaining that I was pissed off with the rider who had nearly taken out my front wheel rather than him. He started having a go at me, questioning my experience and ability to ride with a group.
Annoyingly, it was only later that I realised that I should have replied to that by pointing out that I wasn't part of the group and didn't want to be, and that rather than have a go at me, he should have had a word with some of the other members of the group (he was in a club jersey and clearly a very experienced rider but I question the ability of some of the other members of the group, having ridden with some of them at different parts of the ride, which is part of the reason I preferred to ride alone). Instead I tried to be conciliatory over what was really just a silly misunderstanding but he felt I was in the wrong and wouldn't have it any other way. We left it at that and avoided each other for the rest of the ride.
I feel that all I was doing was maintaining a steady pace. I don't believe I was speeding up, as he claimed - I tried to point out that it was the group that was slowing rather than me speeding up, but he wouldn't have it – and I certainly didn't deliberately block him out. To maintain the gap between me and the rider in front, I would have had to apply the brakes - which is something I try to avoid doing in situations when I don't know who is behind me.
Besides which, I also felt it was fucking rude of them to cut in front of me like that. Surely a group passing a solo rider is obliged to give plenty of room and not ride in a way that forces the solo rider to change their line or speed?
What it comes down to is that there was a difference of opinion in our respective interpretations of the situation. I feel he was treating me as if I were part of the group. I didn't want to be part of the group, I was happy riding by myself at that part of the ride, and I felt that the group should have given me more room.
Should I have slowed down to allow the other rider to cut in, or was I entitled to hold my line and pace? Was he entitled to take his place in the line and was I wrong to "block" him?
It was just a stupid situation, nothing bad happened, but it left me feeling pissed off and spoiled my mood for a while. But I would like to get some opinions on the etiquette in situations like that.
Initially, I was convinced I was in the right, but what made me really start to doubt my sanity was that a few miles further on, another group passed me - a much faster group in a tighter formation. They looked like more experienced riders, all used to riding in fast groups. Again they passed very closely and again they cut in very sharply so that again I had to warn one of the riders to avoid having my front wheel clipped.
I did then start to wonder if perhaps it was me who was in the wrong - although other groups had managed to pass me without nearly knocking me off, so I just don't know...